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tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 PostsIf a man definitely does not want kids but the woman he is with wants them and despite his wishes she goes ahead and gets pregnant anyway, who should bear the financial cost of raising the child? Guys what would you do in a situation like this? 
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tainogirl: If a man definitely does not want kids but the woman he is with wants them and despite his wishes she goes ahead and gets pregnant anyway, who should bear the financial cost of raising the child? Guys what would you do in a situation like this?
Support my child in the best way that I can.Not sure about whether I would continue the relationshipwith the mother, but that would depend on how much I loved her and unfortunately it will have lessened due to the trust being broken.
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tainogirl: If a man definitely does not want kids but the woman he is with wants them and despite his wishes she goes ahead and gets pregnant anyway, who should bear the financial cost of raising the child? Guys what would you do in a situation like this?
Her.
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Are you pregnant then, Taino ???? 
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If a couple can't agree on something so important I don't think they should be together, so to me for a women to get pregnant in this situation is stupid, irresponsible and tricking a guy into this is wrong.------ This thread is Archived ------
Englishman55: Are you pregnant then, Taino ????
Been there, done that, currently enjoying my brood of one and not looking to add anymore.
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The way I see it:
"The ticket for the ride is still the same price, whether you want the front seat, or back seat"!
"The ticket for the ride is still the same price, whether you want the front seat, or back seat"!
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first and foremost ..get a DNA test done....
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morgan5: If a couple can't agree on something so important I don't think they should be together, so to me for a women to get pregnant in this situation is stupid, irresponsible and tricking a guy into this is wrong.
I agree, but two wrongs don't make a right.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
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Bad girl. You gotta do what you gotta do. 
Not a good situation but I would have to do the right thing and help for the kids sake.
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Englishman55: I agree, but two wrongs don't make a right.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
If a woman insists on getting pregnant, despite the man making it QUITE CLEAR he does not want kids, then she should bear the financial cost - in my opinion.
Also, of course, as dav has said, get a DNA test first anyway.
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tainogirl: If a man definitely does not want kids but the woman he is with wants them and despite his wishes she goes ahead and gets pregnant anyway, who should bear the financial cost of raising the child? Guys what would you do in a situation like this?
the two of them , if he allows himself to get her pregnant he must pay to.
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Englishman55: I agree, but two wrongs don't make a right.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
I have a bit of experiance on this subject.....and first you need a DNA test done ...or you could easily be paying for kids that are not yours for a long time...and correcting this is a costly and dragged out affair....least in GA. anyways....Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
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Englishman55: I agree, but two wrongs don't make a right.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
You certainly are a great dad', EM!
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Englishman55: I agree, but two wrongs don't make a right.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
Just because the mother has been irresponsible does not mean the father should.
If it were me in such a situation, and I kind of was with my children, then I would still want to supprt the child and play a role in their life. To be a father to that child.
I have answered it as the guy definately did not want children and had made that clear, I also think it raise huge issues's of trust.If when the child was born the Father wanted to be part of its life , basically had a change of heart, I agree
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Don't believe men should be tricked into a pregnancy, there is always the risk that the man will want nothing more to do with you OR the child.
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wordking: the two of them , if he allows himself to get her pregnant he must pay to.
And what if she tells him she is taking contraception?
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trulee01: Bad girl. You gotta do what you gotta do. Not a good situation but I would have to do the right thing and help for the kids sake.
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trulee01: Bad girl. You gotta do what you gotta do. Not a good situation but I would have to do the right thing and help for the kids sake.
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gabrielle95: You certainly are a great dad', EM!
Thanks Gabbi.... I do try to be..... don't always get it right but I am learning fast. Hope you are having fun out there with Foxy..... bestest wishes to you both
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