Laura25: Oh, I do understand your frustration. You are absolutely right to feel the way you do -- it was your time that was waited and it were your emotions that were wasted on a skunk.
But you are not a naive girl (like it about you), you do take this chance, you know? And it is so worth it when you meet a real man. They are out there...
Thank you again Laura..That was sweet of you to say..
Potentially you might have been talking to a scammer. Online dating is almost like flipping a coin. Sometimes out 40 people that you talk online you might get one or two people that are genuine, but then they normally live too far to even pursue something... Keep your cool you will find something when you least expect it.
robsantiago15: Potentially you might have been talking to a scammer. Online dating is almost like flipping a coin. Sometimes out 40 people that you talk online you might get one or two people that are genuine, but then they normally live too far to even pursue something... Keep your cool you will find something when you least expect it.
he lives in michigan and spoke on the phone with no accent..he could be a scammer too but his mo appeared to be more of just a married player trying to play his game with me..He admitted he is not legally separated and has no interest in getting one yet after being supposedly physically separated for 20 years. lol..
Swissblueeyes: he lives in michigan and spoke on the phone with no accent..he could be a scammer too but his mo appeared to be more of just a married player trying to play his game with me..He admitted he is not legally separated and has no interest in getting one yet after being supposedly physically separated for 20 years. lol..
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
a bit off topic..i had a look at the guy's profile..first of all i find it impossible to believe a neurosurgeon will have a profile here and look for a date... second,he is claiming to be docshrink.. with doctorate in neuropsychology (which might be credible),but apart from that he has specialised nephrology too..which is light years apart from the first speciality..and all that at the age of 40..clear BS..
Swissblueeyes: I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..
Wow Im sorry for you Swissblueeyes. Scammers like him are a dime a dozen when I find the guy supplying the dimes I will get him for you. I have a big 2x4 with a big nail in it for him. ilk like him make it harder for us honest people that use this site to find what we are looking for. Good luck I will mail you the 2x4 if the guy suplying the dimes lives near lake, Michigan
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
Swissblueeyes: Hi. I waited almost 2 weeks before I gave him my number..He sent many messages online before he got it..We talked on the phone for around a week before I rejected him..I dont date married men who are not "legally separated".. The man lies so much he cant get his lies straight. I would catch him in one lie then he would make another one up to cover the first one..He also sounded like he was on heavy meds. Thank you for the message and support.
Almost 2 weeks is nothing in time when you are talking about on line dating.None of us know just who is out there, and whether they are genuine or not. It's a risky business and I've no doubt many men and women have, and are, been duped.
You are not the first and certainly will not be the last.You just have to be careful and take time to get to know someone.
bestbefore: Almost 2 weeks is nothing in time when you are talking about on line dating.None of us know just who is out there, and whether they are genuine or not. It's a risky business and I've no doubt many men and women have, and are, been duped.
You are not the first and certainly will not be the last.You just have to be careful and take time to get to know someone.
Hi and very true..I'm trying to be careful..I doubt the guy will try to contact me again..He knows I'm on to his game.
Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA570 posts
patmac: Nope but I can say ...........SUPERCALAFRAGALISTIC......Does that count as a big medical word?????
Nope but can you sing it.
Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle ay Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle ay Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Even though the sound of it Is something quite atrocious If you say it loud enough You'll always sound precocious Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle ay Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle ay Because I was afraid to speak When I was just a lad My father gave me nose a tweak And told me I was bad But then one day I learned a word That saved me aching nose The biggest word I ever heard And this is how it goes: Oh, supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Even though the sound of it Is something quite atrocious If you say it loud enough You'll always sound precocious Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle ay Um diddle diddle diddle um diddle ay So when the cat has got your tongue There's no need for dismay Just summon up this word And then you've got a lot to say But better use it carefully Or it may change your life One night I said it to me girl And now me girl's my wife!She's supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!
Swissblueeyes: I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..
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But you are not a naive girl (like it about you), you do take this chance, you know? And it is so worth it when you meet a real man. They are out there...