Spiteful ex's and black eyes. (82)

Feb 11, 2011 5:07 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
blondeozichick
blondeozichickblondeozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia19 Threads 1 Polls 1,355 Posts
Blizzard14u: The people that are in them? Or is that were in them?
My first EX? I could not stand in the same room with, she just liked to argue! About anything!
She died age 41?

My second EX? We talk all the time. its more of a genuine belief in doing what’s best for our kid, no she hates the fact that the kid has decided to live with me? But that’s the joint custody agreement I claws I made when we got the divorce! I new one day my kid would feel the way I did about the controlling nature off her mother,
She is also suffering a blood condition? That she has to have blood removed every month?

Strange how people that piss me off end up dieing all the time?

Bloody good karma I say !


actually... we are responsible for our own actions and our own karma, which is cause and effect, not punishment, and links us to the cosmic pattern...


so therefore.. feeling happiness that someone else has died or is ill will have an effect on you blizzard.. so it may be a good idea to becareful what you put out there.. yeah? dunno
Feb 11, 2011 5:27 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Blizzard14u: The people that are in them? Or is that were in them?
My first EX? I could not stand in the same room with, she just liked to argue! About anything!
She died age 41?

My second EX? We talk all the time. its more of a genuine belief in doing what’s best for our kid, no she hates the fact that the kid has decided to live with me? But that’s the joint custody agreement I claws I made when we got the divorce! I new one day my kid would feel the way I did about the controlling nature off her mother,
She is also suffering a blood condition? That she has to have blood removed every month?

Strange how people that piss me off end up dieing all the time?

Bloody good karma I say !
After reading this Blizzard. I would say that there is hate in you that is eating you inside out.


Wishing death or enjoying the thought of them suffering a chronic illness is just pure nasty.

The best revenge is to be happy, from what I read you write you are yet to achieve that.
Feb 11, 2011 6:06 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Blizzard14u
Blizzard14uBlizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia67 Threads 2 Polls 1,430 Posts
Is not Karma to receive what you put out?

My life is full and quite happy because of the karma I put out?

Those that have been negative in the past to upset that karma are now suffering for that what they have done? Is that not the whole idea off karma?

No I am not happy that other choose to be what they really are? Bad people that hurt others? For no good reason!

What I do say is that I have always been me! Loyal, honest, understanding, I have wronged no other?
I do not act selfish, I do not whish harm on others? It just happens? And its not just EX,s that it happens too?

I have even worked for large companies that not longer than I have left have closed down? And it is not just one or two? I am talking 10 to 15? Businesses Company’s? but I always leave just before they go broke?

Some may call it luck? But in looking back? Over the last 30 years, strange similarities have been happening all my life?

Just don’t piss off the Blizzard?

Its going to hurt you more than it is me?


professor cheers
Feb 11, 2011 6:26 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kittykawaii
kittykawaiikittykawaiiSydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 169 Posts
Wow, dude. You have issues....
Feb 11, 2011 6:46 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
Good one Blizzard. It is easier to use the anonaminity of the internet to release some of that frustration that builds within us. My experience is that girls are encouraged from a very early age to discuss emotions and develop this useful talent while boys are told "Be a man and don't cry" from year dot and men can rarely can do this with with other men - fear of being a wooze or just don not know how to communicate feelings. Yes, I am one of those Neanderthals who can express it better in writing than in the spoken word when it comes to emotions and feelings.frustrated doh frustrated
Feb 11, 2011 11:16 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
willthisbeit
willthisbeitwillthisbeitPerth, Western Australia Australia5 Posts
it all comes down to maturity and selflessness.
Feb 11, 2011 3:09 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
I'm sure as punch my ex is expressing her feelings in the church group, fb, msn, girlfriends etc...
Everything she did had to have their stamp of approval before she did something.
Question for everyone?
Are fb & msn friends real friends?
I say no because they never see you, are not in your shoes and can offer all the advice till the cows come home to their friends and that advice can do so much damage.
People need to listen to their feelings and realize their own failings and partners and learn to live with them or work them out together, not use the internet to solve them for this can lead to heartbreak.
Feb 11, 2011 3:53 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
willthisbeit: it all comes down to maturity and selflessness.


agreed, too many go down the path of blaming the other.
When something is over, thats just it, it is over. Blame and bitterness keeps you locked in that painful period, and keeps you trapped tight. It in the end doesnt matter who is at fault, what matters is how you move on with your life

I have met my best friends over the internet, yes we have met and yes we are all real and visit each other often.

