the oldier, the happier ??? ( Archived) (47)

Dec 20, 2010 5:04 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
this thread is FOR OVER 46 YRS ONLY... grin (hello carlosweb wave ) laugh

what makes people happy?

the answer the scientists give to this question is composed of four factors:

1) gender (yeah...us wimin are generally happier wink )
2) personality (being prone to negative feelings like guit, anger and anxiety makes persons unhappy)
3) external circumstances (relationships, education, income and health)
4) age....here we go, finally getting older brings some assets...you loose mental sharpness and looks but...gain in what we are all persuing: happiness

no pain, no gain grin

it seems that older people are happier, no matter what...

they have fewer rows and come up with better solutions to life's problems...they are better at controlling their emotions, accepting misfortune...they live according to the saying "you can't please all the people all the time"...

sounds encouraging...

oh, well...this study was prepared by scientists, that are mostly men, which means that they will have their funny convinctions and will be extremelly serious about them (my dad is convinced that margarine is better than butter and no way you can explain to him that he is wrong wink laugh)

this post was inpired by the article published on the Economist..if anyone is interested to learn more here is the link:


the number 46 refers to the statement made in the article according to which you start to be happy after your 46 birthday...
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Dec 20, 2010 5:10 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
In response to: this thread is FOR OVER 46 YRS ONLY... (hello carlosweb )

what makes people happy?

the answer the scientists give to this question is composed of four factors:

1) gender (yeah...us wimin are generally happier )
2) personality (being prone to negative feelings like guit, anger and anxiety makes persons unhappy)
3) external circumstances (relationships, education, income and health)
4) age....here we go, finally getting older brings some assets...you loose mental sharpness and looks but...gain in what we are all persuing: happiness

no pain, no gain

it seems that older people are happier, no matter what...

they have fewer rows and come up with better solutions to life's problems...they are better at controlling their emotions, accepting misfortune...they live according to the saying "you can't please all the people all the time"...

sounds encouraging...

oh, well...this study was prepared by scientists, that are mostly men, which means that they will have their funny convinctions and will be extremelly serious about them (my dad is convinced that margarine is better than butter and no way you can explain to him that he is wrong )

this post was inpired by the article published on the Economist..if anyone is interested to learn more here is the link:

the number 46 refers to the statement made in the article according to which you start to be happy after your 46 birthday...


Is that based on when economies around the world are booming or when they are steeped in gloom and doom, for many?
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Dec 20, 2010 5:11 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
iamwhoiamyousee
iamwhoiamyouseeiamwhoiamyouseeanywhere, Bavaria Germany18 Threads 2 Polls 962 Posts
laugh true ..happiness did start after it for me..rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 20, 2010 5:15 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
Veritaas: Is that based on when economies around the world are booming or when they are steeped in gloom and doom, for many?


well..yes

it is based mostly on the economies...and the study was made by the economist

in fact, in the article they state that for instance the Ukrainians are unhappiest at 62 yrs old and the Swiss in their 30thies...

the age 46 is supposed to be an average global date...
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Dec 20, 2010 7:50 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
<<<<<< Happy, happy, happy....grin
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Dec 20, 2010 7:56 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
confused mine started at 50, but I always was a slow learnerdunno








rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wine
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Dec 20, 2010 7:57 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Havnt got to 46 yetsnooty
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Dec 20, 2010 7:58 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
hi lucynad,
to be honest i dont normally take any notice of these surveys by scientists i think life is what you make it.
i always try not to let anything get me down as being
miserable is not going to change anything you just have to make the best of a bad situation.
life is to short to be miserable.

merry xmas craig kiss teddybear
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Dec 20, 2010 8:11 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
HJFinAZ: <<<<<< Happy, happy, happy....


