This is only an observation, but it seems to me that the ladies have less compassion than their male counter parts. An example is the ladies more than the men can ignore emails. Don't forget there are nice people on the other side of those emails. I also noticed this in other threads. Why do you think that the ladies have become so hardened?
deadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia1,295 posts
tetsuo818: This is only an observation, but it seems to me that the ladies have less compassion than their male counter parts. An example is the ladies more than the men can ignore emails. Don't forget there are nice people on the other side of those emails. I also noticed this in other threads. Why do you think that the ladies have become so hardened?
CherryBlossom73Los Angeles, California USA307 posts
I am guessing your marital status may have something to do with it. Of course there could be other reasons but that seems the most obvious one to me so far.
SHERRY50PORT MACQUARIE, New South Wales Australia185 posts
Medsummer: If you saw some of the emails you'd ignore them too!
How do you know for certain that women ignore more emails then men?
Exactly what I was thinking M! and on what basis do you state women are less compassionate Tetsuo?...The reverse is a more likely assumption, when you look around you at things going on in the world.
tetsuo818: This is only an observation, but it seems to me that the ladies have less compassion than their male counter parts. An example is the ladies more than the men can ignore emails. Don't forget there are nice people on the other side of those emails. I also noticed this in other threads. Why do you think that the ladies have become so hardened?
Where do you get your statistics from? And I for one want to thank you for being so compassionate with your judgement of women
cincity: I think what the op is referring to is the thread about emails in which the majority of women stated that they ignored most emails that they receive..
The forums is a small part of cs and should not be used as a poll for the whole site. So his information is lacking in integrity.
tetsuo818: This is only an observation, but it seems to me that the ladies have less compassion than their male counter parts. An example is the ladies more than the men can ignore emails. Don't forget there are nice people on the other side of those emails. I also noticed this in other threads. Why do you think that the ladies have become so hardened?
I think a lot of women do make an effort to answer mails, but some of them are inundated and the sheer volume they get makes it impossible to respond to all, especially if their time is tight. I wouldn't confuse that with arrogance, ignorance, contempt or lack of compassion (though that may exist in some) but as a 'way of the world' thing and maybe cut them a little slack?
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
tetsuo818: This is only an observation, but it seems to me that the ladies have less compassion than their male counter parts. An example is the ladies more than the men can ignore emails. Don't forget there are nice people on the other side of those emails. I also noticed this in other threads. Why do you think that the ladies have become so hardened?
My compassion hardens like concrete when I'm expected to respond to rubbish. Some men simply don't think about what they write or put in half hearted effort and then expect a windfall.
kidatheart: Don't go confusing things, he's gonna get it anyway.
How true...I read the thread he is referring to..and I have to agree with his observation...Okay ladies go ahead shoot me...but that is my opinion...especially considering that the majority of you who posted on that thread stated very plainly that you could not be bothered answering emails..
cincity: How true...I read the thread he is referring to..and I have to agree with his observation...Okay ladies go ahead shoot me...but that is my opinion...especially considering that the majority of you who posted on that thread stated very plainly that you could not be bothered answering emails..
I read the thread too. And he got the response of a few posters So if he is making an observation I would suggest he broaden his search for the answer.
deadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia1,295 posts
cincity: How true...I read the thread he is referring to..and I have to agree with his observation...Okay ladies go ahead shoot me...but that is my opinion...especially considering that the majority of you who posted on that thread stated very plainly that you could not be bothered answering emails..
Whether they reply to unsolicited mail could be about manners or politeness... but nothing to do with their compassion and depth of feelings.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
It is a persons write to chose....whether to answer a e-mail....make love...run naked threw the park...or eat a candy bar......Some do some don't.....I do,i even answer a scammer or two for the hell of it!
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