Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys? ( Archived) (45)

Jun 4, 2010 7:22 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?

dunno
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Jun 4, 2010 9:31 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
MrInteresting: From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?

You could be right, but it depends also on how liberal is her family. Does she fit well with your family?
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Jun 4, 2010 9:33 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
MrInteresting: From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?


wrong... but i'm not indian

these are modern times dunno
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Jun 4, 2010 9:34 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
MrInteresting: From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?


Personally, I feel the Indians are far more liberal than say the pakistani's.
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Jun 4, 2010 9:35 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
MrInteresting: From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?


The world is becoming more integrated all the time.

How much could it hurt to ask? beer
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Jun 4, 2010 9:37 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Theres lots of "mixed marriages" if you will in Canada No-one would think anything of it dunno
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Jun 4, 2010 9:38 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Barrellofart: The world is becoming more integrated all the time.

How much could it hurt to ask?


Nothing ventured...nothing gained, roll the dice wine
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Jun 4, 2010 9:39 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
venusenvy: Theres lots of "mixed marriages" if you will in Canada No-one would think anything of it

Toronto is known as the worlds best for interracial couples.peace
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Jun 4, 2010 9:44 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: Theres lots of "mixed marriages" if you will in Canada No-one would think anything of it


In general yes, that's true, but I wanted to date an Indian girl about 20 years ago, and I wasn't brown or Hindu, so it wasn't allowed by her parents. sigh


Oh well, I pretty much gave up dating shortly after anyway.laugh
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Jun 4, 2010 9:45 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
kidatheart: In general yes, that's true, but I wanted to date an Indian girl about 20 years ago, and I wasn't brown or Hindu, so it wasn't allowed by her parents. Oh well, I pretty much gave up dating shortly after anyway.


Try dating one that doesn't live with her parents. beer
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Jun 4, 2010 9:46 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
umeakuka
umeakukaumeakukaDalian, Liaoning China4 Threads 2 Polls 19 Posts
of course YES..... let me tell u, if u still thinking that way,
THEN U ARE CENTURIES BEHIND PRESENT !!!!!!!! go for the gal of your dream dude...... RACE IS JUST NOTHING BUT D SWEET VARIETY OF LIFE...... TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT
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Jun 4, 2010 9:46 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
kidatheart: In general yes, that's true, but I wanted to date an Indian girl about 20 years ago, and I wasn't brown or Hindu, so it wasn't allowed by her parents. Oh well, I pretty much gave up dating shortly after anyway.

comfort
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Jun 4, 2010 9:47 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: In general yes, that's true, but I wanted to date an Indian girl about 20 years ago, and I wasn't brown or Hindu, so it wasn't allowed by her parents. Oh well, I pretty much gave up dating shortly after anyway.


That was 20 years ago now...ask yourself, would you think anything of any mixed race couple today?? wave
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Jun 4, 2010 9:48 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
nicki_love
nicki_lovenicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads 374 Posts
I am a Trinidadian girl of Indian descent.. in our country there are still very strict Indian families that prefer their daughters to marry within the same ethinicity.. however, as far as liberalisation goes, most Indian girls who are not living in their parents home or who are living outside of India, are given more freedom by their parents to date whomever they chose.. of course, if their family is racial, it is usually NOT against Europeans..
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Jun 4, 2010 9:48 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Barrellofart: Try dating one that doesn't live with her parents.



Yeah, she was 18 and living with her parents at the time, grandparents too. Never did get to meet any of them.

Somehow I doubt she still is, but you never know.laugh


wave
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Jun 4, 2010 9:48 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Besides hearts and souls are all the same colour...I fall in love heart and soul wine
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Jun 4, 2010 9:51 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
MrInteresting: From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?



I dated a British guy, and although it was allright to be around him, he said he couldn't take me home because his dad wouldn't approve of us. Now I am mixed, but I didn't think that should be a problem in this day and age with U.K. I was deeply affected by that.
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Jun 4, 2010 9:51 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: That was 20 years ago now...ask yourself, would you think anything of any mixed race couple today??



Nope, and didn't then either.

Being born and raised in Toronto might have something to do with it. I only had a few white friends growing up, the rest were like a mix match from a UN meeting.laugh


bouquet
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Jun 4, 2010 9:54 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: Nope, and didn't then either.

Being born and raised in Toronto might have something to do with it. I only had a few white friends growing up, the rest were like a mix match from a UN meeting.


Mutley Mutts...True Canadians rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 4, 2010 11:01 PM CST Is it common - Indian girls dating European guys?
rocky_zen
rocky_zenrocky_zenManila, Metro Manila Philippines4 Threads 50 Posts
MrInteresting: From the Indian culture perspective?

I ask, since there is an Indian girl, very nice, very smiley, and a few people who have seen her around me, she works in her family business, have admitted that it is obvious, from her body language, that she has a thing for me.

However, I have never thought about going out with, or asking an Indian girl out, primarily due to the fact that I always thought that their family would give them grief about not being with someone of their own culture.

Am I wrong?


Hi Mr I. I lived in Kuala Lumpur for a couple of years so I dated some Indian ladies, even while they were living with their parnets. However, one thing Don't do. If you ever get invited to stay over night at the parents place don't get calught making love in the daughters bedroom... I assure you it does not go over so well, especially if they think their daughter could be a virgin. doh angel
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