Honesty On Line (94)
sweetlyscented1: Ohh Nightwhispers, about 9 years ago I went through exactly the same thing, I was nieve back then and new on line...but BOY it teaches us something I learned alot from that experiance I can tell you it was a long time ago now but I still remember how hard it was to tell them I KNOW but I did and it ended and I have to say I was relieved to say the least, gosh Im such a different person now
Sorry you experianced it also
Sorry you experianced it also
Sorry to hear you had the same luck
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demonfairy: This guy was married and had a very unhappy home life,so thats why he had his make believe world on the internet,his mind snapped....think about how his wife felt to when all this came out....embaressing enough,with out it making the news.
That is why i find it hard to believe that married people spend so much time online, is their home life so bad they have to live in a fantasy world some even in a singles website, singles spend all their free time in search of, and all they have to do is reach over and hug or kiss them... just too weird
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sweetlyscented1: HJ well yes I guess I should have put it as DIS honesty on line.... but all became revealed in due course
It "always" does.....
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night_whispers50: That is why i find it hard to believe that married people spend so much time online, is their home life so bad they have to live in a fantasy world some even in a singles website, singles spend all their free time in search of, and all they have to do is reach over and hug or kiss them... just too weird
No, its not.
I dont know about other marrieds, but CS Marrieds enjoy continued chat with the friends they met when they were still seeking The One, with whom they built up friendships and loyalites and to whom they wish to remain in contact in the same environment they met them in.
Speaking for myself, me and mine have enormous fun posting together some evenings, sitting next to each other and enjoying the banter. Its where we met, and it will always have good memories. Our live together is rich and happy, and laughing on CS is just one way to express that.
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I think one way to weed out the game-players might be through requiring a well-developed friendship before taking it to the next level. My sense from my readings here and elsewhere is that deceivers/game-players want to "cut to the chase," so to speak - meaning that they want to jump immediately into a romantic connection where they can better exercise their manipulative goals. If that's true, then they would find attempts to slowly build a friendship annoying, preferring to rush quickly toward their relationship-control goals (of course, many people rush into a relationship for less devious reasons!).
So a red flag would be pressure to skip through (or past) the friendship-development phase into a torrid romance, and a possible (partial) antidote would be a refusal to accommodate that pace. I'm guessing many or most game-players would lose patience and move on to their next victim.
So a red flag would be pressure to skip through (or past) the friendship-development phase into a torrid romance, and a possible (partial) antidote would be a refusal to accommodate that pace. I'm guessing many or most game-players would lose patience and move on to their next victim.
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Ambrose2007: I think one way to weed out the game-players might be through requiring a well-developed friendship before taking it to the next level. My sense from my readings here and elsewhere is that deceivers/game-players want to "cut to the chase," so to speak - meaning that they want to jump immediately into a romantic connection where they can better exercise their manipulative goals. If that's true, then they would find attempts to slowly build a friendship annoying, preferring to rush quickly toward their relationship-control goals (of course, many people rush into a relationship for less devious reasons!).
So a red flag would be pressure to skip through (or past) the friendship-development phase into a torrid romance, and a possible (partial) antidote would be a refusal to accommodate that pace. I'm guessing many or most game-players would lose patience and move on to their next victim.
So a red flag would be pressure to skip through (or past) the friendship-development phase into a torrid romance, and a possible (partial) antidote would be a refusal to accommodate that pace. I'm guessing many or most game-players would lose patience and move on to their next victim.
LOL, nice posting,
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night_whispers50: That is why i find it hard to believe that married people spend so much time online, is their home life so bad they have to live in a fantasy world some even in a singles website, singles spend all their free time in search of, and all they have to do is reach over and hug or kiss them... just too weird
My ex was online from 5:30pm after work till abt 10pm. He said he was working......lol on extra projects......till I busted HIM! Then divorced him as I learned he was seeing other women and stating he was single and available....so I MADE him single and available so he would stop lying....
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BarbarafromTx: My ex was online from 5:30pm after work till abt 10pm. He said he was working......lol on extra projects......till I busted HIM! Then divorced him as I learned he was seeing other women and stating he was single and available....so I MADE him single and available so he would stop lying....
Wow. That was awfully thoughtful of you!
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sweetlyscented1: Hey Everyone
I'm wondering why is there so much dishonesty on line, why do people feel they need to lie in any form I know we all tell fibs from time to time or avoid the truth sometimes....but down right LIES just make me sick....is it mostly this medium that attracts liars?
