patmac: We don't have to do anything, but I think for many of us there comes at time in our lives when we take stock, and want something that is going to stand the test of time and all the crap life can throw at us, that takes dedication and effort from both.[/quote BI-FOCALS Morgan.....A serious and thoughtful answer......I agree at this time in my life I can and do see through most of the crap that life chucks at us,but we as always live in hope Jmo
Yes, Everyone lies. Lets not forget that the reasons are of little matter. a lie is a lie is a lie. Not giving the hole side to a story is also a lie. How can any one work through problems when all they have to go on are lies? you cant. We are all here because we are lonely. in some way or another we miss being touched, kissed, or something. Me, i miss it all. maybe i should stop being so picky. maybe she shouldnt have to be able to hold a conversation, or have a job, or have all her teeth. i dont know but if you can hold a conversation, and have a job and all your teeth, send me a message.
morgan5: Have heard it said so many times get back out there and find someone else, advice I really disagree with, in fairness to yourself and anyone else.
True.
Its not the best thing to say to someone who has just suffered a break up - "Get back on the horse straight away..".
Whoever is responsible, however it happened - a break up needs time to get over.
Too many people are incapable of being on their own and constantly crave another's company, and jump straight back into dating when they are obviously not ready for it. Thats dangerous; to themselves and to whoever they date.
morgan5: We don't have to do anything, but I think for many of us there comes at time in our lives when we take stock, and want something that is going to stand the test of time and all the crap life can throw at us, that takes dedication and effort from both. Respect your honesty, for many i do think think the initial spark fades , guess its about alot of effort from both to keep it alive.
Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one ??????
I also want something that going to stand the test of time, and my relationships usually last and I think the best way to make it last is not to live with anyone and probably even meet seldom, the spark fades slower, every time we meet it’s a party and no boring every day routin ever. And again it doesn’t have to be just one person, they may be several, who have different qualities and fill different needs and all long lasting. And nobody has to lie
Godsgift: I just get the feeling there's an awful lot of folk carrying baggage around in here and that they may just not be quite ready for a relationship just yet!
i agree - unfortunately I think that is the case with some people
I NEED A WOMAN BUT I DON'T KNOW WHO TO HOOK ON WITH. IS IT THAT HARD TO HOOK UNTO A WOMAN OR IS IT THEIR PAST EXPERIENCE THAT IS MAKING IT DIFFICULT? I BELIEVE THAT EVERY PROBLEM MAKE WAYS FOR NEW THINGS. NOWADAYS DISTANCE SEEMS TO BE A BARRIER FOR LOVE RELATIONSHIP. I NEED SOMEONE ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WHO WILL COMMUNICATE WITH ME ON LOVE RELATED MATERS. I NEED LOVE.
morgan5: Why the hell are we all looking for a relationship with one??????
Seems genders pull each other apart, forgetting BOTH GENDERS have the ability to lie
So why are you here??
That's the eternal question isn't it, Why am I here?
I'm here for a few reasons, like many others I suspect: finding a woman that makes me go WOW! And a woman that makes me go Aaaaww .One that triggers this YEAHBABY! and who can LETLOSE when needed. A woman who loves to HUMMMSIGH and who's not afraid to HEY! when I stray. One who'll want all my without taking my heartaway. I'm looking for this everyone talks so much about... Is that feasible or just an ideal?
Grandepensees: That's the eternal question isn't it, Why am I here?
I'm here for a few reasons, like many others I suspect: finding a woman that makes me go WOW! And a woman that makes me go Aaaaww .One that triggers this YEAHBABY! and who can LETLOSE when needed. A woman who loves to HUMMMSIGH and who's not afraid to HEY! when I stray. One who'll want all my without taking my heartaway. I'm looking for this everyone talks so much about... Is that feasible or just an ideal?
sounds great and who wouldn't want that? But guess i'm just getting very cynical
Starting to think, the older we get the more selfish we get regarding what we want and our expectations?
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