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demonfairy: you have mail.
and i would also appreciate you not 'explaining' me to people
since you dont get it either
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swiaa
wikipedia is not comparable to a dictionary
and CS has the right to define gossip as they see fit
you are free to report me but to mail me calling me evil and such?
what
ever
report away dear but i havent been unkind to you for a moment and you have been absolutely vile to me in such a letter and it is clear you can justify any ugly behavior as long as its you doing it
wikipedia is not comparable to a dictionary
and CS has the right to define gossip as they see fit
you are free to report me but to mail me calling me evil and such?
what
ever
report away dear but i havent been unkind to you for a moment and you have been absolutely vile to me in such a letter and it is clear you can justify any ugly behavior as long as its you doing it
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mindfful: and i would also appreciate you not 'explaining' me to people since you dont get it either
Mindful you have gave her your opinion,you don't have to cram it down her throat..it is her forum,she knows what she did wrong,you don't have to keep telling her over and over.You i send mail to is none of your busniness...give it a rest for a change,why don't you and leave the woman to her forum.....just saying enough is enough...
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im one messed up freek of a woman?
i am here victimizing women?
the fact is the guy upset you but anyone can say anything here when the other party isnt here to defend themselves
we have over the years seen many worse accusations of members than they are here and married trying to date
it is not our place to 'expose' other members, only to report them
so says CS
again- rules-not mine-but in good taste i think
its strange you can be so upset about this man but then think nothing of sending such a hate filled downright cruel letter.
i never insulted you
i am here victimizing women?
the fact is the guy upset you but anyone can say anything here when the other party isnt here to defend themselves
we have over the years seen many worse accusations of members than they are here and married trying to date
it is not our place to 'expose' other members, only to report them
so says CS
again- rules-not mine-but in good taste i think
its strange you can be so upset about this man but then think nothing of sending such a hate filled downright cruel letter.
i never insulted you
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demonfairy: Mindful you have gave her your opinion,you don't have to cram it down her throat..it is her forum,she knows what she did wrong,you don't have to keep telling her over and over.You i send mail to is none of your busniness...give it a rest for a change,why don't you and leave the woman to her forum.....just saying enough is enough...
you didnt say it in mail you said it in this forum
believe me i dont want any business who you mail about what
funny you cant see who has kept it going
funny you have pointed out to others who have done this exactly what i have said
funny how you are here trying to protect and regulate traffic on an open forum
no forum or thread belongs to anyone anyway
it belongs to all which is why the rules are in place
5.This Forum is for public posts only. To email one-on-one with another member, use the "Email" button on that member's profile. The forum is not a platform to play out private arguments between members, or to expose the wrongs of others. Keep private discussions to email.
21. You may not use the forum to accuse, ‘expose’ or gossip about other members.
all thru i made clear i was discussing principle and not 'attacking' swiss -and i dont BS i am clear and sincere
i can sleep tonight cuz i havent been horrid to anyone today
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mindfful: why are you telling others?
report me yourself
i have broken no rules
you have
i didnt post on his blog like i know or dont know you
what i posted on his blog is what I posted on his blog
TO HIM
see thats the funny thing about principles
they apply across the board
to everyone
and i didnt make up the definition of gossip
it is what it is
you can cry wolf and shout how what you say is true but no one knows except you and he
CS and i happen to have the same definition of gossip
its in their rules- read them
as i have said-this has zero to do with you, me and you,or me.
this has to do with what is right and wrong, regardless of who is doing what to whom, and also what is good taste and what are the rules at the site-which i happen to agree with.
i havent reported you, but that is my choice not to.
you also have a choice- exercise it
you have now also made a personal attack on me. you do not, it is clear, understand my motives for posting- and you are also wrong about them.
2 wrongs dont make a right.
i can feel sorry the guy offended you but not agree with your method of scandalizing someone on here.
its a shame you cant separate those 2 concepts
Im reporting you for disrupting my thread and fighting with me..report me yourself
i have broken no rules
you have
i didnt post on his blog like i know or dont know you
what i posted on his blog is what I posted on his blog
TO HIM
see thats the funny thing about principles
they apply across the board
to everyone
and i didnt make up the definition of gossip
it is what it is
you can cry wolf and shout how what you say is true but no one knows except you and he
CS and i happen to have the same definition of gossip
its in their rules- read them
as i have said-this has zero to do with you, me and you,or me.
this has to do with what is right and wrong, regardless of who is doing what to whom, and also what is good taste and what are the rules at the site-which i happen to agree with.
i havent reported you, but that is my choice not to.
you also have a choice- exercise it
you have now also made a personal attack on me. you do not, it is clear, understand my motives for posting- and you are also wrong about them.
