Why Why Why???????????? ( Archived) (19)

Sep 19, 2006 5:53 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
A lot of threads are about why can't I find the love of my life? I'm a good person, I'm nice, I'm perfect even! If any of us knew the answer we wouldn't be here. Nobody is perfect, sometimes the nicest people can be horrible, sometimes good people do or think bad things.

The answers to these questions are not here on CS! So join, make friends, forget the self pity. at times take a little advice and maybe, just maybe, there may be somebody here for you. And that is all I wanted to say!
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Sep 19, 2006 5:55 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
applause
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Sep 19, 2006 5:56 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
fabs_4000
fabs_4000fabs_4000White Rock, British Columbia Canada44 Threads 2,381 Posts
I am nice......uhoh!!! I just had a bad thought!!!!laugh
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Sep 19, 2006 6:01 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
amen to all of the above.

thank goodness someone else has seen the light...
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Sep 19, 2006 6:02 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
WindRider
WindRiderWindRiderPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA11 Threads 602 Posts
Nobody likes me, everybody hates me blues

I need a hug hug

grin innocent
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Sep 19, 2006 6:03 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
Andrea19
Andrea19Andrea19Charlotte, North Carolina USA6 Threads 163 Posts
damn rightapplause
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Sep 19, 2006 6:06 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I like you. Does that count ? Paws
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Sep 19, 2006 6:08 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
But....but...*lower lip stuck out*...no girls reply to me*pouting*

nobody likes me...and...and...when i'm in pubwick run fuwum me like I was carrying an ax.

Whaaaaaa whaaaaaaaaa!

And in highschool they all made fun of my pimples!...Whaaaaaaaamoping crying blues
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Sep 19, 2006 6:09 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
I'd still be here. I'm not here looking for the love of my life. If I happen to find him here, great. If not, no biggie.

wave
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Sep 19, 2006 6:10 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Yes precisely! Doesn't it get on your nerves after a while? I am usually a very very patient person BUT there are too many people thinking that CS is going to be the answer to all our problems....NO NO NO! We share experiences, we laugh, we argue at times, but not one single person here can answer these type of questions.

Enjoy time spent here by all means, I do usually, there are many good people, but life is, and should be, spent for the most part, away from here, meeting real people and having real relationships, if that is what you are truly looking for. Some people have been lucky and found love here on CS and I am happy when I see this, but most of us sadly do not. All I am saying is don't view your time here as the answer to all of the problems in your love life.

wave handshake
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Sep 19, 2006 6:15 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Well it´s all Cs´s fault. Blame it all on them, oooops wrong threadrolling on the floor laughing

No really, starting out with a bad attitude is really thaaaaaaaaat helpful. It´s a shame that there is no cactus available to flower.confused
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Sep 19, 2006 6:17 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
WindRider
WindRiderWindRiderPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA11 Threads 602 Posts
Aww Paws I like you too.. Sure does count handshake cheers
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Sep 19, 2006 6:19 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
So what you are saying is wallowing in self-pity is anti productive to the dating process?

In other words, no NORMAL person is NOT attracted to a person who is wondering around the universe say, “oh poor me”, “why me” and the always productive “ I can’t” find anyone.”

Don’t forget the “I am a nice person and no one loves me” and “they hurt me.” People grow up love is a risk and a large part of that risk and love is all too often, PAIN.

Is that what your saying because if it isn’t,. it is what I am saying .

Happiness in not an accident.
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Sep 19, 2006 6:21 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I used to be a nice guy, I still am, but I used to be too. Paws
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Sep 19, 2006 7:12 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Huh? What? You mean that I am supposed to have a life outside of this computer? Why didn't anyone tell me this?
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Sep 19, 2006 8:37 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
Jonquille
JonquilleJonquillePeace is its own reward, Ontario Canada98 Threads 897 Posts
I'm happy being single, have a good life, not whining about it... but finding someone to share the good times with would be very cool. hug
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Sep 19, 2006 9:31 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
What she said.applause
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Sep 19, 2006 9:33 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
i love this thread


glad others see it that way
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Sep 19, 2006 9:47 PM CST Why Why Why????????????
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
confused i wonder how many has come on the forum and ask the why question.i wonder how many came here when they need someone to talk to.apart of friendship and part of a love relationship is being there for the person.


no matter how many times they ask why or how many what we think are stupid questions.how many came to the forum seeking advice or help with something.

with each new day comes new people join this site and new people are taking part in the forum,yes many more will come and ask the same question over and over.


before it is all said and done many more why questions will be ask.but this will always remain true no one can sit at the judgment of someone else.


no one can criticize someone else for asking something or saying something they have already said their ownsevles.it is easy to point a finger at someone else than it is.for us to look in a mirror and to take a good look at oursevles.


to understand at one time in our lifetime,we have ask the same questions that people are asking now.we must ask oursevles how many times did we ask those why questions.


the only way to find out something you do not know is by asking questions.sometimes we may have a problem and do not know the answer to.but asking someone else they might have the answer that will help us.


some of the questions we need to ask during our lifetime are the why questions and sometimes the why not.like why not just answer the question
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