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Feb 11, 2011 5:45 AM CST what you preffer?
randam64
randam64randam64dublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 9 Posts
hai guys and girls wat you preffer arranged marriage or find someone ourown? just read my blogs and decide what you preffer?
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Feb 11, 2011 5:49 AM CST what you preffer?
Anelenav
AnelenavAnelenavKaunas, Aukštaitija Lithuania235 Posts
Arranged marriage? Sorry, I'd not be on this site if I allowed someone else to take care of the most important things in my life. uh oh
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Feb 11, 2011 5:50 AM CST what you preffer?
silverman1981
silverman1981silverman1981tehran, Iran12 Threads 664 Posts
randam64: hai guys and girls wat you preffer arranged marriage or find someone ourown? just read my blogs and decide what you preffer?


whtever comes first. i am in a hurrylaugh
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Feb 11, 2011 5:51 AM CST what you preffer?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
randam64: hai guys and girls wat you preffer arranged marriage or find someone ourown? just read my blogs and decide what you preffer?


You might want to explain in more detail what exactly an arranged marriage is, as there are many misconceptions about that in the western world... handshake
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Feb 11, 2011 5:51 AM CST what you preffer?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
I will pick my own tyvm,If and when i do find someone and get married it will be for love!heart wings
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Feb 11, 2011 5:51 AM CST what you preffer?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
randam64: hai guys and girls wat you preffer arranged marriage or find someone ourown? just read my blogs and decide what you preffer?


Ill go with the arranged marriage ,and I know I will be the only one in this thread...laugh
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Feb 11, 2011 5:55 AM CST what you preffer?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
Boban1: Ill go with the arranged marriage ,and I know I will be the only one in this thread...


Actually no!! rolling on the floor laughing

Arranged marriages have their advantages, and for it to be arranged doesn´t mean that the two partners don´t love each other.

One of my best friends is getting married in a few days, her marriage was arranged, nevertheless those two are madly in love.

A lot of people probably confuse the concept of an arranged marriage with what they´ve heard about forced marriages... dunno
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Feb 11, 2011 5:57 AM CST what you preffer?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
invinciblemuse: Actually no!!

Arranged marriages have their advantages, and for it to be arranged doesn´t mean that the two partners don´t love each other.

One of my best friends is getting married in a few days, her marriage was arranged, nevertheless those two are madly in love.

A lot of people probably confuse the concept of an arranged marriage with what they´ve heard about forced marriages...


would you be okay with the idea that your mother chooses your future to be hubby???grin

PS. Give me your mothers phone number...
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Feb 11, 2011 6:01 AM CST what you preffer?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
Boban1: would you be okay with the idea that your mother chooses your future to be hubby???

PS. Give me your mothers phone number...


You´re brave!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

It´s really not that rigid, in my friend´s case the kids chose each other as partners, nobody was forced to do anything, but they were introduced to each other by the families. I can´t see any harm in that... dunno
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Feb 11, 2011 8:58 AM CST what you preffer?
randam64
randam64randam64dublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 9 Posts
u suppose 2 rite in my point of view
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Feb 11, 2011 9:00 AM CST what you preffer?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
arranged sounds nice! u just turn up right?laugh
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Feb 11, 2011 9:01 AM CST what you preffer?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
chococherrie: arranged sounds nice! u just turn up right?
a backstreet strangerlaugh
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Feb 11, 2011 9:02 AM CST what you preffer?
randam64
randam64randam64dublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 9 Posts
dats true my friend,arranged marriage means, the canidate dident know the partener properly.the family people wants to keep status ,dowery, every thing is related in this way..........
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Feb 11, 2011 9:04 AM CST what you preffer?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
viva007: a backstreet stranger
we all are strangers until we meettongue
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Feb 11, 2011 9:07 AM CST what you preffer?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
chococherrie: we all are strangers until we meet
I don't think we are strangers even though we didn't meet each othertongue
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Feb 11, 2011 9:08 AM CST what you preffer?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think people should marry for one reason only, Love...The middle ages are over. Marriage is supposed to be a union of two hearts. How can that happen if there is no love? JMO wine
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Feb 11, 2011 9:09 AM CST what you preffer?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
randam64: dats true my friend,arranged marriage means, the canidate dident know the partener properly.the family people wants to keep status ,dowery, every thing is related in this way..........
but they will know each other slowly but they would most likely never give up too
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Feb 11, 2011 9:10 AM CST what you preffer?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
randam64: hai guys and girls wat you preffer arranged marriage or find someone ourown? just read my blogs and decide what you preffer?
well after ive grown up and matured more i think i can find a nice mate but when i was younger i think i would have been better off if someone had arranged one for me.. lol
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Feb 11, 2011 9:11 AM CST what you preffer?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Swissblueeyes: well after ive grown up and matured more i think i can find a nice mate but when i was younger i think i would have been better off if someone had arranged one for me.. lol
u r talking abt marriage right?laugh
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Feb 11, 2011 9:29 AM CST what you preffer?
Lilly32
Lilly32Lilly32Aukštaitija, Lithuania6 Threads 259 Posts
In response to: hai guys and girls wat you preffer arranged marriage or find someone ourown? just read my blogs and decide what you preffer?


I created a similar thread some time back.In some countries like Pakistan/India, arranged marriages with a cousin is popular.Families agree their kids to marry, are they happy ? They have no choice.Their life is satisfying parents demands and wishes.
They brought this way already knowing that they will have to marry someone their parents choose.
I did not find the statistics yet, are the couples happy etc.
The divorce rate in these countries are low 1% but only because those families do not announce.
They say love comes only after marriage.
But cousin, I do not know ?!
I think, its sick.
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