Feeling Unwanted (91)
Serene and Shell...thanks to both for praising my new profile pic..but just got 6 rejections in Oasis friend request from sydney chicks..
they really need Hugh Jackman...
they really need Hugh Jackman...
ybfayl: Bit like these boards- people will either accept you or they wont. It has nothing to do with where you are….. it is about confidence and the right approach.
is it?
shuvo81: I came downunder one and half month ago.I left my family, friends everything behind to lead a new life, where I thought I would make many friends. But my dreams are broken, leading a lonely life. Gal's in Sydney doesn't even care looking at me, maybe I am too ugly or some mysterious reason.Getting no response in any dating site or in real life.I am a soft and gentle guy, don't know what I have to do to get rid of this loneliness
well from everything I have read that you have said, it seems to me like you are coming across as a bit desperate and a bit of a sad sack
how about you stop stressing about sydney women not wanting you and just start trying to make some male friends to hang o0ut with and just have some fun
Not desperate, but feeling a bit down by being an invisible identity. 
blondeozichick: noooooooooooooooooooo don't say that young lady
bad girl saying that about hugh
bad girl saying that about hugh
Now wait up blonde, I have it on good authority (gay male friends) that it's not beyond the realms of possibility ..Most gay guys are pretty attractive and many gals fall for them 
serene56: Now wait up blonde, I have it on good authority (gay male friends) that it's not beyond the realms of possibility ..
Shell shoves her fingers in her ears and starts to sing ...
Im not listening... Im not listening.... Im not listening...
how could you be so cruel Serene??
shuvo81: Serene and Shell...thanks to both for praising my new profile pic..but just got 6 rejections in Oasis friend request from sydney chicks.. they really need Hugh Jackman...
Actually I'll jump in here, and say that contacting people is a difficult process. Its not just a matter of sending an email that says Hi ... guaranteed way to end up in the delete bin.
You do need to read a profile, you do need to comment on something within the profile, or within a pic. You need to ask a question that will encourage the person to reply to you.
Dont forget that everyone likes different things, and its not about all these people being snobs, it may just be that you have messaged someone who doesnt have the same interests as you.
Keep hammering away at it, and in the mean time, start doing the things that you enjoy doing and start talking to people at those venues.
In all seriousness you need to work on your profile. It honestly says nothing about you.
You want to have fun..... what fun? do you read, write, what do you read, do you go to movies? what movies, do you like the outdoors? indoors? ... its not enough to say I want to have fun.
You've also said (and its a major redflag) that you believe that a relationship can only exist while the people are happy. I'd take that out. If one reads between the lines... and trust me women do ... its sort of saying that if things get difficult, you arent going to work through the bad times, and the tough times, instead you'll be out of there.
You've not said the qualities of the person you are looking for, rather you've said more stuff about yourself. Ask yourself, do you want a quiet person, or a loud person, do they need to laugh alot? Do they need to be active and sporty? outdoorsie and enjoy camping? love 5 star hotels and weekends away?
this is just my feeling ... I think that if you rework it, you will have a better sucess when contacting people
You want to have fun..... what fun? do you read, write, what do you read, do you go to movies? what movies, do you like the outdoors? indoors? ... its not enough to say I want to have fun.
You've also said (and its a major redflag) that you believe that a relationship can only exist while the people are happy. I'd take that out. If one reads between the lines... and trust me women do ... its sort of saying that if things get difficult, you arent going to work through the bad times, and the tough times, instead you'll be out of there.
You've not said the qualities of the person you are looking for, rather you've said more stuff about yourself. Ask yourself, do you want a quiet person, or a loud person, do they need to laugh alot? Do they need to be active and sporty? outdoorsie and enjoy camping? love 5 star hotels and weekends away?
this is just my feeling ... I think that if you rework it, you will have a better sucess when contacting people
Shell225: If you get in a few forums - interest groups and chats, then Im sure you will be able to find people who'll meet for a cuppa and a bit of socialising.
Its difficult moving to any new place, and it does take time for people to get to know you. All you can really do is put yourself out there - chat to the person serving you at the supermarket, the guy at the corner store, the people around where you live. Tell them ALL that youre single and that you want to go out!!!! Go to concerts and things that you are interested in, that way you can strike up conversation with people who share the same interests as you.
As far as cities go, I think that Melbourne is the friendliest place that I've ever been to.
Oh and dont just chase the chicks.... get some man friends .. they have sisters, g/friends and so on ... network.. network.. network.
Good luck in your search and welcome to the forum
thumbs up for wonderful melbourne! Its difficult moving to any new place, and it does take time for people to get to know you. All you can really do is put yourself out there - chat to the person serving you at the supermarket, the guy at the corner store, the people around where you live. Tell them ALL that youre single and that you want to go out!!!! Go to concerts and things that you are interested in, that way you can strike up conversation with people who share the same interests as you.
As far as cities go, I think that Melbourne is the friendliest place that I've ever been to.
Oh and dont just chase the chicks.... get some man friends .. they have sisters, g/friends and so on ... network.. network.. network.
Good luck in your search and welcome to the forum
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Still reckon he's a closet gay
PS. your new pic is fab
bad girl saying that about hugh