Is CS a private club???? (56)
In the wise words of Kid Rock......
get in the pit and try to love someone!
get in the pit and try to love someone!
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Oh and I peeked......................hehe
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Absolutly
and in the words of Paul "the love you make is equal to the love you take"
and in the words of Paul "the love you make is equal to the love you take"
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For what it's worth here's my 2 cents on this...
When I first came here to the forums, I was greeted by a select few when I did my intro thread, but over the course of time through posting in threads, starting threads I have made some wonderful friendships here. I believe I have shared every range of emotions that are known including some indescribeable ones. When it comes to the serious threads and I have input, I'm as honest as I can possibly be...Some have called me brutally honest, but I'd rather that than be dishonest.
As far as circles and cliques, or threads turning into personal conversations. I think there are many who find that they are more comfortable responding to certain peoples threads or comments, and then again there are times that you can end up starting a personal conversation with someone in a thread not totally on purpose, it just happens.
Me personally, I don't care for the cliques, I never have. I like people for who they are and accept them for who they are, not who they associate with. I've always been a very outgoing person and I generally like everyone until they hurt me or someone I love or care about then they should not cross my path, because it will get ugly. I'm not speaking of the school yard B.S. either, I mean outright disrespect and demoralizing behaviors.
Ok stepping off the soapbox
Didn't mean to make this so long and drawn out
When I first came here to the forums, I was greeted by a select few when I did my intro thread, but over the course of time through posting in threads, starting threads I have made some wonderful friendships here. I believe I have shared every range of emotions that are known including some indescribeable ones. When it comes to the serious threads and I have input, I'm as honest as I can possibly be...Some have called me brutally honest, but I'd rather that than be dishonest.
As far as circles and cliques, or threads turning into personal conversations. I think there are many who find that they are more comfortable responding to certain peoples threads or comments, and then again there are times that you can end up starting a personal conversation with someone in a thread not totally on purpose, it just happens.
Me personally, I don't care for the cliques, I never have. I like people for who they are and accept them for who they are, not who they associate with. I've always been a very outgoing person and I generally like everyone until they hurt me or someone I love or care about then they should not cross my path, because it will get ugly. I'm not speaking of the school yard B.S. either, I mean outright disrespect and demoralizing behaviors.
Ok stepping off the soapbox
Didn't mean to make this so long and drawn out
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I am new and have also had the same thoughts. It is hard to get conversation started when you don't really know what people on here find as interesting conversation. If you jump in and comment on a thread.. you do sometimes get ignored. I think it is just that we are new and are in their comfort zone, so to speak. Once they see that we are interesting and we keep trying to get involved, it will eventually get better. Good luck to you!
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I think this says everything that needs to be said...
Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today...
Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace...
You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world...
You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one
by: John Lennon
in my humble opinion
Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today...
Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace...
You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world...
You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one
by: John Lennon
in my humble opinion
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you the man 
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Wow, I did not know this was going on under the surface of this thing, A whole new world has opened up and confussed me. I had no idea that there were clicks on here and people that shunned other people and even people that have been on here for a year.I am amazed. I will be on here for my time to find the right one and then i am outa here.
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or...you might be on here long enough to make really awesome friends that you will carry in your heart for the rest of your life.
this site has been beyond positive for me...it can be for you, too. don't take a few grumbles and run with them...make your OWN reality.
be welcome.
this site has been beyond positive for me...it can be for you, too. don't take a few grumbles and run with them...make your OWN reality.
be welcome.
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Hello
Lisa,
I am puzeld you have been on here for a year and you did not know this was going on so with one thread you have made a judgement?
Any way that's not why I am answering your post I too am from Oklahoma, Chickasha please don't tell anybody not that I am form oOK but form Chickasha and I just wanted to say hi
Ron
Lisa,
I am puzeld you have been on here for a year and you did not know this was going on so with one thread you have made a judgement?
Any way that's not why I am answering your post I too am from Oklahoma, Chickasha please don't tell anybody not that I am form oOK but form Chickasha and I just wanted to say hi
Ron
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Ron, I have not been on here a year only one mth. and I won't tell if you won't. Our secret.
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know anyone who has been evicted from this site?
I have hear rumors
I have hear rumors
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i know many, lol...
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As in all social setting online at work or in bar some people have been on here a while and generated good friendships with one another and as human they are comfortable with the familiar.
The new person is welcomed but again as in all social setting the new person is watched and must earn his or her part in the group. This is true at work, in school on a new bowling team. Relationships, respect and trust is earned I don’t care what social setting you in. So be yourself join in and just have fun picking the place is never a good way to start anything. I guess it comes down to realistic expectations and realizing all things take time.
again welcome and enjoy this place as there are a lot of amazing people here
Ron