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Oct 18, 2010 3:36 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
mindfful: im not perfect
but i deserve to be treated with decency
and so do all

i was misunderstood and sincerely wanted to clear it up

she is havin none of it and seems able to justify treating certain people badly based on what they do-

im just in the dark about that type of thinking

right is right and my posting was about what is right not that she is bad but she couldnt seem to get that and as i said i think thats unfortunate

so i made a mistake wont be the last im sure but it sucks when you try to make amends and they are rejected is all

i mean it really was never that serious to me tho i guess it came off that way to others

oh well



Not the first time you have said I was MISUNDERSTOOD Mindful,
I have seen you being "misunderstood" in many threads.

You pursued the lass all throughout and made the same "misunderstood" point endlessly which she defended and it got silly once your point was made there was littles sense in repeating it. I reckon this is best left to die and you both agree to difer, much the same as other folk who have had input here they all say leave it and I agree ......As always JMO....grin :cheers

Just a thought mindful why not beore you post think of the efect of what you are going to say will have on others then you will not have to spend so much time making AMENDS or being MISUNDERSTOOD
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Oct 18, 2010 3:42 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
uh oh oh dear..wtf happened in here..it stinks like one of my bum bubbles.

wave Morning happy campers kiss
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Oct 18, 2010 3:52 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
patmac: Are you having a go LOL Hi Merriweather yep just for a change ....... A sad rainy day not predictable Eh JUST LIKE THE CARRY ON HERE .....Totally unpredictable .......Amity the wind is from the south west today, I reckon from you to Glasgow is 370 miles so it is Respirators at around 7is......


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing blushing Well, it was the weekend..too much booze and way too many veges with the sunday roast.
Sorry love...at least your washing will get dry xxxteddybear
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Oct 18, 2010 4:25 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
trulee01: Maybe he is a doctor and taking his own meds.
laugh laugh cheeky lee
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Oct 18, 2010 5:27 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
One thing I can say. He may be a fake but I bet he has had far more luck than most who are straight up.

I am willing to bet if I put on my profile that I was a successful professional making lots of money, I would be overflowed with letters. I won't do that but it would be interesting to see what happens.
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Oct 18, 2010 5:44 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
StillOfTheNight: One thing I can say. He may be a fake but I bet he has had far more luck than most who are straight up.

I am willing to bet if I put on my profile that I was a successful professional making lots of money, I would be overflowed with letters. I won't do that but it would be interesting to see what happens.



rolling on the floor laughing Oh go do it boy... as long as you can kiss and tell us all later... by naming every single chick that answered...


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Oct 18, 2010 5:58 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
Merriweather: Oh go do it boy... as long as you can kiss and tell us all later... by naming every single chick that answered...


Its all pretty funny when you put it in prospective. I donno, maybe the online thing is not right for everyone.
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Oct 18, 2010 6:06 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Swissblueeyes: I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..


How soon after contact did you give him your phone number? I wouldn't give my personal details to anyone unless I was pretty sure of their credentials.j.m.o.
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Oct 18, 2010 6:10 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
missha72: I agree , being honest is always best !



Sometimes a little white lie is ok, like first thing in the morning you wouldnt say to your G/F, you look rough!. You would say GMing darling you look beautiful today.professor
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Oct 18, 2010 6:20 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Swissblueeyes: Im reporting you for disrupting my thread and fighting with me..


Best make a list then ,as fighting and disrupting people's threads is a C.S. pastime .rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 18, 2010 6:29 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
tomcatwarne: Sometimes a little white lie is ok, like first thing in the morning you wouldnt say to your G/F, you look rough!. You would say GMing darling you look beautiful today.



If that is your view... then your little white lies bring out the gentleman in you... Well done..thumbs up
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Oct 18, 2010 6:32 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
bestbefore: Best make a list then ,as fighting and disrupting people's threads is a C.S. pastime .


Hi BestBwave


I just had a laugh and a reminisce about how it used to be.. No-one use to report willy nilly ......

Reporting once was for "had it up to here" over months of over the top remarks... not because a little storm in a teacup...

Your post made me laugh at the silliness... laugh
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Oct 18, 2010 7:28 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
bestbefore: How soon after contact did you give him your phone number? I wouldn't give my personal details to anyone unless I was pretty sure of their credentials.j.m.o.
Hi. I waited almost 2 weeks before I gave him my number..He sent many messages online before he got it..We talked on the phone for around a week before I rejected him..I dont date married men who are not "legally separated".. The man lies so much he cant get his lies straight. I would catch him in one lie then he would make another one up to cover the first one..He also sounded like he was on heavy meds. Thank you for the message and support.wave
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Oct 18, 2010 7:29 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
wave teddybear heya swiss.
I understand that your angry and upset.
But people can be separated and still be single
Anyway..sounds like you found out in time huh?hug
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Oct 18, 2010 7:29 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
StillOfTheNight: One thing I can say. He may be a fake but I bet he has had far more luck than most who are straight up.

I am willing to bet if I put on my profile that I was a successful professional making lots of money, I would be overflowed with letters. I won't do that but it would be interesting to see what happens.
laugh
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Oct 18, 2010 7:31 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
Amity: heya swiss.
I understand that your angry and upset.
But people can be separated and still be single
Anyway..sounds like you found out in time huh?
He's Not "legally separated" and he claims his wife left 20 years ago but his kids are 15 and 18..he lied so many times about many things..no one waits over 20 years to get legally separated..this man is married..thank you for the comments though and your opinion.hug
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Oct 18, 2010 10:20 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Swissblueeyes: I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..


Sorry for your bad experience, Swiss. Consider yourself lucky that you were able to figure him out before you got involved with this guy.

I don't think married people on dating sites are all that unusual.

Move on.

Unfortunately there will be other predators.

Kudos for being so perceptive. You'll be fine methinks. thumbs up
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Oct 18, 2010 10:24 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
Laura25: Sorry for your bad experience, Swiss. Consider yourself lucky that you were able to figure him out before you got involved with this guy.

I don't think married people on dating sites are all that unusual.

Move on.

Unfortunately there will be other predators.

Kudos for being so perceptive. You'll be fine methinks.
Thank you Laura..hug Ya I know they are online, it just sucks when there are scammers and players also besides these married men who waste our time..It took me only 2 weeks to figure him out and catch him in his lies but it is still wasted time and made me angry that again another loser did this to me. Guess I'm going to have to make a thicker shield and not let these creeps get to me so much.. Thanks again for the nice comment.
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Oct 18, 2010 10:32 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Swissblueeyes: Thank you Laura.. Ya I know they are online, it just sucks when there are scammers and players also besides these married men who waste our time..It took me only 2 weeks to figure him out and catch him in his lies but it is still wasted time and made me angry that again another loser did this to me. Guess I'm going to have to make a thicker shield and not let these creeps get to me so much.. Thanks again for the nice comment.


Oh, I do understand your frustration. You are absolutely right to feel the way you do -- it was your time that was waited and it were your emotions that were wasted on a skunk.

But you are not a naive girl (like it about you), you do take this chance, you know? And it is so worth it when you meet a real man. They are out there...


wine
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Oct 18, 2010 10:33 AM CST LOL.. Can u believe?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
*typo

Laura25: Oh, I do understand your frustration. You are absolutely right to feel the way you do -- it was your time that was wasted and it were your emotions that were wasted on a skunk.

But you are not a naive girl (like it about you), you do take this chance, you know? And it is so worth it when you meet a real man. They are out there...
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