I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them. If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would. But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them. If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would. But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
well they are not interested in you and dont want to bother to leave a messege.. That should be a hint!!!
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them. If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would. But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
I wouldnt let it bother me......The forums, from my experience are a great way of getting to know someone, and people will always gravitate to people of like mind.
vinny1967: I wouldnt let it bother me......The forums, from my experience are a great way of getting to know someone, and people will always gravitate to people of like mind.
Best of luck in your search.
Doesn't bother me either, plenty more fish and all that.
When I first joined CS, I tried to politely respond to even those I had no interest in. More often than not, I was called vile names and often received more than one reply to my response. Delete, ignore, and block became my friends.
I've also experienced vile messages when I've told people I just wasn't interested. I was polite and their responses weren't so I stopped trying to be nice about it.
xxfrecklesxx: Hiya Steve... Steve is right here, I dont reply to anyone im not interested in due to bad responses when telling a guy ''thanks but no thanks''
imsophie1: When I first joined CS, I tried to politely respond to even those I had no interest in. More often than not, I was called vile names and often received more than one reply to my response. Delete, ignore, and block became my friends.
We have been on this subject before......... Because when you try to be nice and say we can just be friends, I get a message back and they say: friends is good, we can start from there. I have to say: NO! just friends...Sorry!
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
I try to reply to the real ones....but some people don't know what NO means......no response also means...NO...i am not interested.I get 20 e-mails a day at least,most are scammers,some are friends,maybe a couple who are interested,but they usually are from a country where i can't even speak the lang.,or under stand there beliefs......when you send a e-mail,and are interested,try to think about where you live and where they live,if you have any thing in common...don't waste your time and theres.
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them. If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would. But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
Being on a dating site is not the same as having a store catalogue where you pick something and expect to receive it..No one has to respond to you..Also I noticed the age group you prefer..LoL.. starting at 18? Your 44 and to be honest your photo is bad..Looks like you just woke up and didnt bother to take a shower or shave..You also have a mean look in the camera..Probably no lady who takes care of herself, especially not a young teenager is going to respond to that profile...Take a shower, get groomed and smile for the camera and it might help.
hopeeyefindyou: Exactly.... We all tried in the past to try and do the right thing...Just doesn't work!! It must be all that testosterone that makes them that way..
Ya some guys also got mad at me when i said no thanks..One had a profile that said he is a "nice guy"..well he showed me he wasnt so nice when I told him I wasnt interested..
Swissblueeyes: Ya some guys also got mad at me when i said no thanks..One had a profile that said he is a "nice guy"..well he showed me he wasnt so nice when I told him I wasnt interested..
I always replied till I got a mail from a guy saying that it was my loss and that I'm too old, fat and ugly to get a date anyway... sour grapes methinks
Now I just send a 'flower' with baloons saying I'm not interested.
demonfairy: I try to reply to the real ones....but some people don't know what NO means......no response also means...NO...i am not interested.I get 20 e-mails a day at least,most are scammers,some are friends,maybe a couple who are interested,but they usually are from a country where i can't even speak the lang.,or under stand there beliefs......when you send a e-mail,and are interested,try to think about where you live and where they live,if you have any thing in common...don't waste your time and theres.
Hi D?F That's where I differ about distance. I have made very many friends around the world. I like to talk to people and their way of living. I just don't like guys that try to force themselves on you... That's why I don't like going to bars (pubs).. They get a few drinks in them and they think their Brad Pitt..
Swissblueeyes: Ya some guys also got mad at me when i said no thanks..One had a profile that said he is a "nice guy"..well he showed me he wasnt so nice when I told him I wasnt interested..
Like I said: It must be all that TESTOSTERONE that makes them that way...Go figure???
70Libra: I always replied till I got a mail from a guy saying that it was my loss and that I'm too old, fat and ugly to get a date anyway... sour grapes methinks
Now I just send a 'flower' with baloons saying I'm not interested.
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If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would.
But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.
Sincere/lmissyou