Victim or Culprit (73)

Nov 22, 2010 4:07 PM CST Victim or Culprit
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
whiteontop: No offense taken....Victim is probably the wrong word but it is my first thread and one is always learning. What I really had in mind was the hurt that one partner inflicts upon the other by their uncalled for behaviour. Through my own imature/uncalled for deeds and actions I caused a great deal of pain and that is where I am really coming from.


Well, my ex was unbearable. She used to frequently criticise me for getting drunk and sleeping with other women, one of whom was her sister! I was definately the victim!sigh
Nov 22, 2010 4:12 PM CST Victim or Culprit
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Godsgift: Well, my ex was unbearable. She used to frequently criticise me for getting drunk and sleeping with other women, one of whom was her sister! I was definately the victim!


Ehhh......She didn't understand you? confused

laugh laugh laugh
Nov 22, 2010 4:13 PM CST Victim or Culprit
sharmini
sharminisharminidublin, Dublin Ireland83 Threads 1 Polls 2,918 Posts
Godsgift: Well, my ex was unbearable. She used to frequently criticise me for getting drunk and sleeping with other women, one of whom was her sister! I was definately the victim!

laugh ah GG youre priceless!
Nov 22, 2010 4:20 PM CST Victim or Culprit
Partiro
PartiroPartiroNaas, Kildare Ireland14 Threads 4,515 Posts
Godsgift: Well, my ex was unbearable. She used to frequently criticise me for getting drunk and sleeping with other women, one of whom was her sister! I was definately the victim!
This is one for Jerry Springer laugh laugh laugh wave
Nov 22, 2010 4:29 PM CST Victim or Culprit
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Partiro: This is one for Jerry Springer


Oh can't you picture the scene?

laugh laugh

Long time no see P. wave wave
Nov 23, 2010 10:05 AM CST Victim or Culprit
MOD313
MOD313MOD313DERRY, Derry Ireland1,014 Posts
Godsgift: Well, my ex was unbearable. She used to frequently criticise me for getting drunk and sleeping with other women, one of whom was her sister! I was definately the victim!
comfort awww you poor man you wer only spreadin the love rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 23, 2010 10:30 AM CST Victim or Culprit
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Always the culprit... grin
Nov 23, 2010 10:36 AM CST Victim or Culprit
whiteontop
whiteontopwhiteontopBelfast, Armagh Ireland16 Threads 1,389 Posts
Olsojente: Always the culprit...


safety in numbers....your pic
Nov 27, 2010 4:47 PM CST Victim or Culprit
carrickgirl
carrickgirlcarrickgirlsouth tipp, Tipperary Ireland1 Threads 50 Posts
70Libra: I refuse to be a victim... so I guess that makes me the culprit. I finished things by asking him to leave.
thumbs up i did the same and is the best thing ive ever done bar from having my 3 boyspurple heart
Nov 27, 2010 4:50 PM CST Victim or Culprit
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
carrickgirl: i did the same and is the best thing ive ever done bar from having my 3 boys



thumbs up Me too...only wish id reached my breaking point earlier....but ive loved my life since....stress free and happy!banana
Nov 27, 2010 4:56 PM CST Victim or Culprit
carrickgirl
carrickgirlcarrickgirlsouth tipp, Tipperary Ireland1 Threads 50 Posts
sugar77: Me too...only wish id reached my breaking point earlier....but ive loved my life since....stress free and happy!
laugh thumbs up so have i hun i dont dread going home i love waking up stress free its a breath of fresh air hassle free i should have walked years ago but was young an stupid rolling on the floor laughing no im old stupid and haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappy xxlaugh
Nov 27, 2010 4:59 PM CST Victim or Culprit
martini100
martini100martini100wexford, Wexford Ireland19 Threads 2,158 Posts
In response to: Divorced or Break-Up of Long Term RelationshipWere you the Victim or the Culprit?





Well if kicking him out for cheating means i was the victim , then i guess i was rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 27, 2010 5:01 PM CST Victim or Culprit
sugar77
sugar77sugar77bray, Wicklow Ireland13 Threads 3,902 Posts
carrickgirl: so have i hun i dont dread going home i love waking up stress free its a breath of fresh air hassle free i should have walked years ago but was young an stupid no im old stupid and haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappy xx


laugh Ye you can beat yourself up asking why didnt you leave sooner but hindsight is a wonderful thing....just dont dwell on the past...they aint worth a second more of your thoughts...wasted enough of my life on him...my home is now a home not a place of dread and misery....just me and my 10 yr old...happy!hug
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