Buying Affection? (79)
tomboygirl: I dated a guy a few times,I used to call(with affection)Santa,because he brought lots of gifts for me and my children,on every date,even after I asked him to please stop.
It worried me that he felt somehow he wasn't enough,I couldn't get him to stop with the gifts,and cut contact,and gave up with him,when he kept messaging me,one day,to give him my address so he could pop round to give me something..
love your new photoIt worried me that he felt somehow he wasn't enough,I couldn't get him to stop with the gifts,and cut contact,and gave up with him,when he kept messaging me,one day,to give him my address so he could pop round to give me something..
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demonfairy: Has anyone ever tried to buy your affection or have you tried to buy some ones affection? If so how? Did it work out?
when I was fresh out of college I worked as a waitress in a large hotel club and one of the patrons was from Venzuala - he kept writing me love notes on napkins, promising to take me back to venezula where I would live the life of a princess...I brought my 6ft tall boyfriend-collegiate wrestler in to meet him...I was not amused
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demonfairy: love your new photo
Thanyou honey
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AJ12345: Actually this story sounds a bit familiar to a friend of mines girlfriend. She works at donut king and every day this 40 year old would talk to her, one day he started talking about the worlds gonna end and that they should run off together. One day he found her on facebook and on his profile page he had a link to his website where he had pictures of her and things saying she was the love of his life.
Scary thing is this guys a local politician
Scary thing is this guys a local politician
ya it's hard to lie if you have face book. I have made some very interesting discoveries that way
but she should contact the authorities & get that stuff taken off of face book
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felixis99: ya it's hard to lie if you have face book. I have made some very interesting discoveries that way
but she should contact the authorities & get that stuff taken off of face book
but she should contact the authorities & get that stuff taken off of face book
oh yeah she went to court to get a restraining order
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viva007: happiness bribes me
Good for you Sir! An acceptable, no, desirable, bribe indeed!
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AJ12345: oh yeah she went to court to get a restraining order
good for her. she'll have her work cut out for her cuz face book is pretty much open season - I mean if she's out there with a public profile that anyone can access she will have to establish ill intent of some kind. but from what you said that shouldn't be hard.
To a good rule of thumb for FB is one contact- a message or friend request and if it goes unanswered then leave it at that. But obviously not everyone sees it that way - especially that guy
that's why I like sites like these because you have to be a member & the forums have mods.
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lilmamma71: Last man I was in a relationship with, wanted me to stop working so he could take "care" of me, which this translated to "control" me.
He thought if he bought me an expensive ring, new vehicle and a bunch of other crap that it would make me love him...uh no, I'm not for sale, and the more he tried to do the more it drove me mad and pushed me away....I'm NOT materialistic and he couldn't grasp that.
You can't buy someone's affection and if the other person accepts gifts in return for affection, well there's a word for it that's not proper to use in the forums. JMHO.
HI DF!
He thought if he bought me an expensive ring, new vehicle and a bunch of other crap that it would make me love him...uh no, I'm not for sale, and the more he tried to do the more it drove me mad and pushed me away....I'm NOT materialistic and he couldn't grasp that.
You can't buy someone's affection and if the other person accepts gifts in return for affection, well there's a word for it that's not proper to use in the forums. JMHO.
HI DF!
So true, just remember nothing is Free.....
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felixis99: good for her. she'll have her work cut out for her cuz face book is pretty much open season - I mean if she's out there with a public profile that anyone can access she will have to establish ill intent of some kind. but from what you said that shouldn't be hard.
To a good rule of thumb for FB is one contact- a message or friend request and if it goes unanswered then leave it at that. But obviously not everyone sees it that way - especially that guy
that's why I like sites like these because you have to be a member & the forums have mods.
To a good rule of thumb for FB is one contact- a message or friend request and if it goes unanswered then leave it at that. But obviously not everyone sees it that way - especially that guy
that's why I like sites like these because you have to be a member & the forums have mods.
it was private but he somehow became her friend, but the guys a total nutjob his website is talking about aliens and that
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AJ12345: it was private but he somehow became her friend, but the guys a total nutjob his website is talking about aliens and that
YIKES!! and hes a Politician?? Wow this should go public!
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estate: Yes, I used to have a partner who would buy me gifts for each time we met, and insisted on paying for everything. I even had to stopped showing an interest in any clothes and shoes etc, as she would go buy them for me.
Just couldn't live like that, and she said she wouldn't stop!!
Just couldn't live like that, and she said she wouldn't stop!!
yeh I think most men have had this problem
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demonfairy: Has anyone ever tried to buy your affection or have you tried to buy some ones affection? If so how? Did it work out?
My late husband was always buying our son and me things even though we really didn't want,ask or need them.He worked and I guess he figured material things would make up for him not being around alot.
No I've never tried to buy someones affection.They would either love me for who and what I was or not at all.
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AJ12345: it was private but he somehow became her friend, but the guys a total nutjob his website is talking about aliens and that
Obviously a politician
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demonfairy: Has anyone ever tried to buy your affection or have you tried to buy some ones affection? If so how? Did it work out?
well...one of my friends had a big nasty dog with a bad reputation ...so.. The rest of the gang had to carry cookies in their pockets when we did rehears ( we had a band at that time)in his garage...
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Boban1: well...one of my friends had a big nasty dog with a bad reputation ...so.. The rest of the gang had to carry cookies in their pockets when we did rehears ( we had a band at that time)in his garage...
Actually, that sounds smart to me Bo
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demonfairy: A guy used to bring me jewelry(fake)to work,nice necklace and bracelet sets,but i just wasn't interested in him so i never would go out with me.
gifts are good and can show our love to eachother, i love give gift and sure recive it, it made others happy , happiness is best, a it is a way for u show love, ofcourse there r many ways for u can use and show ur love also,------ This thread is Archived ------
AJ12345: it was private but he somehow became her friend, but the guys a total nutjob his website is talking about aliens and that
Oh? Welcome to Romulan.
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Boban1: well...one of my friends had a big nasty dog with a bad reputation ...so.. The rest of the gang had to carry cookies in their pockets when we did rehears ( we had a band at that time)in his garage...
We do like treats.
I'd like a Pumpkin Spice Latte, medium, half caff
Make it Pronto or I'll bite you for
being slow.
I like to bite the hand after it
feeds me and not anytime before.
The Doberman
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I dated a guy a few times,I used to call(with affection)Santa,because he brought lots of gifts for me and my children,on every date,even after I asked him to please stop.
It worried me that he felt somehow he wasn't enough,I couldn't get him to stop with the gifts,and cut contact,and gave up with him,when he kept messaging me,one day,to give him my address so he could pop round to give me something..