HELLO HJFinAZ, wave

hmmm...

third time lucky?

thrice is nice... wink
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Dec 20, 2010 8:16 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
faded_dino: mine started at 50, but I always was a slow learner


hello faded_dino, wave

then you are perfectly in line with their study... wink

slowly but surely...


thanks for your answer
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Dec 20, 2010 8:20 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
lucynad: this thread is FOR OVER 46 YRS ONLY... (hello carlosweb )

what makes people happy?

the answer the scientists give to this question is composed of four factors:

1) gender (yeah...us wimin are generally happier )
2) personality (being prone to negative feelings like guit, anger and anxiety makes persons unhappy)
3) external circumstances (relationships, education, income and health)
4) age....here we go, finally getting older brings some assets...you loose mental sharpness and looks but...gain in what we are all persuing: happiness

no pain, no gain

it seems that older people are happier, no matter what...

they have fewer rows and come up with better solutions to life's problems...they are better at controlling their emotions, accepting misfortune...they live according to the saying "you can't please all the people all the time"...

sounds encouraging...

oh, well...this study was prepared by scientists, that are mostly men, which means that they will have their funny convinctions and will be extremelly serious about them (my dad is convinced that margarine is better than butter and no way you can explain to him that he is wrong )

this post was inpired by the article published on the Economist..if anyone is interested to learn more here is the link:

the number 46 refers to the statement made in the article according to which you start to be happy after your 46 birthday...


Hmmm, interesting lucynad... It's hard to generalise, because some people are unhappy no matter what age they are, but I definitely think as we get older (for me it was my 40s), you are better able to come to terms with who you are, where you are in your life and what you still want to achieve!!! bouquet
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Dec 20, 2010 8:20 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
lucynad: hello faded_dino,

then you are perfectly in line with their study...

slowly but surely...thanks for your answer


Hey, lucy...hope your having a great day!
I really don't follow the age thing....it's a state of mind.
keeping a positive attitude and turning the negative around is what got me to where I am...oh, that and a lot of hard work...grin wine
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Dec 20, 2010 8:22 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
time4fun4u: Havnt got to 46 yet


hmmm...

that's only a matter of Time... wink

laugh wave
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Dec 20, 2010 8:22 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
faded_dino: Hey, lucy...hope your having a great day!
I really don't follow the age thing....it's a state of mind.
keeping a positive attitude and turning the negative around is what got me to where I am...oh, that and a lot of hard work...


thumbs up
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Dec 20, 2010 8:27 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Hey V, How ya doing?wine
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Dec 20, 2010 8:28 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
faded_dino: Hey, lucy...hope your having a great day!
I really don't follow the age thing....it's a state of mind.
keeping a positive attitude and turning the negative around is what got me to where I am...oh, that and a lot of hard work...


hello faded_dino

yes...soon i'll have to leave...i work out of my office this afternoon (for me)

i agree...

and, personally, disliking the numbers, therefore age wink
it doesn't mean anything particular to me...

and i am with you on the inner capacity to gain happiness, satisfaction or however we want to call this positive state..

have a wonderful day yourself, faded_dino!
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Dec 20, 2010 8:28 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Plus 25 ontop of your figure Lucy and I have to say that I am the happiest I have been in years. I moved back to the U.K. after 7 years in Spain and even the atrocious weather conditions cannot dampen my spirits.

Life IS very much what you make it, and if you don't put anything in,you won't get much out.So a science report makes no difference to how I feel.wave
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Dec 20, 2010 8:31 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
craig63: hi lucynad,
to be honest i dont normally take any notice of these surveys by scientists i think life is what you make it.
i always try not to let anything get me down as being
miserable is not going to change anything you just have to make the best of a bad situation.
life is to short to be miserable.

merry xmas craig


hello craig, wave

thanks for your comment...

very good attitude thumbs up

have a great christmas as well!
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Dec 20, 2010 8:31 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
bestbefore: Plus 25 ontop of your figure Lucy and I have to say that I am the happiest I have been in years. I moved back to the U.K. after 7 years in Spain and even the atrocious weather conditions cannot dampen my spirits.

Life IS very much what you make it, and if you don't put anything in,you won't get much out.So a science report makes no difference to how I feel.


Agree.wine
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Dec 20, 2010 8:33 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
lucynad: hello craig,

thanks for your comment...

very good attitude

have a great christmas as well!


hi lucy,

xmas kiss and teddybear from España to Italia.
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