mindfful: im not perfect but i deserve to be treated with decency and so do all
i was misunderstood and sincerely wanted to clear it up
she is havin none of it and seems able to justify treating certain people badly based on what they do-
im just in the dark about that type of thinking
right is right and my posting was about what is right not that she is bad but she couldnt seem to get that and as i said i think thats unfortunate
so i made a mistake wont be the last im sure but it sucks when you try to make amends and they are rejected is all
i mean it really was never that serious to me tho i guess it came off that way to others
oh well
Not the first time you have said I was MISUNDERSTOOD Mindful, I have seen you being "misunderstood" in many threads.
You pursued the lass all throughout and made the same "misunderstood" point endlessly which she defended and it got silly once your point was made there was littles sense in repeating it. I reckon this is best left to die and you both agree to difer, much the same as other folk who have had input here they all say leave it and I agree ......As always JMO.... :cheers
Just a thought mindful why not beore you post think of the efect of what you are going to say will have on others then you will not have to spend so much time making AMENDS or being MISUNDERSTOOD
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
patmac: Are you having a go LOL Hi Merriweather yep just for a change ....... A sad rainy day not predictable Eh JUST LIKE THE CARRY ON HERE .....Totally unpredictable .......Amity the wind is from the south west today, I reckon from you to Glasgow is 370 miles so it is Respirators at around 7is......
Well, it was the weekend..too much booze and way too many veges with the sunday roast. Sorry love...at least your washing will get dry xxx
One thing I can say. He may be a fake but I bet he has had far more luck than most who are straight up.
I am willing to bet if I put on my profile that I was a successful professional making lots of money, I would be overflowed with letters. I won't do that but it would be interesting to see what happens.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
StillOfTheNight: One thing I can say. He may be a fake but I bet he has had far more luck than most who are straight up.
I am willing to bet if I put on my profile that I was a successful professional making lots of money, I would be overflowed with letters. I won't do that but it would be interesting to see what happens.
Oh go do it boy... as long as you can kiss and tell us all later... by naming every single chick that answered...
bestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK4,701 posts
Swissblueeyes: I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..
How soon after contact did you give him your phone number? I wouldn't give my personal details to anyone unless I was pretty sure of their credentials.j.m.o.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
missha72: I agree , being honest is always best !
Sometimes a little white lie is ok, like first thing in the morning you wouldnt say to your G/F, you look rough!. You would say GMing darling you look beautiful today.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
tomcatwarne: Sometimes a little white lie is ok, like first thing in the morning you wouldnt say to your G/F, you look rough!. You would say GMing darling you look beautiful today.
If that is your view... then your little white lies bring out the gentleman in you... Well done..
bestbefore: How soon after contact did you give him your phone number? I wouldn't give my personal details to anyone unless I was pretty sure of their credentials.j.m.o.
Hi. I waited almost 2 weeks before I gave him my number..He sent many messages online before he got it..We talked on the phone for around a week before I rejected him..I dont date married men who are not "legally separated".. The man lies so much he cant get his lies straight. I would catch him in one lie then he would make another one up to cover the first one..He also sounded like he was on heavy meds. Thank you for the message and support.
StillOfTheNight: One thing I can say. He may be a fake but I bet he has had far more luck than most who are straight up.
I am willing to bet if I put on my profile that I was a successful professional making lots of money, I would be overflowed with letters. I won't do that but it would be interesting to see what happens.
Amity: heya swiss. I understand that your angry and upset. But people can be separated and still be single Anyway..sounds like you found out in time huh?
He's Not "legally separated" and he claims his wife left 20 years ago but his kids are 15 and 18..he lied so many times about many things..no one waits over 20 years to get legally separated..this man is married..thank you for the comments though and your opinion.
Swissblueeyes: I just got thinking I have heard almost everything being single then another cs guy from Michigan made me realize there is still more to come..lol..A guy who I never met contacted me claiming he is a "doctor".. lol and in our few days of talking the man's stories kept getting more and more bizaar and obviously lies to cover up lies..He would call me sounding like he was on a heavy dose of meds talking very slow and his profile kept changing from day to day..One day it said he was 42 years old, few days later it said 41..Originally the profile said he was divorced, then a few days later the status changed to "separated"..Ok so besides that in our conversations when I asked him how long he was separated his answer was "20" years..LOL..Then a few days later I asked how old his children are and he said 15 and 19..His wife supposedly left him 20 years ago and went to some indian reservation and he hasnt heard from her in 20 years..So, then I asked him about this and he said well i met someone after and had 2 children with her but the mom left as well and he has no clue where the mother is? LOLOL.. WTF? He would get caught in a lie then make some stuttering sounds come out of his mouth like he was trying to make something else up to cover the lies..There are many other things he said that just didnt add up but this was enough for me to just stop communicating with him..Jeesch..I wish these people would stop messing with members who are sincerely trying to date..
Sorry for your bad experience, Swiss. Consider yourself lucky that you were able to figure him out before you got involved with this guy.
I don't think married people on dating sites are all that unusual.
Move on.
Unfortunately there will be other predators.
Kudos for being so perceptive. You'll be fine methinks.
Laura25: Sorry for your bad experience, Swiss. Consider yourself lucky that you were able to figure him out before you got involved with this guy.
I don't think married people on dating sites are all that unusual.
Move on.
Unfortunately there will be other predators.
Kudos for being so perceptive. You'll be fine methinks.
Thank you Laura.. Ya I know they are online, it just sucks when there are scammers and players also besides these married men who waste our time..It took me only 2 weeks to figure him out and catch him in his lies but it is still wasted time and made me angry that again another loser did this to me. Guess I'm going to have to make a thicker shield and not let these creeps get to me so much.. Thanks again for the nice comment.
Swissblueeyes: Thank you Laura.. Ya I know they are online, it just sucks when there are scammers and players also besides these married men who waste our time..It took me only 2 weeks to figure him out and catch him in his lies but it is still wasted time and made me angry that again another loser did this to me. Guess I'm going to have to make a thicker shield and not let these creeps get to me so much.. Thanks again for the nice comment.
Oh, I do understand your frustration. You are absolutely right to feel the way you do -- it was your time that was waited and it were your emotions that were wasted on a skunk.
But you are not a naive girl (like it about you), you do take this chance, you know? And it is so worth it when you meet a real man. They are out there...
Laura25: Oh, I do understand your frustration. You are absolutely right to feel the way you do -- it was your time that was wasted and it were your emotions that were wasted on a skunk.
But you are not a naive girl (like it about you), you do take this chance, you know? And it is so worth it when you meet a real man. They are out there...
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but i deserve to be treated with decency
and so do all
i was misunderstood and sincerely wanted to clear it up
she is havin none of it and seems able to justify treating certain people badly based on what they do-
im just in the dark about that type of thinking
right is right and my posting was about what is right not that she is bad but she couldnt seem to get that and as i said i think thats unfortunate
so i made a mistake wont be the last im sure but it sucks when you try to make amends and they are rejected is all
i mean it really was never that serious to me tho i guess it came off that way to others
oh well
Not the first time you have said I was MISUNDERSTOOD Mindful,
I have seen you being "misunderstood" in many threads.
You pursued the lass all throughout and made the same "misunderstood" point endlessly which she defended and it got silly once your point was made there was littles sense in repeating it. I reckon this is best left to die and you both agree to difer, much the same as other folk who have had input here they all say leave it and I agree ......As always JMO.... :cheers
Just a thought mindful why not beore you post think of the efect of what you are going to say will have on others then you will not have to spend so much time making AMENDS or being MISUNDERSTOOD