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Jan 22, 2011 5:50 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
i have just been told by someone who chatted to me for all of less than half an hour that i am v judgmental

so my question is to everyone that knows me here do i come across as that
i like to think i dont but if i do i wud rather know now
Jan 22, 2011 5:53 PM CST Question
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
anniebaby: i have just been told by someone who chatted to me for all of less than half an hour that i am v judgmental

so my question is to everyone that knows me here do i come across as that
i like to think i dont but if i do i wud rather know now


Would that make us judgmental? dunno laugh
Jan 22, 2011 5:53 PM CST Question
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
anniebaby: i have just been told by someone who chatted to me for all of less than half an hour that i am v judgmental

so my question is to everyone that knows me here do i come across as that
i like to think i dont but if i do i wud rather know now
iv never felt you come across that way at all hug
Jan 22, 2011 5:53 PM CST Question
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
anniebaby: i have just been told by someone who chatted to me for all of less than half an hour that i am v judgmental

so my question is to everyone that knows me here do i come across as that
i like to think i dont but if i do i wud rather know now


Why did they say that? Depending on the conversation, i guess we can all come across as judgemental sometimes.

I would never have gotten that impression from your posts though wave
Jan 22, 2011 5:55 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
skyblue43: Would that make us judgmental?


oh aint u funny 2nite
rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 22, 2011 5:56 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
salanky: iv never felt you come across that way at all


thanks
as i told him he didnt know me and if he did he wud know i am one of the least judgmental people he cud met

then i was thinking god am i like he said
Jan 22, 2011 5:57 PM CST Question
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Obviously I don't know what the conversation was about. I also don't know you at all, apart from on here.

But....

It sounds like someone asked your opinion on something, or gave theirs. You had a different opinion to them so they got defensive and called you judgemental.

I've had that happen a few times. Let it go and move on. You've never come across as judgemental... to me anyway.
Jan 22, 2011 5:58 PM CST Question
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
wexlady41: Obviously I don't know what the conversation was about. I also don't know you at all, apart from on here.

But....

It sounds like someone asked your opinion on something, or gave theirs. You had a different opinion to them so they got defensive and called you judgemental.

I've had that happen a few times. Let it go and move on. You've never come across as judgemental... to me anyway.
thumbs up
Jan 22, 2011 5:58 PM CST Question
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
wexlady41: Obviously I don't know what the conversation was about. I also don't know you at all, apart from on here.

But....

It sounds like someone asked your opinion on something, or gave theirs. You had a different opinion to them so they got defensive and called you judgemental.

I've had that happen a few times. Let it go and move on. You've never come across as judgemental... to me anyway.


That's very judgemental!
Jan 22, 2011 5:58 PM CST Question
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
anniebaby: i have just been told by someone who chatted to me for all of less than half an hour that i am v judgmental

so my question is to everyone that knows me here do i come across as that
i like to think i dont but if i do i wud rather know now


Never ever, not once do I ever remember you being judgemental! I don't even remember you being involved in contraversy!dunno confused
Jan 22, 2011 5:59 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Why did they say that? Depending on the conversation, i guess we can all come across as judgemental sometimes.

I would never have gotten that impression from your posts though


the normal chat u have wit someone when u get chatting to them

he asked why i was single and i said how u mean which lead on to me asking how he was finding the online dating wit a reply no luck mayb u can tell me why
i said i only chatting to u so i cant really say

then i asked how long he single to which i got a long time reply then he said u know wot ur v judgemental

so he told me then to go jump in a river and i blocked him at that
Jan 22, 2011 6:00 PM CST Question
anniebaby: i have just been told by someone who chatted to me for all of less than half an hour that i am v judgmental

so my question is to everyone that knows me here do i come across as that
i like to think i dont but if i do i wud rather know now


NO
Jan 22, 2011 6:03 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
thanks guys

i was hoping i wasnt like that but sometimes u dont know how u come across to others so no where better than to have a reality check if needed

i wud die if i was or came across like that to anyone crying
Jan 22, 2011 6:04 PM CST Question
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
Godsgift: Never ever, not once do I ever remember you being judgemental! I don't even remember you being involved in contraversy!


Never ever... this post is reminding more and more of the All Saints song.
Jan 22, 2011 6:05 PM CST Question
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
anniebaby: thanks guys

i was hoping i wasnt like that but sometimes u dont know how u come across to others so no where better than to have a reality check if needed

i wud die if i was or came across like that to anyone


Dying would be a bit extreme... try mildly upset and then block him. dunno
Jan 22, 2011 6:05 PM CST Question
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
anniebaby: the normal chat u have wit someone when u get chatting to them

he asked why i was single and i said how u mean which lead on to me asking how he was finding the online dating wit a reply no luck mayb u can tell me why
i said i only chatting to u so i cant really say

then i asked how long he single to which i got a long time reply then he said u know wot ur v judgemental

so he told me then to go jump in a river and i blocked him at that


Okay that was weird. Like Wexy says, it sounds to me like he got way too defensive over something he is obviously sensitive about. You weren't to know that though.
Jan 22, 2011 6:06 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
skyblue43: Dying would be a bit extreme... try mildly upset and then block him.


ok i wont die know u all wud miss me (not)
he is blocked
Jan 22, 2011 6:22 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Seems like a pretty standard, straight forward question though to me so he shouldnt have been defensive about it. It does sound very like he was being defensive though. I doubt it would matter who asked the question to be honest.


ya but it wud b me that asks and gets told to jump in a river
i suppose he cud have said worse mind u i did block him so possibly he was going to say more lol
Jan 22, 2011 6:23 PM CST Question
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
anniebaby: ya but it wud b me that asks and gets told to jump in a river
i suppose he cud have said worse mind u i did block him so possibly he was going to say more lol


He told you to jump in the river? Awww, that was Bertie Ahern. Don't mind that auld bollo, he's always talking rubbish.
Jan 22, 2011 6:24 PM CST Question
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
howlingwolf: He told you to jump in the river? Awww, that was Bertie Ahern. Don't mind that auld bollo, he's always talking rubbish.


ah thanks i just rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing did that when i read ur post
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