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Dec 21, 2010 9:19 AM CST MEN
greeneyes2010
greeneyes2010greeneyes2010Indianapolis, Indiana USA1 Threads 43 Posts
Let's be serious for a sec... How & why do men show sooooo much attention to a date (like, he's crazy about her) has sooooo much fun when they're together and the woman thinks "wow, this is the one for me"... Then, with a blink of an eye ~ he's off showing all that affection & attention to some other woman???
How do you men do that????
Not really my own personal question or opinion roll eyes
"Just sayin'"......dunno
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Dec 21, 2010 9:21 AM CST MEN
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
sounds like a playa to me dunno teddybear
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Dec 21, 2010 9:22 AM CST MEN
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
greeneyes2010: Let's be serious for a sec... How & why do men show sooooo much attention to a date (like, he's crazy about her) has sooooo much fun when they're together and the woman thinks "wow, this is the one for me"... Then, with a blink of an eye ~ he's off showing all that affection & attention to some other woman???
How do you men do that????
Not really my own personal question or opinion
"Just sayin'"......


An affectionate and attentive guy, it's just how he is, doesn't mean any one particular recipient of his attention or affection is being treated any more special, or is any more special, than the next person.
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Dec 21, 2010 9:23 AM CST MEN
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
greeneyes2010: Let's be serious for a sec... How & why do men show sooooo much attention to a date (like, he's crazy about her) has sooooo much fun when they're together and the woman thinks "wow, this is the one for me"... Then, with a blink of an eye ~ he's off showing all that affection & attention to some other woman???
How do you men do that????
Not really my own personal question or opinion
"Just sayin'"......


This applies to women as well I'm afraid.The human race is fickle.wave
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Dec 21, 2010 9:24 AM CST MEN
He just go with the moment....dunno
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Dec 21, 2010 9:25 AM CST MEN
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
70Libra: An affectionate and attentive guy, it's just how he is, doesn't mean any one particular recipient of his attention or affection is being treated any more special, or is any more special, than the next person.


thumbs up
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Dec 21, 2010 9:25 AM CST MEN
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Yeh, we are ALL like that .... You may as well give up luv .....laugh doh
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Dec 21, 2010 9:26 AM CST MEN
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
It's in the jeans genes.


grin
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Dec 21, 2010 9:27 AM CST MEN
greeneyes2010
greeneyes2010greeneyes2010Indianapolis, Indiana USA1 Threads 43 Posts
70Libra: An affectionate and attentive guy, it's just how he is, doesn't mean any one particular recipient of his attention or affection is being treated any more special, or is any more special, than the next person.


my point exactly! Obviously, theres no attachment or going to be any attachment.. I find it very hard to understand how anyone can show such strong sentiment & move on so nonchalantly to the next.. I may be totally old fashioned in my way of thinking, but how can you turn those kinds of feelings on & off?
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Dec 21, 2010 9:27 AM CST MEN
greeneyes2010
greeneyes2010greeneyes2010Indianapolis, Indiana USA1 Threads 43 Posts
bodleing: It's in the jeans genes.

laugh read you the first time!!!
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Dec 21, 2010 9:29 AM CST MEN
greeneyes2010
greeneyes2010greeneyes2010Indianapolis, Indiana USA1 Threads 43 Posts
RDM59: Yeh, we are ALL like that .... You may as well give up luv .....


I know you have a point ~ but, let's hope not...
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Dec 21, 2010 9:29 AM CST MEN
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
greeneyes2010: my point exactly! Obviously, theres no attachment or going to be any attachment.. I find it very hard to understand how anyone can show such strong sentiment & move on so nonchalantly to the next.. I may be totally old fashioned in my way of thinking, but how can you turn those kinds of feelings on & off?


Well perhaps women read the message wrong and get ahead of themselves.
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Dec 21, 2010 9:29 AM CST MEN
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
greeneyes2010: my point exactly! Obviously, theres no attachment or going to be any attachment.. I find it very hard to understand how anyone can show such strong sentiment & move on so nonchalantly to the next.. I may be totally old fashioned in my way of thinking, but how can you turn those kinds of feelings on & off?


You can't, and why would you want to?

If this guy is pleasant and attentive to people why would you want to deny that to anyone?
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Dec 21, 2010 9:30 AM CST MEN
LadyinDublin
LadyinDublinLadyinDublinDublin, Ireland31 Threads 768 Posts
greeneyes2010: my point exactly! Obviously, theres no attachment or going to be any attachment.. I find it very hard to understand how anyone can show such strong sentiment & move on so nonchalantly to the next.. I may be totally old fashioned in my way of thinking, but how can you turn those kinds of feelings on & off?


they are just not genuine dunno
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Dec 21, 2010 9:30 AM CST MEN
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
greeneyes2010: Let's be serious for a sec... How & why do men show sooooo much attention to a date (like, he's crazy about her) has sooooo much fun when they're together and the woman thinks "wow, this is the one for me"... Then, with a blink of an eye ~ he's off showing all that affection & attention to some other woman???
How do you men do that????
Not really my own personal question or opinion
"Just sayin'"......


Never have done it in my life hun, and proud to say it. When I'm with one I'm only with one! cheers
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Dec 21, 2010 9:34 AM CST MEN
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
greeneyes2010: my point exactly! Obviously, theres no attachment or going to be any attachment.. I find it very hard to understand how anyone can show such strong sentiment & move on so nonchalantly to the next.. I may be totally old fashioned in my way of thinking, but how can you turn those kinds of feelings on & off?


To be honest and not being pro male, but a question about turning feelings on and off like a tap have been suited way more to women in my experience. Of course thre are men that can do this, but I've found the percentage alot higher with women in my own and in my friend's experiences.
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Dec 21, 2010 9:37 AM CST MEN
RDM59: Yeh, we are ALL like that .... You may as well give up luv .....


Speak for Yourself, I feel the majority ARE like that, tho I do believe in Love, and just have fun till I find the Right one,
when I feel I found her, I am NOT like that, I may be a lil Old fashioned toolaugh
I spent 22 yrs with One woman, and would do it again, with the right one, and would Have respect for Her...
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Dec 21, 2010 9:39 AM CST MEN
greeneyes2010
greeneyes2010greeneyes2010Indianapolis, Indiana USA1 Threads 43 Posts
Veritaas: Well perhaps women read the message wrong and get ahead of themselves.


Some, yes ~ maybe? But, my own personal opinion & from my own experience ~ I think some guys are just natural born lovers & smooth talkers, no matter where they're at or who they're with.. I guess a woman who wants to be in that situation would have to learn to deal with it in a positive way & suck it up ~ IF she wants to stay with a guy like that...
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Dec 21, 2010 9:40 AM CST MEN
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
taff1: To be honest and not being pro male, but a question about turning feelings on and off like a tap have been suited way more to women in my experience. Of course thre are men that can do this, but I've found the percentage alot higher with women in my own and in my friend's experiences.


I would agree with you on that. And there is evidence out there to back that up. Not got any info to hand unfortunately, but google is your friend folks .....grin
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Dec 21, 2010 9:42 AM CST MEN
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
bestbefore: This applies to women as well I'm afraid.The human race is fickle.


Just to let you guys know I totally agree with you.lips
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