2 wrongs dont make a right.
i can feel sorry the guy offended you but not agree with your method of scandalizing someone on here.
its a shame you cant separate those 2 concepts
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Swissblueeyes: Im reporting you for disrupting my thread and fighting with me..
bon appetit
i never fought with you however
laff all you like fairy
it wasnt a nice feeling to see you post that about me in here
i think it was unkind and more appropriate in email but thats just my lowly opinion isnt it?
this is exactly the opinion i was getting at all along
if a person is principled their values dont change
it isnt ok to treat some with simple decency and not others
im not no one- i am as someone as anyone else here
we are all equal and i have feelings too yet here are two adult women that find it ok to be hateful and unkind to me
why? cuz 'i made you'?
sad really
show decency to those we like and who cares about anyone else
thats whats wrong with the world
you can say whatever you like about me but my principles dont vary according to who is being inappropriate-
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mindfful: bon appetit
i never fought with you however
laff all you like fairy
it wasnt a nice feeling to see you post that about me in here
i think it was unkind and more appropriate in email but thats just my lowly opinion isnt it?
this is exactly the opinion i was getting at all along
if a person is principled their values dont change
it isnt ok to treat some with simple decency and not others
im not no one- i am as someone as anyone else here
we are all equal and i have feelings too yet here are two adult women that find it ok to be hateful and unkind to me
why? cuz 'i made you'?
sad really
show decency to those we like and who cares about anyone else
thats whats wrong with the world
you can say whatever you like about me but my principles dont vary according to who is being inappropriate-
i never fought with you however
laff all you like fairy
it wasnt a nice feeling to see you post that about me in here
i think it was unkind and more appropriate in email but thats just my lowly opinion isnt it?
this is exactly the opinion i was getting at all along
if a person is principled their values dont change
it isnt ok to treat some with simple decency and not others
im not no one- i am as someone as anyone else here
we are all equal and i have feelings too yet here are two adult women that find it ok to be hateful and unkind to me
why? cuz 'i made you'?
sad really
show decency to those we like and who cares about anyone else
thats whats wrong with the world
you can say whatever you like about me but my principles dont vary according to who is being inappropriate-
Look I don't want to get caught up in this argument, because it isn't mine, but just wanted to mention that perhaps it might've been more appropriate for you to chastise the OP via email rather than on her thread. It was kinda like having your knuckles rapped in public? That tends to make a person become defensive. I understand your points, but think you could've made them clearly without personally attacking her, saying on one of your posts she is unprincipled. I think that was a bit rough. Unfortunately it also comes across as patronising.
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I'll play judge for one sec: 
Swiss: I find no problem with your thread, so long as it doesn't point to the person. Your comment to his blog was a really bad idea. Not only you revealed who the person is, but you started what can easily evolve into an ugly fight that'll get you both banned. It wasn't necessary; it'd be much more civil to let him express his views and side of the story, provided he doesn't mention you. But yeah, mistakes happen and we all do them--we learn by first acknowledging them.
Mindfful: I agree with your take on the situation, but after the first couple of comments, what's the deal? You ain't her mother, or a CS moderator... and you overdid it... so it's time to stop. You could also be a bit softer in the delivery of your message; then your comment may have a more positive impact.
Swiss: I find no problem with your thread, so long as it doesn't point to the person. Your comment to his blog was a really bad idea. Not only you revealed who the person is, but you started what can easily evolve into an ugly fight that'll get you both banned. It wasn't necessary; it'd be much more civil to let him express his views and side of the story, provided he doesn't mention you. But yeah, mistakes happen and we all do them--we learn by first acknowledging them.
Mindfful: I agree with your take on the situation, but after the first couple of comments, what's the deal? You ain't her mother, or a CS moderator... and you overdid it... so it's time to stop. You could also be a bit softer in the delivery of your message; then your comment may have a more positive impact.
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pierrot_le_fou: I'll play judge for one sec:
Swiss: I find no problem with your thread, so long as it doesn't point to the person. Your comment to his blog was a really bad idea. Not only you revealed who the person is, but you started what can easily evolve into an ugly fight that'll get you both banned. It wasn't necessary; it'd be much more civil to let him express his views and side of the story, provided he doesn't mention you. But yeah, mistakes happen and we all do them--we learn by first acknowledging them.
Mindfful: I agree with your take on the situation, but after the first couple of comments, what's the deal? You ain't her mother, or a CS moderator... and you overdid it... so it's time to stop. You could also be a bit softer in the delivery of your message; then your comment may have a more positive impact.
Swiss: I find no problem with your thread, so long as it doesn't point to the person. Your comment to his blog was a really bad idea. Not only you revealed who the person is, but you started what can easily evolve into an ugly fight that'll get you both banned. It wasn't necessary; it'd be much more civil to let him express his views and side of the story, provided he doesn't mention you. But yeah, mistakes happen and we all do them--we learn by first acknowledging them.
Mindfful: I agree with your take on the situation, but after the first couple of comments, what's the deal? You ain't her mother, or a CS moderator... and you overdid it... so it's time to stop. You could also be a bit softer in the delivery of your message; then your comment may have a more positive impact.