The internet is a means of communication only restricted by the restrictions you place on it. The internet consists of sites like this, facebook, msn, yahoo and so many other sites.

Many use it allow themselves to be wombats, others use it to communicate with friends and to make friends, other still call it the root of all evil yet are using the net to espouse that view!

life is what YOU make it, and so is the net, there are real people typing away at keyboards with relevant views and feelings. As in life there are the shysters and the honest ones, just with the net your imagination has a bad habit of leading yourself astray
Feb 11, 2011 4:16 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
thouroughbred
thouroughbredthouroughbredgympie, Queensland Australia7 Threads 989 Posts
hmmm was it neil diamond that sang that song, try a little kindness confused

just remember the tune n sing the lyric's in ur head.....
heck i do at times

u gotta try a little kindness n overlook the blindness of the narrow minded people n there narrow minded ways daa daa da dum, daa daa da dum thumbs up
Feb 11, 2011 4:16 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
blondeozichick
blondeozichickblondeozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia19 Threads 1 Polls 1,355 Posts
jem1964: agreed, too many go down the path of blaming the other.
When something is over, thats just it, it is over. Blame and bitterness keeps you locked in that painful period, and keeps you trapped tight. It in the end doesnt matter who is at fault, what matters is how you move on with your life

I have met my best friends over the internet, yes we have met and yes we are all real and visit each other often.

The internet is a means of communication only restricted by the restrictions you place on it. The internet consists of sites like this, facebook, msn, yahoo and so many other sites.

Many use it allow themselves to be wombats, others use it to communicate with friends and to make friends, other still call it the root of all evil yet are using the net to espouse that view!

life is what YOU make it, and so is the net, there are real people typing away at keyboards with relevant views and feelings. As in life there are the shysters and the honest ones, just with the net your imagination has a bad habit of leading yourself astray


I have made some great friends over the internet and we are still friends and catch up in real life whenever we can... I have also made a few love connections too in the 10yrs I have been using the net - 2 of which I am glad to say I did cos they will always hold a special place in my heart teddybear 1 of them I wish had not even crossed my path cos he was a lying, using, cheating SOB boxing laugh
Feb 11, 2011 4:28 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Blizzard14u: Is not Karma to receive what you put out?

My life is full and quite happy because of the karma I put out?

Those that have been negative in the past to upset that karma are now suffering for that what they have done? Is that not the whole idea off karma?

No I am not happy that other choose to be what they really are? Bad people that hurt others? For no good reason!

What I do say is that I have always been me! Loyal, honest, understanding, I have wronged no other?
I do not act selfish, I do not whish harm on others? It just happens? And its not just EX,s that it happens too?

I have even worked for large companies that not longer than I have left have closed down? And it is not just one or two? I am talking 10 to 15? Businesses Company’s? but I always leave just before they go broke?

Some may call it luck? But in looking back? Over the last 30 years, strange similarities have been happening all my life?

Just don’t piss off the Blizzard?

Its going to hurt you more than it is me?


