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paws4Peterborough, Ontario Canada88 Threads 9 Polls 771 PostsFor the 1rst time in 10 years my ex communicated with me. She sent me a Xmas card and a home made fruit cake. Of course I had someone taste it first....waited an hour, they were fine. Seriously though, it did feel good. Closure comes in many forms.
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paws4: For the 1rst time in 10 years my ex communicated with me. She sent me a Xmas card and a home made fruit cake. Of course I had someone taste it first....waited an hour, they were fine. Seriously though, it did feel good. Closure comes in many forms.
better to stay excommunicated, good luck
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tomcatwarne: better to stay excommunicated, good luck
I agree.
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paws4: For the 1rst time in 10 years my ex communicated with me. She sent me a Xmas card and a home made fruit cake. Of course I had someone taste it first....waited an hour, they were fine. Seriously though, it did feel good. Closure comes in many forms.
Now, is that closure or possibly a new beginning
never know 
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2intrigued: Now, is that closure or possibly a new beginning never know
She is happily married, so no, not a beginning...just the end of a decade of silence.
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paws4: She is happily married, so no, not a beginning...just the end of a decade of silence.
Are you 100% sure she's happy....most don't do these things without a motive unless she's had an epiphany
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2intrigued: Sorry my dear....damn! now that's a kick in the butt
so why do you think she did that? for closure?
so why do you think she did that? for closure?
Our daughter is getting married soon, so I think that she's paving the way for a more comfortable re-union.
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paws4: Our daughter is getting married soon, so I think that she's paving the way for a more comfortable re-union.
Ahhh, so there is a motive behind it....crafty indeed
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paws4: Our daughter is getting married soon, so I think that she's paving the way for a more comfortable re-union.
PS: I got over her a long time ago, but she refused to communicate. Possibly out of shame for the way that she handled the break-up. I was blind-sided.
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However, it means so much to my daughter, who delivered the card and cake.
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being ex-communicated can only be a good thing...
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paws4: However, it means so much to my daughter, who delivered the card and cake.
That's sweet and I hope that you can bring yourself to attend your daughter's wedding and enjoy the moment so many fathers look forward to...it's a very special occasion
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paws4: For the 1rst time in 10 years my ex communicated with me. She sent me a Xmas card and a home made fruit cake. Of course I had someone taste it first....waited an hour, they were fine. Seriously though, it did feel good. Closure comes in many forms.
Why not suggest doing it just one last time with her - for old time sake ?
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" The fruit of forgiveness is more palatable than the sweetness of revenge"
it got seeds too
it got seeds too
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CuspofMagic: " The fruit of forgiveness is more palatable than the sweetness of revenge"
it got seeds too
it got seeds too
Revenge is like drinking a glass of poison and waiting for the other to die.
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paws4: Yes it happened just that way, overnight. One day I was happily married, the next I was out and another woman was in. Talk about shock & awe.
so, you were in a "bush" moment ?...
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paws4: Yes it happened just that way, overnight. One day I was happily married, the next I was out and another woman was in. Talk about shock & awe.
sounds a bit like ross on friends
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paws4: Yes it happened just that way, overnight. One day I was happily married, the next I was out and another woman was in. Talk about shock & awe.
Absolutely devastating....cripes!!!!
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paws4: Revenge is like drinking a glass of poison and waiting for the other to die.
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paws4: For the 1rst time in 10 years my ex communicated with me. She sent me a Xmas card and a home made fruit cake. Of course I had someone taste it first....waited an hour, they were fine. Seriously though, it did feel good. Closure comes in many forms.
its the kind of poison that hits you later than as soon as you eat it slow poison 
I glad you found closure 
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