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thats your opinion
she kept getting upset
i kept attempting to re explain that it wasnt personal
what
ever
this is frickin childs play
if grown folks cant separate these issues seriously i cant be bothered
i never once insulted the woman nor did i be harsh or mothering
i tried to clear up what was apparently unclear and was never able to help the situation
so kill me
i didnt cause anyone to call me names or be hateful
what is peoples problem with being accountable for their own actions?
things happen being horrid isnt the answer
but yeah im always the bad guy-
i can take it
i can take it alot easier when im not here however
people in the world dont find me this way
they find me to be a thinking principled consistent compassionate and warm person
and believe it or not so do most folks on CS
she kept getting upset
i kept attempting to re explain that it wasnt personal
what
ever
this is frickin childs play
if grown folks cant separate these issues seriously i cant be bothered
i never once insulted the woman nor did i be harsh or mothering
i tried to clear up what was apparently unclear and was never able to help the situation
so kill me
i didnt cause anyone to call me names or be hateful
what is peoples problem with being accountable for their own actions?
things happen being horrid isnt the answer
but yeah im always the bad guy-
i can take it
i can take it alot easier when im not here however
people in the world dont find me this way
they find me to be a thinking principled consistent compassionate and warm person
and believe it or not so do most folks on CS
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mindfful:
but yeah im always the bad guy-
i can take it
i can take it alot easier when im not here however
people in the world dont find me this way
they find me to be a thinking principled consistent compassionate and warm person
and believe it or not so do most folks on CS
but yeah im always the bad guy-
i can take it
i can take it alot easier when im not here however
people in the world dont find me this way
they find me to be a thinking principled consistent compassionate and warm person
and believe it or not so do most folks on CS
I believe so too... but I also think you made a mistake.
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pierrot_le_fou: I believe so too... but I also think you made a mistake. Last post, I promise
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pierrot_le_fou: I believe so too... but I also think you made a mistake. Last post, I promise
im not perfect
but i deserve to be treated with decency
and so do all
i was misunderstood and sincerely wanted to clear it up
she is havin none of it and seems able to justify treating certain people badly based on what they do-
im just in the dark about that type of thinking
right is right and my posting was about what is right not that she is bad but she couldnt seem to get that and as i said i think thats unfortunate
so i made a mistake wont be the last im sure but it sucks when you try to make amends and they are rejected is all
i mean it really was never that serious to me tho i guess it came off that way to others
oh well
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Swissblueeyes: I find nothing she said or did to me as "compassionate"..posting repeated bashing threads towards me is far from compassion. I had some mail from members who dont think she is either..I wont mention any names on who they are but just saying.
i never ever bashed you and i defy you to point out where i did
that is your perception and as many times as i said im sorry you feel that way and tried to separate your choice from your person you never got it and you still get what is apparently the delicious luxury of shouting about how bad i am-even tho it isnt true
i got mail too
never mentioned it
i dont care who agrees-thats the point of it all swiss
whats right is right. period.
exposing someone when they arent present isnt right.
but if justifying it makes it ok for you i will just have to understand and exit
again my intent was never and still is not to bash
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To the other NORMAL posters:> I posted this out of anguish because of my run ins with scammers, players and now this experience with a married man who is posing as "single" but is NOT legally separated ( and admitted it) who was trying to "play" me..If anyone here has some sound advise on this topic on how to recognize earlier if someone is married or any stradegy on how to avoid it, could you add your input? Thank you.
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Swissblueeyes: To the other NORMAL posters:> I posted this out of anguish because of my run ins with scammers, players and now this experience with a married man who is posing as "single" but is NOT legally separated ( and admitted it) who was trying to "play" me..If anyone here has some sound advise on this topic on how to recognize earlier if someone is married or any stradegy on how to avoid it, could you add your input? Thank you.
Oh Swiss, you're very angry right now. It's time to step away from this thread and let it go down quietly. I don't wanna qualify as a "normal" poster, because that's insulting to those, who have posted on your thread before.
Nevertheless, I'll say this in answer to your question: if I posted a thread on every guy, who's lied to me, I could fill up the forums quite easily. In future ignore and delete. Don't get angry, cos it's not worth it and you'll only get upset.
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Maybe he is a doctor and taking his own meds.
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why are you telling others?
report me yourself
i have broken no rules
you have
i didnt post on his blog like i know or dont know you
what i posted on his blog is what I posted on his blog
TO HIM
see thats the funny thing about principles
they apply across the board
to everyone
and i didnt make up the definition of gossip
it is what it is
you can cry wolf and shout how what you say is true but no one knows except you and he
CS and i happen to have the same definition of gossip
its in their rules- read them
as i have said-this has zero to do with you, me and you,or me.
this has to do with what is right and wrong, regardless of who is doing what to whom, and also what is good taste and what are the rules at the site-which i happen to agree with.
i havent reported you, but that is my choice not to.
you also have a choice- exercise it
you have now also made a personal attack on me. you do not, it is clear, understand my motives for posting- and you are also wrong about them.
2 wrongs dont make a right.
i can feel sorry the guy offended you but not agree with your method of scandalizing someone on here.
its a shame you cant separate those 2 concepts