Is honesty a thing of the past....or is it the internet interaction that prompts people to think hmmm I can say what I like and no one will know....
I am clever and usually work out a liar or dishonesty..
what are your thoughts on this subject...
They lie because it is easy to do and they are fake!I'm wondering why is there so much dishonesty on line, why do people feel they need to lie in any form I know we all tell fibs from time to time or avoid the truth sometimes....but down right LIES just make me sick....is it mostly this medium that attracts liars?
Is honesty a thing of the past....or is it the internet interaction that prompts people to think hmmm I can say what I like and no one will know....
I am clever and usually work out a liar or dishonesty..
what are your thoughts on this subject...
...in most cases those individuals are worse in real...I detest liars!...why lie?...just be yourself, no pretence...someone has to love you just the way you are.....in the end, the truth always surfaces, "NO" one can pretend forever...save yourself the embarrassment!
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ebony4you: They lie because it is easy to do and they are fake! ...in most cases those individuals are worse in real...I detest liars!...why lie?...just be yourself, no pretence...someone has to love you just the way you are.....in the end, the truth always surfaces, "NO" one can pretend forever...save yourself the embarrassment!
How do we know that YOU are not a fake?
How do you know that I'm not? We dont, and you dont.The only way is to take the time and patience to stick with someone on here, get to know them and not jump off in the deep end and judge someone immediately.
If you take the time to watch and listen on here, you soon realise who is what they say they are, and who is not.
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sweetlyscented1: Hey Everyone
I'm wondering why is there so much dishonesty on line, why do people feel they need to lie in any form I know we all tell fibs from time to time or avoid the truth sometimes....but down right LIES just make me sick....is it mostly this medium that attracts liars?
Is honesty a thing of the past....or is it the internet interaction that prompts people to think hmmm I can say what I like and no one will know....
I am clever and usually work out a liar or dishonesty..
what are your thoughts on this subject...
Hey Sweets, no honesty is not a thing of the past. And also you will find that deceitfulness is not on just singles sites but also in a lot of areas on the internet. So it pays to be carefull. Many are taken for their hard earned dollars or euros by internet fraud daily. Such a shame it happens but I like to believe there are still alot of nice honest people out there I'm wondering why is there so much dishonesty on line, why do people feel they need to lie in any form I know we all tell fibs from time to time or avoid the truth sometimes....but down right LIES just make me sick....is it mostly this medium that attracts liars?
Is honesty a thing of the past....or is it the internet interaction that prompts people to think hmmm I can say what I like and no one will know....
I am clever and usually work out a liar or dishonesty..
what are your thoughts on this subject...
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I try to make a lot of little lies daily....I save the big lies for the holidays....
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sweetlyscented1: Hey Everyone
I'm wondering why is there so much dishonesty on line, why do people feel they need to lie in any form I know we all tell fibs from time to time or avoid the truth sometimes....but down right LIES just make me sick....is it mostly this medium that attracts liars?
Is honesty a thing of the past....or is it the internet interaction that prompts people to think hmmm I can say what I like and no one will know....
I am clever and usually work out a liar or dishonesty..
what are your thoughts on this subject...
Yes , U r so true, net is very danger for find a mate, its %100 risk, there is only %5 people that say true,when we ask for their job, they say lie, they age, only lie, where r they? lie and they dont want answer to u, mny people realy loves games, my God, me is so tired of them, i decided that never marry, even one angel with two wings come down from heavenI'm wondering why is there so much dishonesty on line, why do people feel they need to lie in any form I know we all tell fibs from time to time or avoid the truth sometimes....but down right LIES just make me sick....is it mostly this medium that attracts liars?
Is honesty a thing of the past....or is it the internet interaction that prompts people to think hmmm I can say what I like and no one will know....
I am clever and usually work out a liar or dishonesty..
what are your thoughts on this subject...
but there r lier woman also here, thats why man cant trust to us, it means, the weather of site is so cloudy, there r only doubt, ask dirty questions, answer to dirty questions, and not love, but i see good man and woman here also, they re really search their mate, and wish for, they r hungry for they rib
best thing is tht we look and learn, more nd more about our quality and man quality nd decide tht never marry love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu All, mny man really love and want woman, why nobody answer to them?and many woman also, why u man play with woman down with ur alot lie?
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