Spiteful ex's and black eyes. (82)

Feb 10, 2011 7:14 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
Why is it some relationship breakdowns are smooth and fluid while others are like "War Of The Roses"
Feb 10, 2011 7:22 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
Because some relationships just run their course and fizzle out, therefore they can end with bunnies and rainbows.

If a relationship is cyclonic, of course it's always gunna end bad!


My previous experience is it just ran it's course and I can still maintain a friendship with the ex's.
Feb 10, 2011 7:27 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
Is the army still tied up with the floods 'cos I may be needing them to defend the property.
Feb 10, 2011 7:45 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
The thread topic intrigues me.......

Ide say you have major issues and should really not be bringing in a third party until youve sorted this stuff out !!! Black eyes !Please !!!roll eyes
Feb 10, 2011 7:55 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
Never a dull day.
Oh for the simple life.
Feb 10, 2011 9:32 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
normalguy68: Never a dull day.
Oh for the simple life.


you really should change your user name to attention seeker , your like a naughty child any attentions better than none ...
so transparent roll eyes Good luck with that!
Feb 10, 2011 9:34 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Personally I think you should bend your ex over and give her a goodin.

I think that is what you are craving.thumbs up
Feb 10, 2011 9:55 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kittykawaii
kittykawaiikittykawaiiSydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 169 Posts
Lol @ you two.
Feb 10, 2011 10:02 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Wahoo, it's Friday drink pouring wine

Now it's time to catch up on cs drama laugh Oh yeah, I don't much tv, so this is the next best thing to it
Feb 10, 2011 10:28 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
bonsai
bonsaibonsaiseymour, Victoria Australia18 Threads 510 Posts
normalguy68: Is the army still tied up with the floods 'cos I may be needing them to defend the property.
You really have put Wonthaggi on the map mate with your wingeing but your going to frighten the tourists like me away soon.uh oh Life can be as simple or as hard as you make it. It takes 2 to fight and real adults (male and female) walk away from petty stuff. Bagging x'es to strangers who only hear one side does nothing but make the one complaining appear childish. JMO wine
Feb 10, 2011 10:31 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
bonsai
bonsaibonsaiseymour, Victoria Australia18 Threads 510 Posts
sxc666: Personally I think you should bend your ex over and give her a goodin.

I think that is what you are craving.
It usually takes 2 to agree on that.conversing
Feb 10, 2011 11:12 PM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
It takes 2 to fight and real adults (male and female) walk away from petty stuff.
Thanks for that Bonsai, one of the best comments I've heard.
Feb 11, 2011 12:53 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Oldbussy
OldbussyOldbussyWhere ever I hang my hat., Victoria Australia7 Threads 324 Posts
Hay I thought that this was a forum NOT a laundry.
Fine some where else to air you dirty laundry.

And I bet you get pissed at this. TALK TO THE HAND
Feb 11, 2011 1:06 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Oldbussy: Hay I thought that this was a forum NOT a laundry.
Fine some where else to air you dirty laundry.

And I bet you get pissed at this. TALK TO THE HAND
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 11, 2011 1:10 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
bonsai
bonsaibonsaiseymour, Victoria Australia18 Threads 510 Posts
Oldbussy: Hay I thought that this was a forum NOT a laundry.
Fine some where else to air you dirty laundry.

And I bet you get pissed at this. TALK TO THE HAND
Very true and i apologise.blushing Still learning as an adult to keep my mouth shut but i did play fair. dunno
Feb 11, 2011 1:13 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
In all honesty I think that when people still have deep emotions for the other person thats when things get rocky , lets face it if you didnt give a toss for the other person youde be celebrating thier departure .....
Personally I found it very hard as I was still in love with him if I had not been it would have been much easier wine
Feb 11, 2011 4:19 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
starcrossfish
starcrossfishstarcrossfishperth, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 711 Posts
Mmmmm.....let me think.....ummmm....i'd like to know how you've come up with the conclusion 'some relationship breakdowns' are 'smooth and fluid'???....can't say i've ever witnessed or heard of a breakup being 'smooth and fluid'....sound's so OMMMM...would be very rare word's to use in a 'break-up'....
normalguy68: Why is it some relationship breakdowns are smooth and fluid while others are like "War Of The Roses"
Feb 11, 2011 4:19 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Blizzard14u
Blizzard14uBlizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia67 Threads 2 Polls 1,430 Posts
normalguy68: Why is it some relationship breakdowns are smooth and fluid while others are like "War Of The Roses"


The people that are in them? Or is that were in them?
My first EX? I could not stand in the same room with, she just liked to argue! About anything!
She died age 41?

My second EX? We talk all the time. its more of a genuine belief in doing what’s best for our kid, no she hates the fact that the kid has decided to live with me? But that’s the joint custody agreement I claws I made when we got the divorce! I new one day my kid would feel the way I did about the controlling nature off her mother,
She is also suffering a blood condition? That she has to have blood removed every month?

Strange how people that piss me off end up dieing all the time?

Bloody good karma I say !
cheers
Feb 11, 2011 4:26 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
Blizzard14u
Blizzard14uBlizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia67 Threads 2 Polls 1,430 Posts
Oldbussy: Hay I thought that this was a forum NOT a laundry.
Fine some where else to air you dirty laundry.

And I bet you get pissed at this. TALK TO THE HAND


isn’t that the idea of a forum?

To discuses what ever problems you may have and have various opinions on the matter at hand?

Some single people require others help when making decisions? Who better to ask then other singles who are going through the same stuff?

Have a coldie, and read another post if you don’t like this one, or you could start a post of your own?
cheers grin
Feb 11, 2011 5:00 AM CST Spiteful ex's and black eyes.
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
kizzy27: In all honesty I think that when people still have deep emotions for the other person thats when things get rocky , lets face it if you didnt give a toss for the other person youde be celebrating thier departure .....
Personally I found it very hard as I was still in love with him if I had not been it would have been much easier

10 years together takes a while to get over, the chemistry and knowing each others nuances.
I'm sure if it was a shorter spell, there may have been a cleaner break.
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