the oldier, the happier ??? ( Archived) (47)

Dec 20, 2010 8:35 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
faded_dino: Hey V, How ya doing?


Cool beans FD, hope all is well stateside for you.cheers
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Dec 20, 2010 8:35 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
leostartingover: Hmmm, interesting lucynad... It's hard to generalise, because some people are unhappy no matter what age they are, but I definitely think as we get older (for me it was my 40s), you are better able to come to terms with who you are, where you are in your life and what you still want to achieve!!!


hello happy leo wink (just teasing you knowing about your "scottish win")

thanks..

yes, this is what is mainly stated: the acceptance of us and the world that surround us...

have a glorious christmas...and...january! wink

wave
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Dec 20, 2010 8:41 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
bestbefore: Plus 25 ontop of your figure Lucy and I have to say that I am the happiest I have been in years. I moved back to the U.K. after 7 years in Spain and even the atrocious weather conditions cannot dampen my spirits.

Life IS very much what you make it, and if you don't put anything in,you won't get much out.So a science report makes no difference to how I feel.


hello BB wave

lol...

if the british weather didn't manage to get to you that's all saying...as we say in italian

i have heard really discouraging weather news concerning the UK...

we have this awful sun here in sicily. wink ... sorry...i am like the annoying orange with this sun but i just couldn't resist...wink laugh

have a wonderful day BB!

wink
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Dec 20, 2010 8:43 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Got no time to be unhappy, to bust gathering rosebuds.... But it's true once you have got the problems of youth out of the way you have more space to enjoy.grin angel devil
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Dec 20, 2010 8:46 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
lucynad: hmmm...

that's only a matter of Time...
laugh Blimey,it was 8yrs ago! doh
wave teddybear
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Dec 20, 2010 8:47 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Veritaas: Cool beans FD, hope all is well stateside for you.


Everything is wonderful, herewine cheers
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Dec 20, 2010 8:49 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think theres something to this. All I can say is from 40 on, I seem to be more appreciative of my life and every year seems to get better and better...I really look forward to what the next adventure will be! yay
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Dec 20, 2010 8:51 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
venusenvy: I think theres something to this. All I can say is from 40 on, I seem to be more appreciative of my life and every year seems to get better and better...I really look forward to what the next adventure will be!
Dont be, i am moving in next door to you! That will lower the tone of the nieghbourhood rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 20, 2010 8:53 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
venusenvy: I think theres something to this. All I can say is from 40 on, I seem to be more appreciative of my life and every year seems to get better and better...I really look forward to what the next adventure will be!
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up wine
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Dec 20, 2010 8:56 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
time4fun4u: Dont be, i am moving in next door to you! That will lower the tone of the nieghbourhood


Just as well,my shed's full at the moment with a couple,a newborn baby,a donkey,sheep and a few goats.rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 20, 2010 8:57 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
bestbefore: Just as well,my shed's full at the moment with a couple,a newborn baby,a donkey,sheep and a few goats.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I remember a story like that confused bouquet
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Dec 20, 2010 9:30 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
time4fun4u: Dont be, i am moving in next door to you! That will lower the tone of the nieghbourhood


Come on over...( it will make real estate more affordable) grin teddybear Happy Holidays Handsome dancingsanta dancingsanta
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Dec 20, 2010 9:32 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
lucynad: this thread is FOR OVER 46 YRS ONLY... (hello carlosweb )

what makes people happy?

the answer the scientists give to this question is composed of four factors:

1) gender (yeah...us wimin are generally happier )
2) personality (being prone to negative feelings like guit, anger and anxiety makes persons unhappy)
3) external circumstances (relationships, education, income and health)
4) age....here we go, finally getting older brings some assets...you loose mental sharpness and looks but...gain in what we are all persuing: happiness

no pain, no gain

it seems that older people are happier, no matter what...

they have fewer rows and come up with better solutions to life's problems...they are better at controlling their emotions, accepting misfortune...they live according to the saying "you can't please all the people all the time"...

sounds encouraging...

oh, well...this study was prepared by scientists, that are mostly men, which means that they will have their funny convinctions and will be extremelly serious about them (my dad is convinced that margarine is better than butter and no way you can explain to him that he is wrong )

this post was inpired by the article published on the Economist..if anyone is interested to learn more here is the link:

the number 46 refers to the statement made in the article according to which you start to be happy after your 46 birthday...

okay... Ill be back in 4 years .. enough time for me to come up with a opinion...nerd
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Dec 20, 2010 9:52 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
lucynad: this thread is FOR OVER 46 YRS ONLY... (hello carlosweb )

what makes people happy?

the answer the scientists give to this question is composed of four factors:

1) gender (yeah...us wimin are generally happier )
2) personality (being prone to negative feelings like guit, anger and anxiety makes persons unhappy)
3) external circumstances (relationships, education, income and health)
4) age....here we go, finally getting older brings some assets...you loose mental sharpness and looks but...gain in what we are all persuing: happiness

no pain, no gain

it seems that older people are happier, no matter what...

they have fewer rows and come up with better solutions to life's problems...they are better at controlling their emotions, accepting misfortune...they live according to the saying "you can't please all the people all the time"...

sounds encouraging...

oh, well...this study was prepared by scientists, that are mostly men, which means that they will have their funny convinctions and will be extremelly serious about them (my dad is convinced that margarine is better than butter and no way you can explain to him that he is wrong )

this post was inpired by the article published on the Economist..if anyone is interested to learn more here is the link:

the number 46 refers to the statement made in the article according to which you start to be happy after your 46 birthday...



I was never unhappy for extended periods of time.
I don't feel any major change in that.
The trick is not to worry, things have a way to solv it self.
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Dec 20, 2010 10:16 AM CST the oldier, the happier ???
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
venusenvy: Come on over...( it will make real estate more affordable) Happy Holidays Handsome
laugh Happy holidays to you gorgeous teddybear lips heart wings christmas happy
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Dec 20, 2010 12:25 PM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
venusenvy: I think theres something to this. All I can say is from 40 on, I seem to be more appreciative of my life and every year seems to get better and better...I really look forward to what the next adventure will be!


hello venus, wave

i could say the same thumbs up

thanks for your comment
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Dec 20, 2010 12:48 PM CST the oldier, the happier ???
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
Boban1: okay... Ill be back in 4 years .. enough time for me to come up with a opinion...


hello boban,

i guess i will be here waiting...

so take your time... wink laugh
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Dec 20, 2010 12:48 PM CST the oldier, the happier ???
JeanMarlow
JeanMarlowJeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA17 Threads 815 Posts
lucynad: .....it seems that older people are happier, no matter what...they have fewer rows and come up with better solutions to life's problems...they are better at controlling their emotions, accepting misfortune...they live according to the saying "you can't please all the people all the time"...
I am still waiting for this to kick-in...... boxing
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Dec 20, 2010 2:46 PM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
...so little time...crying
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Dec 20, 2010 4:03 PM CST the oldier, the happier ???
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
Hay ! at my age if I get up and don't see my name in the obituary collum, then I'm happy .
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