In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one! ( Archived) (24)

Dec 18, 2010 5:02 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
In Body, Mind, and Spirit

What True Love is Really about...
I thought this would be Nice to Share, as It Explains Two Soulmates..
These are My Very Close Neighbors, An Elder Couple, who live up the Road were High School Sweethearts...I attended their 60th Wedding Aniversary about 2 Years Ago, The Two were both Having Health Issue one 82, one 83 Yrs old,
On Wendsday He Died, within 1 1/2 days, She Joined Him in Death..
Their 3 Sons are Friends of Mine, and Their Grandson, is My Sons Best Friend, who went to school Togather....

I got News of this Last Night, as the Morticians, are also Friends of Mine, and Friends Of the Whole Community...

This Man that Died, Had a Buisness Digging Graves, at the Local Cemetary, As He Retired He Passed the Job and the Equiptment to one of the Sons.....Who Digs ALL of the Graves here,
They are Having BOTH BODYS, togather for Memorial Sunday at 2pm...This Family Lost Both Mom and Dad This week, and One of the Sons, will Dig The Graves For BOTH of his Parents at the same time...I Talked to Him tonight, and I didnt want to say too much, as I didnt want to break Him Down, infront of a Series of People...So I Told Him I was So Sorry, and I Told Him, I said I have Lost both Of My Parents.
I Pointed to Him and Said, Everythings Going to be Allright...
He sat up in his Chair, Pointed His Finger back at Me, and Said, That was the last Words That My Mother told Me, He said , Mom Pointed Her Finger at me, and Said, Everythings Going to be Allright..... Just Before She Died Too...
We were Both Speechless, and Without Words, But He Felt a Peace Come over Him.... Could You Immagine Digging The Hole For Both Parents at the same time, and Having Mom and Dad, at the same Service? sad flower

These Two Actually became One Flesh, In Body, Mind and Spirit..This is the best Example that I could Ever Give Of True Love.. When He Shut Down, She Also soon after Closed Her Eyes, and Gave Up Her Spirit.... They Died Togather, Will be in the Same Service, and Burried Togather at the same time.
I will Attend These Services, And Probaby the Burial Too...
They Were Very Close Friends and Neighbors, and Lived Here all of their lives, The Whole Town is about Speechless...

I just had 2 Deaths in My Family two weeks ago as well...I Only Thought This Story should be Shared With this Singles CS Community, as an Example Love, and Soul Mates, These Two Were an Example Of Love, and Two Becoming one....

I Dont Cook Often just for me, Tho I have A Freezer Full of Meat, I will Cook an Abundance of this for the family and friends, As an Offering To This Family,

Please Let Your Thoughts, Minds,Hearts, and Prayers Go out To The Horn Family, and Wish Them Strength...In The Days to Come...


sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower teddybear
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Dec 18, 2010 5:07 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
cincity
cincitycincitytoronto, Ontario Canada9 Threads 2,496 Posts
So sad yet so beautiful...I have seen this happen before..It is hard for one to go on when you have lost your heart...After being with that one special person for so many years how would you..how could you..it would be as if only half of you was alive anymore...

Love is eternal!

teddybear

May they rest in each others arms forever more
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Dec 18, 2010 5:20 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
EntwangledAgain
EntwangledAgainEntwangledAgainWokingham, Berkshire, England UK33 Posts
As the poster above said..so sad yet so beautiful too.

My dad's mum passed away in the November when my dad was in his twenties. (way before he met my mum)
Two weeks later his father passed away as well.

It was a very sad time for my dad.

His parents ran a pub and so they knew a huge amount of people in the area and the wake was held at the pub.
One of his father's friends passed him a letter from his father that day.
He wrote to my dad and his brother to say that he loved their mum so much that he knew he would follow her soon and felt he simply couldn't live without her.
Dad's father wasn't ill, didn't take his own life but died naturally but knew he would give up once the love of his life was gone.

My thoughts go out to aeveryone who has lost someone close to them.
Christmas makes it all the more apparent that they were and are still very much loved.
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Dec 18, 2010 5:22 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
I will share that this Couple, Met every day at the local Pub, at about 5pm, for 35 Years, and never Missed one day, in 35 years, unless it was Closed Sunday, or for a Holiday....
They said they never missed one day, that the place was open...

