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Jun 16, 2010 1:08 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
mrlover39
mrlover39mrlover39Dublin, Meath Ireland2 Threads 2 Posts
What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?
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Jun 16, 2010 1:13 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
merrilou
merriloumerriloucarlow, Carlow Ireland670 Posts
I've an idea ... you could say "They call me Mr Boombastic"
lol. Just do what every guy online does and be yourself.
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Jun 16, 2010 1:15 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?
Hello, would be a good start laugh laugh
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Jun 16, 2010 1:15 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?
Better wait until the girl has shown interest (viewed your profile, sent you flowers...)
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Jun 16, 2010 1:16 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
legend03
legend03legend03somewhere, Sindh Pakistan40 Threads 10 Polls 637 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?
U can tell her ur feeling and and about urself wine
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Jun 16, 2010 1:17 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
merrilou: I've an idea ... you could say "They call me Mr Boombastic"
lol. Just do what every guy online does and be yourself.


I was thinking the exact same merrilou...Mr Boombastic. rolling on the floor laughing

Sorry OP, with a name like yours it just had to be said.

Good luck.
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Jun 16, 2010 1:17 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
venusinsilk
venusinsilkvenusinsilkInverness Whoopeeee, Highland, Scotland UK12 Threads 1,103 Posts
You could try whispering her favourite words.

I'll buy it for you. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 16, 2010 1:20 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
merrilou
merriloumerriloucarlow, Carlow Ireland670 Posts
lol Jan_is ... I couldn't resist .Not trying to be unhelpful to the guy but as you say "it had to be said" I think being "himself" is the best bet ... any long rambling email about his "feelings, hopes and dream" would have me running like a March hare lol
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Jun 16, 2010 1:29 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?


You say "Hi there i read your profile and think you sound interesting" . . . Good Luckwave
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Jun 16, 2010 1:54 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
Joseph_Mack
Joseph_MackJoseph_MackDenver, Colorado USA16 Threads 4 Polls 177 Posts
In response to: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?


I'd say, "John sent me to fix your pipes. I might even say, Hello, did you notice that you have a noodle on your leg.

No, srously though, I would say, hi, my name is Joseph, and I was wondering if we could just chat a little. I would really like to get to know you.
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Jun 16, 2010 2:00 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
DarkAngel_4Life
DarkAngel_4LifeDarkAngel_4Lifegoldsboro, North Carolina USA3 Threads 1 Polls 154 Posts
merrilou: I've an idea ... you could say "They call me Mr Boombastic"
lol. Just do what every guy online does and be yourself.




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wiping tears in all seriousness she told you right dude just be yourelf cool
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Jun 16, 2010 2:00 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
lovingyou49
lovingyou49lovingyou49Napoleon, Ohio USA3 Threads 359 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?

Try hello, read your profile liked it would like to here back if you read and like my profile.
If no reply I understand.
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Jun 16, 2010 2:02 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
merrilou
merriloumerriloucarlow, Carlow Ireland670 Posts
@Darkangel wave bouquet
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Jun 16, 2010 2:08 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?



Hi I'm actor Troy McClure.

You might remember me from
such educational films as "Lead Paint: Delicious But Deadly," and

"Here Comes the Metric System!".....grin
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Jun 16, 2010 2:10 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?


With a name like Mr Lover what are you asking us for?..laugh
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Jun 16, 2010 2:12 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?


I love it when you call me Big Pop-pa....banana
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Jun 16, 2010 2:14 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Boban1: Hi I'm actor Troy McClure.

You might remember me from
such educational films as "Lead Paint: Delicious But Deadly," and

"Here Comes the Metric System!".....


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Jun 16, 2010 2:16 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Am no more a scammerlaugh
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Jun 16, 2010 3:30 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?



All other things being equal.... I am always more interested in responding to someone who made reference to something I wrote in my profile and explained why that interests him or why it made him smile, etc.

The reference tells me he at least read my profile with some degree of attention, but the explanation tells me a little about him without it sounding like part of an interview. This often starts what feels to me like a real conversation.
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Jun 16, 2010 4:56 PM CST What Do I Say To A Woman?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
mrlover39: What do I say to a woman when sending a message on a dating site?


Oh, come, come, Mr 'Lover', surely you, of all people, must know the answer to this - wink

But seriously - there is no magic formula, and, tbh, the vast majority won't reply anyway, so I would just send something brief, pick out something in their WRITTEN profile that you resonate with, mention that, and leave it open for them to get back.

PS - If they ARE really pretty, don't even mention their looks. It totally throws the pretty one's, as guys ALWAYS do.

thumbs up
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