StillOfTheNight: Would make no difference to me, I am frightened of everyone
I never posted his id name on here and mindfull was not there when this guy called me or what was said on the phone numerous times by him...Its not gossip if you experienced it first hand nor have i mentioned his name on here..it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out if a man is "married" and after 20 years of supposedly being not legally separated but physically separated is very questionable along with many other things he told me. so most would figure out hes a player..I escaped his game and Im glad..A honest man wouldnt be scared off just because I caught a non honest man at his game. so if a player was scared off then it just saves me less wasted time.
Swissblueeyes: I never posted his id name on here and mindfull was not there when this guy called me or what was said on the phone numerous times by him...Its not gossip if you experienced it first hand nor have i mentioned his name on here..it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out if a man is "married" and after 20 years of supposedly being not legally separated but physically separated is very questionable along with many other things he told me. so most would figure out hes a player..I escaped his game and Im glad..A honest man wouldnt be scared off just because I caught a non honest man at his game. so if a player was scared off then it just saves me less wasted time.
I am lot of things but a player is not one of them.
StillOfTheNight: I am lot of things but a player is not one of them.
No..I didnt say you were a player..I was talking about him or any guy out there who mindfull thinks I might have scared off.. you definitely are not a player..your one of the honest guys..
Swissblueeyes: No..I didnt say you were a player..I was talking about him or any guy out there who mindfull thinks I might have scared off.. you definitely are not a player..your one of the honest guys..
i didnt say you scared him off i said youve scared any thinking man off
it is gossip
see the cs rules and a dictionary
look the comment i was made wasnt to upset you it was a matter of principle
as i said if yoiu werent considered good looking you wouldnt be allowed such behavior on this site
what you have said here and on the mans blog is yukky
simples
and we all know if the tables were turned all the men here now would be defending you valiantly
swiss you swearing to us what happened doesnt hold water- which is not personal about you it is a principle of adult behavior
and i for one dont think youre even attractive really but i understand people
and men
as i said -i was speaking on principle
did you bother looking up the definition of gossip?
or reading the rules for posting?
i have no vendetta against you lifes too short kiddo
i said at least 4 times and explained my point repeatedly it is not personal about you
i made some points that are absolutely valid and i made some observations
not a big deal
you so often do the wail about how chicks hate you because youre good looking and blah-dy blah blah you are the first to feel personally insulted but always find justification in insulting another
youre too easy
you could never earn a vendetta from me
you completely misunderstood and for that i am sorry
From what i see...you both have your opinions on the matter.Swiss you made some good points, but so did mindful.Just agree to disagree on the matter....but i do agree with mindful you shouldn't have said any thing about the bog,and there are two sides to every story.I feel you did the right thing breaking off with this guy,so forget about it and move on..lesson learned
mindfful: i didnt say you scared him off i said youve scared any thinking man off
it is gossip
see the cs rules and a dictionary
look the comment i was made wasnt to upset you it was a matter of principle
as i said if yoiu werent considered good looking you wouldnt be allowed such behavior on this site
what you have said here and on the mans blog is yukky
simples
and we all know if the tables were turned all the men here now would be defending you valiantly
swiss you swearing to us what happened doesnt hold water- which is not personal about you it is a principle of adult behavior
Many people post their dating experiences on here and CS has a tab to click in the forums to make for "dating experiences"..Its not gossip if you experienced it first hand and I dont need a dictionary to know what I've experienced or read in the forums from other members when they have gone through things on a date or otherwise before considering dating someone..!
Swissblueeyes: Many people post their dating experiences on here and CS has a tab to click in the forums to make for "dating experiences"..Its not gossip if you experienced it first hand and I dont need a dictionary to know what I've experienced or read in the forums from other members when they have gone through things on a date or otherwise before considering dating someone..!
again you are missing the point
and again i will say i am sorry for that
talking about OUR feelings and experiences WITHOUT placing attacking posts on the persons blog is common and within the rules-indeed
but anyone who would hear one side of a story and make a decision on a person based on hearsay is an adolescent. and they are also listening to gossip
just cuz you didnt mention his name here you mentioned how to find him and posted nastiness to his blog
thats not just sharing your dating experience
hey maybe im wrong
i say everyone at CS should talk to each other for a week and then post here about it and see if anyone ever gets together/
oh yeah and then lets post nastiness at each other complete with accusations -thats a great idea!!
why can you not for even a moment step back and see the big picture? why must you be in a victim state and think its an attack on you? its not. in fact there was some good advice there but you miss it being so busy being a victim-
im not meaning to cause you to feel attacked at all swiss-just wanting to get you to stop and think and have a golden rule moment maybe?
mindfful: what about nothing personal do you not understand
and i for one dont think youre even attractive really but i understand peopleand men
as i said -i was speaking on principle
did you bother looking up the definition of gossip?
or reading the rules for posting?
i have no vendetta against you lifes too short kiddo
i said at least 4 times and explained my point repeatedly it is not personal about you
i made some points that are absolutely valid and i made some observations
not a big deal
you so often do the wail about how chicks hate you because youre good looking and blah-dy blah blah you are the first to feel personally insulted but always find justification in insulting another
youre too easy
you could never earn a vendetta from me
you completely misunderstood and for that i am sorry
I have NOT insulted you in any way on here mindfull. I dont know why you have to shoot first before asking a question to me either other than you have some personal dislike towards me..AGAIN this forum has tabs we can click the link to post our "dating & relating experiences"..Tons of members have used it and told their stories, but of course you accuse me of gossiping..Its only gossip if you hear it 2nd hand..Not if you experience it yourself fist hand like I have "with him" & I did NOT post his ID name on here..
nighthawk2069: From what i see...you both have your opinions on the matter.Swiss you made some good points, but so did mindful.Just agree to disagree on the matter....but i do agree with mindful you shouldn't have said any thing about the bog,and there are two sides to every story.I feel you did the right thing breaking off with this guy,so forget about it and move on..lesson learned
Swissblueeyes: I have NOT insulted you in any way on here mindfull. I dont know why you have to shoot first before asking a question to me either other than you have some personal dislike towards me..AGAIN this forum has tabs we can click the link to post our "dating & relating experiences"..Tons of members have used it and told their stories, but of course you accuse me of gossiping..Its only gossip if you hear it 2nd hand..Not if you experience it yourself fist hand like I have "with him" & I did NOT post his ID name on here..
have you been drinking today??
i dont feel insulted
i never shoot first
why would i ask you anything?
chick- dig this
see cs rules for posting and gossip
if i hear it from you THAT IS SECOND HAND
thats what gossip is- talking about someone who is not present
and i said a dozen times i dont like or dislike you you do not matter- i do not know you
what matters is principles-period
and yours are a fright
and you most certainly did point directly at the guy and you posted ugliness to him and ive said that before too
seriously get on with it CS has a dating experiences topic area it is not there to slander others
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