They Drank 2-3 Beers, Visited and Then Went Home for the Day..
This will Probably be the Biggest Memorial Service in The Towns History...rose
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Dec 18, 2010 5:31 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
So sad for the whole family, friends and the community. sad flower

I can perfectly understand that happening with two people as you described, given they shared such a special love. Twins suffer much the same in the absence of the other. Maybe that's why the term 'Twin Souls'.

In any case, a broken heart can be very real.

"Takotsubo cardiomyopathy, also known as ....stress-induced cardiomyopathy, broken-heart-syndrome...there is a sudden temporary weakening of the myocardium (the muscle of the heart). Because this weakening can be triggered by emotional stress, such as the death of a loved one, a break-up, or constant rejection, the condition is also known as broken heart syndrome.... Takotsubo cardiomyopathy is more commonly seen in post-menopausal women. Often there is a history of a recent severe emotional or physical stress."

angel angel
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Dec 18, 2010 5:37 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
A perfect ending for a wonderful couple. May the family find peace in the knowledge that they live on together still in perfect harmony.

Their passing together is a blessing,and their memorial will be a tribute to a wonderful couple who sought joy in each other.

God bless them and keep them safe.angel
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Dec 27, 2010 7:57 PM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
Keepalowprofile
KeepalowprofileKeepalowprofileSturgeon Lake, Minnesota USA8 Posts
Thats a bitter sweet story.

Thanks for sharing it.
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Dec 27, 2010 9:45 PM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
suggasugga
suggasuggasuggasuggaLos Angeles, California USA8 Threads 1,267 Posts
Here in my late 50's I hope there is one man out there for me to still grow old with because was not meant to be spent alone that was a bitter sweet love story so sadsad flower R.I.P angel angel angel comfort
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Dec 27, 2010 10:42 PM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
heart wings heart wings
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Dec 27, 2010 10:54 PM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
When you lose your parents - you find more of yourself...wine
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Dec 27, 2010 11:09 PM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
Outofafrica
OutofafricaOutofafricaPerth, Western Australia Australia5 Threads 1,296 Posts
Hotrod, weren't u lucky to have had to such wonderful people in your life. It is such a rareity today to see two people so intune with each other. Should we all be so lucky. teddybear
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Dec 28, 2010 2:21 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
LILLYLADY
LILLYLADYLILLYLADYunknown, Ohio USA27 Threads 1,293 Posts
Hotrod, that is the most beautiful story. You were so very lucky to have known such people in life. I also have a story but not on the magnitude of the impact that couple made on a town.

My father died 4 months after my mother. They were both ill. As we had a small home, they slept in the same bed side by side dying. His blind eyes and kidney failing body always touching her cancer ridden body. He grieved for my mother every day after she died and would plead with God to please take him so he could be with her. I believe he eventually got his wish possibly from a broken heart before his kidneys totally failed even.

They were soul mates.

Sadly, he left my brothers and I orphaned as young teenagers. This was 1967-68.
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Dec 28, 2010 4:11 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
I just want to say Thank You to all who Posted,
I did go to the wake, and the funeral..

It was a Military Service, as he served in WW II..
They had a 6 Gun Salute, with Military Folding his flag at the end, Tho when they Fired the Guns, The Ringing, Sounded with a Ringing of Silence afterward, It was a Total Joy and Honor to stand in this Funeral...The Family is doing well, and I talked to one Son today, he is doing OK...They were both Sick, and loosing weight, and in Pain, as both had cancer one lung cancer and the other bone cancer...so It was their time, and didnt suffer too badly considering...

It was a Sad Day, and also a Joyful Day, that they Perished Togather without and more suffering, I took The food I cooked to the Family Members, and they were Greatful....
all I can say is they were Great Neighbors...and Friends..

