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Jul 4, 2010 4:56 AM CST a mans point of view please...
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...wine
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Jul 4, 2010 4:59 AM CST a mans point of view please...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
boomboom_uk: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...


depends on , is she doing it ,out of the blue... ore did we had a conversation before and we felt some vibes between us
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Jul 4, 2010 5:00 AM CST a mans point of view please...
l0tim0l
l0tim0ll0tim0lLismore, New South Wales Australia7 Threads 1 Polls 382 Posts
In response to: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...


Flattered..yay

tip hat
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Jul 4, 2010 5:02 AM CST a mans point of view please...
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
boomboom_uk: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...


It's happened to me a few times...saves me from making a mess of asking her out!
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Jul 4, 2010 5:04 AM CST a mans point of view please...
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
Boban1: depends on , is she doing it ,out of the blue... ore did we had a conversation before and we felt some vibes between us

In my last relationship I saw him ..fancied the pants of him..we flirted..we talked..I liked him more..at the end of the night I asked him for his number..we had 7 wonderful years together..so i would risk the embarrassment of a knock back just to experience that again and Im sure for all the lovely ladies on here the yes`s would outweigh the knock backs...wine
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Jul 4, 2010 5:04 AM CST a mans point of view please...
earleybird66
earleybird66earleybird66wexford, Wexford Ireland98 Posts
boomboom_uk: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...
i would be honoured banana
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Jul 4, 2010 5:06 AM CST a mans point of view please...
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
boomboom_uk: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...
Probably fall into a coma!!
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Jul 4, 2010 5:07 AM CST a mans point of view please...
misscherylxo
misscherylxomisscherylxocalifornia city, California USA40 Threads 3 Polls 674 Posts
boomboom_uk: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...
applause
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Jul 4, 2010 5:08 AM CST a mans point of view please...
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
trurorob: Probably fall into a coma!!


rolling on the floor laughing ...thats cool..I can do CPR....wink ...bouquet
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Jul 4, 2010 5:10 AM CST a mans point of view please...
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
watch this space ..M..You will have a date by tonight...wink ...laugh ..wine
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Jul 4, 2010 5:16 AM CST a mans point of view please...
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
For some, I'm sure, they would HAVE to wait for a lady to do the deed....

I do feel for men on this. For some, the fear of rejection impedes upon their confidence. I can appreciate the pressure men feel under at times to grasp the nettle....

Remember, though, fellas..... faint heart never won fair maiden!

What's the worst that can happen? Noone has actually ever died from embarrassment, have they?!

Go for it, go.... GO!! cheers

Boomboom.... for you! ----> bouquet
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Jul 4, 2010 5:16 AM CST a mans point of view please...
In response to: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...
im fine with it...bouquet
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Jul 4, 2010 5:18 AM CST a mans point of view please...
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
xxDandelionxx: For some, I'm sure, they would HAVE to wait for a lady to do the deed....

I do feel for men on this. For some, the fear of rejection impedes upon their confidence. I can appreciate the pressure men feel under at times to grasp the nettle....

Remember, though, fellas..... faint heart never won fair maiden!

What's the worst that can happen? Noone has actually ever died from embarrassment, have they?!

Go for it, go.... GO!!

Boomboom.... for you! ---->


thanks ..D....Good to see you...teddybear .hug
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Jul 4, 2010 5:30 AM CST a mans point of view please...
estate
estateestatePERTH, Tayside, Scotland UK2 Threads 1,664 Posts
In response to: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...


Most probably, well chuffed.applause
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Jul 4, 2010 5:32 AM CST a mans point of view please...
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
boomboom_uk: How would you guys feel if a lady asked you out...


I'd have to spend hours and hours with all my friends on the phone first to get their opinion .....laugh rolling on the floor laughing

Nah, I've no problem with it at all. It shows a bit of courage and balls
( transvestites excluded of course ) .....laugh

wave bouquet hug
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Jul 4, 2010 5:33 AM CST a mans point of view please...
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
xxDandelionxx: For some, I'm sure, they would HAVE to wait for a lady to do the deed....

I do feel for men on this. For some, the fear of rejection impedes upon their confidence. I can appreciate the pressure men feel under at times to grasp the nettle....

Remember, though, fellas..... faint heart never won fair maiden!

What's the worst that can happen? Noone has actually ever died from embarrassment, have they?!

Go for it, go.... GO!!

Boomboom.... for you! ---->


That is the main fear Dandelion...the fear of rejection and when it does happen once or twice, it makes men think about the next time.
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Jul 4, 2010 5:37 AM CST a mans point of view please...
wannasettledown
wannasettledownwannasettledownAdelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 23 Posts
women seem to be taking over the male role these days so I cant see why a woman shouldnt be able to ask a guy out !
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Jul 4, 2010 5:38 AM CST a mans point of view please...
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Isnt that the norm
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Jul 4, 2010 5:39 AM CST a mans point of view please...
dvx_76
dvx_76dvx_76mosta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 433 Posts
Well if i like her good (she will saves me quite some drinks, to get me to ask her out). The problem is if you don't like her.
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Jul 4, 2010 5:39 AM CST a mans point of view please...
wannasettledown
wannasettledownwannasettledownAdelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 23 Posts
Steve5721: That is the main fear Dandelion...the fear of rejection and when it does happen once or twice, it makes men think about the next time.
very true, Ive never been rejected when asking a woman out but have been rejected on dating sites, it is very humiliating :-(
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