Why don´t some people reply??? ( Archived) (96)

Sep 25, 2010 1:41 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
lmissyou
lmissyoulmissyouFalkenberg, Halland Sweden6 Threads 3 Polls 29 Posts
I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them.
If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?

Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?

If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would.
But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.

Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..

I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.


Sincere/lmissyou
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Sep 25, 2010 1:44 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
csharpe101
csharpe101csharpe101Aurora, Colorado USA1 Threads 131 Posts
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them.
If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?

Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?

If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would.
But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.

Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..

I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
well they are not interested in you and dont want to bother to leave a messege.. That should be a hint!!! dunno confused professor cheering
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Sep 25, 2010 1:46 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA11 Threads 713 Posts
Maybe they live too far...
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Sep 25, 2010 1:46 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them.
If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?

Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?

If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would.
But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.

Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..

I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou


I wouldnt let it bother me......The forums, from my experience are a great way of getting to know someone, and people will always gravitate to people of like mind.

Best of luck in your search.

cheers
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Sep 25, 2010 1:49 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
vinny1967: I wouldnt let it bother me......The forums, from my experience are a great way of getting to know someone, and people will always gravitate to people of like mind.

Best of luck in your search.

Doesn't bother me either, plenty more fish and all that.

wave Hiya V.
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Sep 25, 2010 1:53 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
When I first joined CS, I tried to politely respond to even those I had no interest in. More often than not, I was called vile names and often received more than one reply to my response. Delete, ignore, and block became my friends.
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Sep 25, 2010 1:55 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
70Libra: Doesn't bother me either, plenty more fish and all that.

Hiya V.


Hiya Gorgeous......hug

Using that analogy, maybe the bait needs to be looked at and change the way someone goes about contacting people.

Either that or get a longer Rod....giggle

Good to see you.



wine
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Sep 25, 2010 1:56 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
Hawna
HawnaHawnaHalifax, Nova Scotia Canada1 Threads 103 Posts
I've also experienced vile messages when I've told people I just wasn't interested. I was polite and their responses weren't so I stopped trying to be nice about it.
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Sep 25, 2010 1:57 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
vinny1967: Hiya Gorgeous......

Using that analogy, maybe the bait needs to be looked at and change the way someone goes about contacting people.

Either that or get a longer Rod....

Good to see you.


Hmmm... longer 'rod' is always good laugh
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Sep 25, 2010 2:09 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: Hiya Steve... Steve is right here, I dont reply to anyone im not interested in due to bad responses when telling a guy ''thanks but no thanks''


Hi Jenny xxxxx
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Sep 25, 2010 2:12 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
hopeeyefindyou
hopeeyefindyouhopeeyefindyouHarrison Twp., Michigan USA6 Threads 202 Posts
imsophie1: When I first joined CS, I tried to politely respond to even those I had no interest in. More often than not, I was called vile names and often received more than one reply to my response. Delete, ignore, and block became my friends.


We have been on this subject before......... Because when you try to be nice and say we can just be friends, I get a message back and they say: friends is good, we can start from there.frustrated I have to say: NO! just friends...Sorry!doh
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Sep 25, 2010 2:13 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
I try to reply to the real ones....but some people don't know what NO means......no response also means...NO...i am not interested.I get 20 e-mails a day at least,most are scammers,some are friends,maybe a couple who are interested,but they usually are from a country where i can't even speak the lang.,or under stand there beliefs......when you send a e-mail,and are interested,try to think about where you live and where they live,if you have any thing in common...don't waste your time and theres.sigh
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Sep 25, 2010 2:15 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
This is the second thread you make about this subject??

You had almost the same answers in the first onedunno
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Sep 25, 2010 2:18 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them.
If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?

Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?

If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would.
But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.

Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..

I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
Being on a dating site is not the same as having a store catalogue where you pick something and expect to receive it..No one has to respond to you..Also I noticed the age group you prefer..LoL.. starting at 18? Your 44 and to be honest your photo is bad..Looks like you just woke up and didnt bother to take a shower or shave..You also have a mean look in the camera..Probably no lady who takes care of herself, especially not a young teenager is going to respond to that profile...Take a shower, get groomed and smile for the camera and it might help.
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Sep 25, 2010 2:25 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
hopeeyefindyou: Exactly.... We all tried in the past to try and do the right thing...Just doesn't work!! It must be all that testosterone that makes them that way..
Ya some guys also got mad at me when i said no thanks..One had a profile that said he is a "nice guy"..well he showed me he wasnt so nice when I told him I wasnt interested..
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Sep 25, 2010 2:27 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Swissblueeyes: Ya some guys also got mad at me when i said no thanks..One had a profile that said he is a "nice guy"..well he showed me he wasnt so nice when I told him I wasnt interested..


I always replied till I got a mail from a guy saying that it was my loss and that I'm too old, fat and ugly to get a date anyway... sour grapes methinks dunno

Now I just send a 'flower' with baloons saying I'm not interested.
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Sep 25, 2010 2:30 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
hopeeyefindyou
hopeeyefindyouhopeeyefindyouHarrison Twp., Michigan USA6 Threads 202 Posts
demonfairy: I try to reply to the real ones....but some people don't know what NO means......no response also means...NO...i am not interested.I get 20 e-mails a day at least,most are scammers,some are friends,maybe a couple who are interested,but they usually are from a country where i can't even speak the lang.,or under stand there beliefs......when you send a e-mail,and are interested,try to think about where you live and where they live,if you have any thing in common...don't waste your time and theres.



Hi D?Fwave That's where I differ about distance. I have made very many friends around the world.dancing I like to talk to people and their way of living. I just don't like guys that try to force themselves on you... That's why I don't like going to bars (pubs).. They get a few drinks in them and they think their Brad Pitt..rolling on the floor laughing handshake
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Sep 25, 2010 2:34 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
hopeeyefindyou
hopeeyefindyouhopeeyefindyouHarrison Twp., Michigan USA6 Threads 202 Posts
Swissblueeyes: Ya some guys also got mad at me when i said no thanks..One had a profile that said he is a "nice guy"..well he showed me he wasnt so nice when I told him I wasnt interested..


Like I said: It must be all that TESTOSTERONE that makes them that way...Go figure???doh confused rolling on the floor laughing

BTW..Hi Swiss wave
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Sep 25, 2010 2:38 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
hopeeyefindyou
hopeeyefindyouhopeeyefindyouHarrison Twp., Michigan USA6 Threads 202 Posts
70Libra: I always replied till I got a mail from a guy saying that it was my loss and that I'm too old, fat and ugly to get a date anyway... sour grapes methinks

Now I just send a 'flower' with baloons saying I'm not interested.


WOW!!!.. Never thought Of that... Thanks Libra.wave
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Sep 25, 2010 2:42 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
hopeeyefindyou: Like I said: It must be all that TESTOSTERONE that makes them that way...Go figure???

BTW..Hi Swiss
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