They Will be Missed rose hmmm sad flower
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Dec 28, 2010 4:17 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
linzy
linzylinzyIndonesia, Jakarta Indonesia126 Posts
its a good story but sad at the same time... at least they wont b missing each other, must b hard to lost someone that u've been with since highschool crying

they r indeed soulmate RIP sad flower

thanx for sharing gift
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Dec 28, 2010 4:23 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
Larry, I too thank you for posting that beautiful story. It is such a perfect example of true Love. I was remended of a movie named "The Note Book" with Jemes Garner. It'd hard to keep the eyes dry when such a story is told.
sad flower
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Dec 28, 2010 9:24 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Thats what happened with my great aunt and uncle. They married when she was 15 and was the only man she ever loved. They loved each other madly all of thier lives. He passed suddenly of a heart attack in his old age and she passed a lil over 3 months later in her sleep...she said she didnt want to live without him and she just faded away sad flower
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Dec 28, 2010 10:04 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
HotrodLarrys: In Body, Mind, and Spirit

What True Love is Really about...
I thought this would be Nice to Share, as It Explains Two Soulmates..
These are My Very Close Neighbors, An Elder Couple, who live up the Road were High School Sweethearts...I attended their 60th Wedding Aniversary about 2 Years Ago, The Two were both Having Health Issue one 82, one 83 Yrs old,
On Wendsday He Died, within 1 1/2 days, She Joined Him in Death..
Their 3 Sons are Friends of Mine, and Their Grandson, is My Sons Best Friend, who went to school Togather....

I got News of this Last Night, as the Morticians, are also Friends of Mine, and Friends Of the Whole Community...

This Man that Died, Had a Buisness Digging Graves, at the Local Cemetary, As He Retired He Passed the Job and the Equiptment to one of the Sons.....Who Digs ALL of the Graves here,
They are Having BOTH BODYS, togather for Memorial Sunday at 2pm...This Family Lost Both Mom and Dad This week, and One of the Sons, will Dig The Graves For BOTH of his Parents at the same time...I Talked to Him tonight, and I didnt want to say too much, as I didnt want to break Him Down, infront of a Series of People...So I Told Him I was So Sorry, and I Told Him, I said I have Lost both Of My Parents.
I Pointed to Him and Said, Everythings Going to be Allright...
He sat up in his Chair, Pointed His Finger back at Me, and Said, That was the last Words That My Mother told Me, He said , Mom Pointed Her Finger at me, and Said, Everythings Going to be Allright..... Just Before She Died Too...
We were Both Speechless, and Without Words, But He Felt a Peace Come over Him.... Could You Immagine Digging The Hole For Both Parents at the same time, and Having Mom and Dad, at the same Service?

These Two Actually became One Flesh, In Body, Mind and Spirit..This is the best Example that I could Ever Give Of True Love.. When He Shut Down, She Also soon after Closed Her Eyes, and Gave Up Her Spirit.... They Died Togather, Will be in the Same Service, and Burried Togather at the same time.
I will Attend These Services, And Probaby the Burial Too...
They Were Very Close Friends and Neighbors, and Lived Here all of their lives, The Whole Town is about Speechless...

I just had 2 Deaths in My Family two weeks ago as well...I Only Thought This Story should be Shared With this Singles CS Community, as an Example Love, and Soul Mates, These Two Were an Example Of Love, and Two Becoming one....

I Dont Cook Often just for me, Tho I have A Freezer Full of Meat, I will Cook an Abundance of this for the family and friends, As an Offering To This Family,

Please Let Your Thoughts, Minds,Hearts, and Prayers Go out To The Horn Family, and Wish Them Strength...In The Days to Come...


Nothing I can say to top this. Glad you are there for them. Be strong.hug
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Dec 28, 2010 10:07 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
LegsEleven8
LegsEleven8LegsEleven8Melbourne, Victoria Australia11 Threads 253 Posts
venusenvy: Thats what happened with my great aunt and uncle. They married when she was 15 and was the only man she ever loved. They loved each other madly all of thier lives. He passed suddenly of a heart attack in his old age and she passed a lil over 3 months later in her sleep...she said she didnt want to live without him and she just faded away


My grandparents died within a month of each other. My grandpa even said he saw, on his death bed, my grandma sitting on the chair near the bed calling for him to join her...
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Dec 28, 2010 10:13 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
lonelywoman55
lonelywoman55lonelywoman55scranton, Pennsylvania USA3 Threads 3,618 Posts
sad flower sad flower
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Dec 28, 2010 10:32 AM CST In Deepest Sympathy, Two Became one!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
LegsEleven8: My grandparents died within a month of each other. My grandpa even said he saw, on his death bed, my grandma sitting on the chair near the bed calling for him to join her...


Hey! thats what my Aunt said the day she passed away...that My uncle "called" her and she wanted to go to him...The family just thought she was grieving when all along she was dying from a broken heart. sad flower
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