Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating? ( Archived) (57)

Sep 14, 2006 7:58 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
I am just curious. Is there a limit that you place on a woman who has children? Are there ages of children she has you prefer not to "deal with"? Does more than a few deter you from dating her? I have a friend who has a large family but so far the responses she's received are all good. I guess she's just been lucky. What's your preference and why? Women, I believe it works the same for a man. Just remember...be nice everyone.
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Sep 14, 2006 7:59 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
It depend on the person, i will date woman with 1 kid, but if i want something serious, she should have none.



El diablo
devil
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Sep 14, 2006 8:00 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
bailey_beez
bailey_beezbailey_beezNiagara Falls, Ontario Canada12 Threads 1,118 Posts
Sniffle sniffle
izzzzzzyyyyyy not fair not fair!
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Sep 14, 2006 8:00 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i have no limit on how many children a man has as to wether or not i date him.. i love kids.. so wether he has 1-12 (or more) i dont care.. more to love.. they are a part of him.. and they make him who he is. so

no limit on how many kids a man has before i date him..
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Sep 14, 2006 8:01 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
personanally (yes, my opinion....) love doesn't write a list. It accepts.
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Sep 14, 2006 8:02 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
Bailey, she's going to be # 1, I also want to be # 1. With kids that will never happen, and i expect that.



El Diablo
devil
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Sep 14, 2006 8:02 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
No limit here, as I have 4 kids myself and it would be hypocritical of me to ask a woman to accept mine and me not to accept her children.
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Sep 14, 2006 8:03 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
peeks in...whistles......and darts back out........dunno
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Sep 14, 2006 8:03 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
jsut my 2 cents i dont care about how many he's got i take him i take all he's got
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Sep 14, 2006 8:04 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
bailey_beez
bailey_beezbailey_beezNiagara Falls, Ontario Canada12 Threads 1,118 Posts
And what happens if/when you have children together?

(I understand your point...)
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Sep 14, 2006 8:04 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
Yes I agree....No limit as they are all part of the package and part of the man that I am dating!!!!!!!!

I also love children.....But I'm past the point in my life where I want to have anymore of my own...BUT I would certainly welcome his children with open arms!!!!!!!

conversing conversing
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Sep 14, 2006 8:05 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
That's diferent, I don't have kids, that i know. LMAO




El Diablo
devil
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Sep 14, 2006 8:05 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
Albelden
AlbeldenAlbeldenSainte-Therese, Quebec Canada9 Threads 85 Posts
My ex had 2 children. When we first start living together, I'd say they were respectively 12 and 7 y.o. She was and she's still a wonderfull mother so... Rather it's 1 or 5, if the woman knows how to deal with her kids and if the guy who decides to go out with such a woman is ready to learn ( that is if he doesn't have experience with children ), it's going to be perfect. wink
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Sep 14, 2006 8:07 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i would love to have more children but i physically can't..

wouldnt mind adopting a few though..
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Sep 14, 2006 8:10 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
bailey_beez
bailey_beezbailey_beezNiagara Falls, Ontario Canada12 Threads 1,118 Posts
Well Izzy, my ex had one when we met- I had none. I was number one with him always (in a different way than his son). My guy (whoever he will end up being) will be number one in my eyes, although its different than the way the kids are number one...and different from the way my dad is number one...ya see there are different ways to be number one...at least for me there are.
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Sep 14, 2006 8:12 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
BB i have to agree with ya there


#1 means different things in different ways
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Sep 14, 2006 8:13 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
bailey_beez
bailey_beezbailey_beezNiagara Falls, Ontario Canada12 Threads 1,118 Posts
Thanks froggy!

so neener neener neener Izzy!

lol
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Sep 14, 2006 8:15 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
I agree too!!!...Just as love has different meanings...love for children...love for ones SO and love for friends!!!!!!


conversing conversing
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Sep 14, 2006 8:16 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
I agree with the levels of love...

And being number 1.
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Sep 14, 2006 8:23 AM CST Men, how many children are "too many" in respects to dating?
optimystic
optimysticoptimysticIn, Washington USA10 Threads 327 Posts
I don't think the number of kids matters. Whether or not they are brats, makes the difference for me. Even one little monster is too many.
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