If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much...... ( Archived) (74)

Jul 6, 2010 1:14 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
patmac: We don't have to do anything, but I think for many of us there comes at time in our lives when we take stock, and want something that is going to stand the test of time and all the crap life can throw at us, that takes dedication and effort from both.[/quote BI-FOCALS Morgan.....A serious and thoughtful answer......I agree at this time in my life I can and do see through most of the crap that life chucks at us,but we as always live in hope Jmo
LMAO I have my moments Pat laugh hug
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Jul 6, 2010 1:30 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
MRw2boys
MRw2boysMRw2boysStockbridge, Georgia USA1 Posts
Yes, Everyone lies. Lets not forget that the reasons are of little matter. a lie is a lie is a lie. Not giving the hole side to a story is also a lie. How can any one work through problems when all they have to go on are lies? you cant.
We are all here because we are lonely. in some way or another we miss being touched, kissed, or something. Me, i miss it all. maybe i should stop being so picky. maybe she shouldnt have to be able to hold a conversation, or have a job, or have all her teeth. i dont know but if you can hold a conversation, and have a job and all your teeth, send me a message.
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Jul 6, 2010 1:35 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
morgan5: Have heard it said so many times get back out there and find someone else, advice I really disagree with, in fairness to yourself and anyone else.


True.thumbs up

Its not the best thing to say to someone who has just suffered a break up - "Get back on the horse straight away..".

Whoever is responsible, however it happened - a break up needs time to get over.

Too many people are incapable of being on their own and constantly crave another's company, and jump straight back into dating when they are obviously not ready for it. Thats dangerous; to themselves and to whoever they date.

wine
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Jul 6, 2010 1:41 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????

Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??
Because of you, and many others who wished to be with me, but are afraid of falling all over themselves if revealing their secret. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 6, 2010 6:16 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
morgan5: We don't have to do anything, but I think for many of us there comes at time in our lives when we take stock, and want something that is going to stand the test of time
and all the crap life can throw at us, that takes dedication and effort from both.
Respect your honesty, for many i do think think the initial spark fades
, guess its about alot of effort from both to keep it alive.

Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one
??????

I also want something that going to stand the test of time, and my relationships usually last and I think the best way to make it last is not to live with anyone and probably even meet seldom, the spark fades slower, every time we meet it’s a party and no boring every day routin ever.
And again it doesn’t have to be just one person, they may be several, who have different qualities and fill different needs and all long lasting.
And nobody has to liewine
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Jul 6, 2010 6:17 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
irishrebel75
irishrebel75irishrebel75Fairfax, Missouri USA123 Threads 5 Polls 1,755 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??
the general lack of something better to do with our time?
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Jul 6, 2010 8:44 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
GingerBe: ...carrying it around and hurting others with it.


That's the bone of contention, isn't it? That and hurting oneself, which you do sometimes see BIG style on the threads.

And it can be right painful to watch...

Jac xxx
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Jul 6, 2010 8:49 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Godsgift: I just get the feeling there's an awful lot of folk carrying baggage around in here and that they may just not be quite ready for a relationship just yet!
i agree - unfortunately I think that is the case with some peoplesigh
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Jul 6, 2010 8:54 PM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
crazeddog1001
crazeddog1001crazeddog1001Quincy, Illinois USA3 Threads 110 Posts
morgan5: It takes time to get over it.


Time, time, time. Yea, sometimes lots of time....moping
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Jul 26, 2010 12:11 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
billsmith
billsmithbillsmithguangzhou, Guangdong China1 Threads 2 Posts
I NEED A WOMAN BUT I DON'T KNOW WHO TO HOOK ON WITH. IS IT THAT HARD TO HOOK UNTO A WOMAN OR IS IT THEIR PAST EXPERIENCE THAT IS MAKING IT DIFFICULT? I BELIEVE THAT EVERY PROBLEM MAKE WAYS FOR NEW THINGS. NOWADAYS DISTANCE SEEMS TO BE A BARRIER FOR LOVE RELATIONSHIP. I NEED SOMEONE ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WHO WILL COMMUNICATE WITH ME ON LOVE RELATED MATERS. I NEED LOVE.
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Jul 26, 2010 2:56 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Division of labor.
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Jul 26, 2010 5:25 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
gemeh22: i agree - unfortunately I think that is the case with some people
Think to a degree we all do, maybe more so the older we get? dunno
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Jul 26, 2010 5:29 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??


I would lie next to you anytime darlin' ...... laugh rolling on the floor laughing wave bouquet
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Jul 26, 2010 5:37 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????



Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie

So why are you here??
That's the eternal question isn't it, Why am I here?laugh

I'm here for a few reasons, like many others I suspect: finding a woman that makes me go WOWwow! And a woman that makes me go Aaaawwhug .One that triggers this YEAHbananaBABY! and who can LEThead bangerLOSE when needed. A woman who loves to HUMMMkissSIGH and who's not afraid to HEYscold! when I stray. One who'll want all my teddybear without taking my heartmotorcycleaway.
I'm looking for thislove everyone talks so much about... Is that feasible or just an ideal?
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Jul 26, 2010 5:37 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
RDM59: I would lie next to you anytime darlin' ......



hahahahaharolling on the floor laughing an your lying now ??????rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 26, 2010 5:45 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
I had a bumper sticker on my old 4x4 that said:
"Love many
Trust few,
always paddle your own canoe."
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Jul 26, 2010 5:46 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
RDM59: I would lie next to you anytime darlin' ......
ya numpty tongue hug
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Jul 26, 2010 5:48 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
bjk68: So many people carry the baggage of past relationships forward to new ones, it's scary.

Does nobody take time out anymore, Are people too afraid to spend some time alone, by choice... to reflect on the mistakes made in the past..

If more did this, less, no far less baggage would carry forward.

Have people become so defensive and untrusting, that these threads/thoughts are the norm....

There can be so much hope and positivityin our lives if only people stopped wanting everything NOW NOW NOW, and just took a little time out
I hope a lot of people (STOP) and read this a lot of commen sence written here . WELL DONE BJK 68 .
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Jul 26, 2010 5:53 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Grandepensees: That's the eternal question isn't it, Why am I here?

I'm here for a few reasons, like many others I suspect: finding a woman that makes me go WOW! And a woman that makes me go Aaaaww .One that triggers this YEAHBABY! and who can LETLOSE when needed. A woman who loves to HUMMMSIGH and who's not afraid to HEY! when I stray. One who'll want all my without taking my heartaway.
I'm looking for this everyone talks so much about... Is that feasible or just an ideal?
sounds great and who wouldn't want that? But guess i'm just getting very cynical laugh

Starting to think, the older we get the more selfish we get regarding what we want and our expectations? dunno
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Jul 26, 2010 5:58 AM CST If We All Think Men/Women Lie So Much......
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
morgan5: sounds great and who wouldn't want that? But guess i'm just getting very cynical

Starting to think, the older we get the more selfish we get regarding what we want and our expectations?
age doesent come into it: as the old saying goes.....once bitten .twice shy.
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