Careful Blizz your insanity is showing again....uh oh yawn
Feb 11, 2011 6:07 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kittykawaii
kittykawaiikittykawaiiSydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 169 Posts
I agree that the internet is a great tool for meeting people and forming friendships.
Because of facebook, I have had lovely women, send me their old baby things for my baby i'm about to have soon knowing that I don't have much help otherwise. One even ordered a basinette, play mat and bouncer online and had it posted to me. She paid for it too. All brand new too. I have not met these women as some live interstate and others just out of Sydney. They've been so generous out of the goodness of their hearts. I never once asked for a thing. They've been my rock when I've been down and depressed. I don't have any family in Sydney. The dad of my unborn baby lives in Bundy in QLD. My dad is in Brisbane.
I don't really know too many people in Sydney anymore. So having internet friendships is very important to me. It gives me support that I wouldn't have otherwise. So you shouldn't underestimate the power of the internet as a friendship tool. OT i'm sorry but I just don't know how people dismiss it as not real friendships.
Feb 11, 2011 6:07 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kittykawaii
kittykawaiikittykawaiiSydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 169 Posts
I agree that the internet is a great tool for meeting people and forming friendships.
Because of facebook, I have had lovely women, send me their old baby things for my baby i'm about to have soon knowing that I don't have much help otherwise. One even ordered a basinette, play mat and bouncer online and had it posted to me. She paid for it too. All brand new too. I have not met these women as some live interstate and others just out of Sydney. They've been so generous out of the goodness of their hearts. I never once asked for a thing. They've been my rock when I've been down and depressed. I don't have any family in Sydney. The dad of my unborn baby lives in Bundy in QLD. My dad is in Brisbane.
I don't really know too many people in Sydney anymore. So having internet friendships is very important to me. It gives me support that I wouldn't have otherwise. So you shouldn't underestimate the power of the internet as a friendship tool. OT i'm sorry but I just don't know how people dismiss it as not real friendships.
Feb 11, 2011 6:09 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kittykawaii
kittykawaiikittykawaiiSydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 169 Posts
Sorry about the double post. I'm on my phone and don't know what happened there o_O
Feb 11, 2011 7:47 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
the thing is there is a world outside the pc screen, mobile phone.
We can live in the virtual world or the real world.
Funny thing is a lot of so called friends don't tell you when you're in the wrong, good friends do and are not afraid of losing your friendship by telling you some cold hard truths that might hurt.
Virtual friends just suck up to you for the companionship in their otherwise boring home existence in the burbs as they don't get out that much, or can't tear themselves away from days of our lives and are addicted to fb.
Feb 11, 2011 8:04 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Oldbussy
OldbussyOldbussyWhere ever I hang my hat., Victoria Australia7 Threads 324 Posts
normalguy68: the thing is there is a world outside the pc screen, mobile phone.
We can live in the virtual world or the real world.
Funny thing is a lot of so called friends don't tell you when you're in the wrong, good friends do and are not afraid of losing your friendship by telling you some cold hard truths that might hurt.
Virtual friends just suck up to you for the companionship in their otherwise boring home existence in the burbs as they don't get out that much, or can't tear themselves away from days of our lives and are addicted to fb.


Damm and I am glad that I dont live in your world. You must have so much free time on your hands or do you set aside time just to think up things to belittle people.

DAMM GET A LIFE
Feb 11, 2011 8:05 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
blondeozichick
blondeozichickblondeozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia19 Threads 1 Polls 1,355 Posts
roll eyes the world is full of em
Feb 11, 2011 8:08 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Oldbussy
OldbussyOldbussyWhere ever I hang my hat., Victoria Australia7 Threads 324 Posts
true but i think that a few come here just to piss off others.
I was brought up that if you cannot say something nice to others then shut up.
Feb 11, 2011 8:10 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
blondeozichick
blondeozichickblondeozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia19 Threads 1 Polls 1,355 Posts
Oldbussy: true but i think that a few come here just to piss off others.
I was brought up that if you cannot say something nice to others then shut up.


I think he needs some "real' friends to tell him some hard cold truths don't you? dunno laugh
Feb 11, 2011 8:13 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Oldbussy
OldbussyOldbussyWhere ever I hang my hat., Victoria Australia7 Threads 324 Posts
blondeozichick: I think he needs some "real' friends to tell him some hard cold truths don't you?


With a attatude that he displays here who would whant him as a friend?
I dont ever think I have ever seen him say someyhing nice to any one. always morbid and depressing.
Me I would have wacked him with a brick or ten.
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