WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE... ( Archived) (16)

Jan 30, 2011 12:15 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
Personally,I´m not an expert with online-dating,and never believed in that....
Therefore I´m surprised that so many people really believe it works,-and maybe it does,-for a few.....

Also surprised,-that when a profile text tells me how "larger-than-life" this person is,-it surely needs to be questioned...
If so,-why even bother to join a dating site?

Do anyone honestly believe,that the one you see on a computer screen is the same person IRL....
Let´s face it,-anyone can tell you anything,but will it be the same thing in reality...

Now,I´m not an expert on humans,but many times it´s so easy to see right through people,-you can almost tell who´s a bluff or not....

It´s quite easy to be "perfect" on a dating site,and creating an "alter ego",but I doubt that hardly anyone is that very same person as soon as they sign off.....

And can you really be sure that the one staring at you from your screen really is the "real thing"....

And if you´re such adorable person,why do you look for love on internet?

What makes you fail in real life,-there has to be a reason for it.....

Isn´t that questions that should be asked?
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Jan 30, 2011 12:17 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
jahzah
jahzahjahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 2,574 Posts
Who says i'm looking?, i just love the forums grin
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Jan 30, 2011 12:18 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Im not looking for a date here,i enjoy the banter on the forums and have done for a few years..cheers
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Jan 30, 2011 12:18 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
jahzah: Who says i'm looking?, i just love the forums
same here..wave
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Jan 30, 2011 12:20 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I'm not looking just enjoy some of the banter here is all.
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Jan 30, 2011 12:20 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
I'm not looking for anyone on here but the one's I've met have been very much as they projected themselves in the forums.


thumbs up
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Jan 30, 2011 12:21 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
bodleing: I'm not looking for anyone on here but the one's I've met have been very much as they projected themselves in the forums.
That´s nice to hear....
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Jan 30, 2011 12:21 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Of course theres a difference. Online is two dimensional...face to face is three. But this is a great screening tool to determine if you want to get...three dimensional with somebody. wine
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Jan 30, 2011 12:22 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
venusenvy: Of course theres a difference. Online is two dimensional...face to face is three. But this is a great screening tool to determine if you want to get...three dimensional with somebody.
VE....good answer....
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Jan 30, 2011 12:26 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Venus is right. It's a great tool, especially for women.

Personally, I am currently limited in my dating pool due to living too far from the major population hubs in this country. Though I am working on remedying that, until I do CS will provide a significant part of my dating pool. CS is practical for me.
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Jan 30, 2011 12:26 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
The internet is simply ONE avenue to connect with people.

How you conduct yourself is up to you and if you think that its only possible to connect with people by pretending to be someone other than yourself - that's actually pretty sad.

I've certainly come across many different people in my time on various sites ..... most of them are genuine and hopefully through my experiences I've learned to avoid those that are insincere/crooks etc.

Personally I think the same thing can happen in real life as well - people can be genuine or total fakes.

I guess what puzzles me is that if you yourself are so skeptical of online dating/connections .......... why are you here? I've seen a few posts wherein you trash these types of sites and the people who choose to engage and interact within them. Surely in all your time, there has been the odd person who strikes you as being genuine .....
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Jan 30, 2011 12:27 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
PandoraX: Venus is right. It's a great tool, especially for women.

Personally, I am currently limited in my dating pool due to living too far from the major population hubs in this country. Though I am working on remedying that, until I do CS will provide a significant part of my dating pool. CS is practical for me.
Interesting answer,and honest....
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Jan 30, 2011 12:29 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
langleygirl: The internet is simply ONE avenue to connect with people.

How you conduct yourself is up to you and if you think that its only possible to connect with people by pretending to be someone other than yourself - that's actually pretty sad.

I've certainly come across many different people in my time on various sites ..... most of them are genuine and hopefully through my experiences I've learned to avoid those that are insincere/crooks etc.

Personally I think the same thing can happen in real life as well - people can be genuine or total fakes.

I guess what puzzles me is that if you yourself are so skeptical of online dating/connections .......... why are you here? I've seen a few posts wherein you trash these types of sites and the people who choose to engage and interact within them. Surely in all your time, there has been the odd person who strikes you as being genuine .....
I´ll give you my answer...I´m here to read/write blogs....That´s all...
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Jan 30, 2011 12:41 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
Paldi5
Paldi5Paldi5unknown, Pennsylvania USA13 Threads 2,376 Posts
This site does an excellent job filtering out smammers and frauds. They almost didn't let ME in! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 30, 2011 12:47 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
Paldi5
Paldi5Paldi5unknown, Pennsylvania USA13 Threads 2,376 Posts
AtwoZ: I´ll give you my answer...I´m here to read/write blogs....That´s all...


But your profile page says you are "seeking women, 40-45" which doesn't jive. Time to revise it?
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Jan 30, 2011 12:55 PM CST WHO`S LOOKIN` AT YOU.......,LOVE WALKS ONLINE...
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
Paldi5: But your profile page says you are "seeking women, 40-45" which doesn't jive. Time to revise it?
Actually,you´re right...Thank´s for reminding me....Didn´t even think of it....
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