vinny1967: That she is not.......I have met her and she is neither.......shes Gorgeous.
I think some men Expect a response and when they dont get one their ego is bruised and they decide to insult the person. Unfortunately some people let it get to them instead of seeing it for what it is.
Its cool rejection is part of the gmame on these sites just keep sending e-mails respond to forumposts. If they are not interested move on and have fun
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them. If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would. But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
Oops--it didn't "take" the first time. Progress! Yes, I certainly know what you mean. I have written a few letters, always polite and not at all clingy, etc... and don't get replies. You know, I agree. How about, "Hi there. Got your letter. You sound like a great guy, the (distance, profile match, career, whatever) doesn't match what I'm looking for, etc..." ) It's called courtesy, and it only takes a minute or two. I look at it this way, after all, that other person posted, you took the time out of your day/life to acknowledge them, the least they could do is a quick response, if only to say hello, thanx for writing, etc...
lmissyou: I have a big problem with datingsites and the member´s in them. If you see someone you are intrested in and like to know that person better, you send a message or a flower message you want some reaction, right?
Yes I would like to know you better or sorry but I am not intrested would be an answer you could take or am I wrong here?
If you invite a person he or she could at least answer your question so you´ll know and leave that person alone, I know I´ll would. But to be totally ignored is something I hate and I do believe that I am not alone about this.
Have quest here. What would you do? Let me know..
I know one thing and that´s I am sick and tired to been ignored.Sincere/lmissyou
Some people cannot be bothered because either they don't like the look of your pics/profile, or they don't like what you say in your message...also depends on age as well...harsh but true
(ps I mean 'you' in a general sense and not you personally!)
u2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark974 posts
chris27292729: What do you expect from the OP to change???
Hi Chris
Personally I do not have any expectations for OP changes - but since he repeatedly puts up this question and gets the same answers - he has the possibility to take the posters advice.. Otherwise, why put up his question
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Swissblueeyes: Being on a dating site is not the same as having a store catalogue where you pick something and expect to receive it..No one has to respond to you..Also I noticed the age group you prefer..LoL.. starting at 18? Your 44 and to be honest your photo is bad..Looks like you just woke up and didnt bother to take a shower or shave..You also have a mean look in the camera..Probably no lady who takes care of herself, especially not a young teenager is going to respond to that profile...Take a shower, get groomed and smile for the camera and it might help.
I like you better when u are being funny. Your strict self is not so amusing. Do you have a hangover from the other nite?
So i think one of you ladies,make a list of all the suggesting posts in the thread,be kind enough,and presented to him on his birthday.-
u2Kitty: Hi Chris
Personally I do not have any expectations for OP changes - but since he repeatedly puts up this question and gets the same answers - he has the possibility to take the posters advice.. Otherwise, why put up his question
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Well I try to always reply to any mail, but sometimes even though I say Im not interested they just keep mailing me...so it sometimes backfires, so have started to ignore some....makes me feel bad though....
Sep 25, 2010 4:32 PM CST Why don´t some people reply???
grandpeniseadCaversham, Berkshire, England UK4 Posts
grandpeniseadCaversham, Berkshire, England UK4 posts
Have a bath, wash the hair, trim your beard, get a clean white shirt and go to the bars. Dont waste time with women on this forum they talk and that is it.
grandpenisead: Have a bath, wash the hair, trim your beard, get a clean white shirt and go to the bars. Dont waste time with women on this forum they talk and that is it.
csharpe101: well they are not interested in you and dont want to bother to leave a messege.. That should be a hint!!!
Ok but where is the honesty in that? You said in your profile that you this and that including the word honest. I have been taught to respond if you have a question but it seems that not everyone has had the same upbringing.
Do you expect all of us to have the same upbringing,like the one you have had???
lmissyou: Ok but where is the honesty in that? You said in your profile that you this and that including the word honest. I have been taught to respond if you have a question but it seems that not everyone has had the same upbringing.
lmissyou: Ok but where is the honesty in that? You said in your profile that you this and that including the word honest. I have been taught to respond if you have a question but it seems that not everyone has had the same upbringing.
Actually, while it might be more polite/friendly to make idle conversation when disinterested in someone who has made contact-- it is actually LESS honest, less clear, less direct than "Sorry, I"m not interested."
Some people are uncomfortable with the bluntness of saying, "Sorry, I'm not interested." And some people (as you've read here) cannot handle being on the receiving end of that much honestly.
As a result, some people choose the least confrontational method, the method requiring the least investment of time and energy-- no response. There is nothing even remotely dishonest about it.
i think there can be one of following reasons: 1- they are not using this website anymore and forgot to delete the account 2- they might not be willing to reply each and every message and consider silence as a definitive answer. 3- They are dead :) May God Bless their soul
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You had almost the same answers in the first one