Regrets (67)

Feb 11, 2011 4:54 PM CST Regrets
roseanneah
roseanneahroseanneahcork, Cork Ireland6 Threads 283 Posts
sally101: When you have loved there will always be regret - whether it be for the things lost, the wasted time, the wish of something that perhaps never was or never could be .... due to the nature of relationships there is usually one who laments more than the other ...
A guy I really liked and was dating, just cut off all contact with me after meeting my ex in a pub (the ex had literally vanished for 9 months before that )- he listened to him and never asked me .. and I never saw him again ... regret that one ...


my regret is what i lost,i broke up with him cos i was young and wanted to go out with my friends(stupid reason i know).

he sounds like a loser,ur better off without him,its his loss at the end of the dayhug
Feb 11, 2011 4:59 PM CST Regrets
scriobhneoir: I suppose the upside of never having been in a relationship is that I've never had to go through a break up.



we all have our soul mate its just a matter of finding herhandshake
Feb 11, 2011 5:01 PM CST Regrets
roseanneah
roseanneahroseanneahcork, Cork Ireland6 Threads 283 Posts
scriobhneoir: I suppose the upside of never having been in a relationship is that I've never had to go through a break up.


thumbs up hug
Feb 11, 2011 5:01 PM CST Regrets
roseanneah
roseanneahroseanneahcork, Cork Ireland6 Threads 283 Posts
jimbo79: true enough and i think if we are honest we all look back at times
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Feb 11, 2011 5:03 PM CST Regrets
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
scriobhneoir: I suppose the upside of never having been in a relationship is that I've never had to go through a break up.


Never?
Feb 11, 2011 5:15 PM CST Regrets
roseanneah: my regret is what i lost,i broke up with him cos i was young and wanted to go out with my friends(stupid reason i know).

he sounds like a loser,ur better off without him,its his loss at the end of the day


am well over it now - just that my last relationship lasted over 10 years and it's still too early to regret much - or dissect it .. but lately am introspective mood.... perhaps that means it is time to get back on the horse ...
Feb 11, 2011 5:43 PM CST Regrets
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
roseanneah: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?
nope no regrets of break ups dunno

do have regrets bout gals from my past that for one reason or another i never got toghether with, i.e. not taking the risk of rejection by not asking them out and now not knowing if i missed "the one" if that makes any sence dunno
Feb 11, 2011 6:05 PM CST Regrets
makes sense ...
leaps of faith ...

what have you got to loose v what you have to gain?

hug hug
Feb 11, 2011 6:06 PM CST Regrets
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
skyblue43: Never?


Yes. Never.
Feb 11, 2011 6:18 PM CST Regrets
scriobhneoir: Yes. Never.


A friend of mine started his first relationship aged 35, got married five years later and had their first child five years after that (she's a few years younger)

Mind you I wouldn't recommend waiting that long!laugh
Feb 11, 2011 6:36 PM CST Regrets
forestshaks
forestshaksforestshaksgalway/dublin, Galway Ireland435 Posts
roseanneah: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?


If she was that good i wouldn't have left her in the 1st place...
But i have a principle which applies to all exs "Once there i can always be there"..It doesn't matter if they have a new man..
I know some of u ladies know what am talking about..professor
Feb 11, 2011 6:39 PM CST Regrets
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
In response to: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?


Well, I 've never broken up with someone for a stupid reason...

I think it's not the break up itself you end up regretting, but often some of the things that happened in the relationship (the things you had control of) which eventually led to it falling apart.

sad flower
Feb 11, 2011 6:41 PM CST Regrets
bobbiesworld
bobbiesworldbobbiesworldDublin City, Dublin Ireland33 Threads 12 Polls 568 Posts
roseanneah: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?
ex's are ex's for a reason.
Feb 11, 2011 6:43 PM CST Regrets
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
roseanneah: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?


I never go backwards grin
what is broken is broken is broken is broken and throw it in the bin grin
I only regret the ones I didn't .....not the ones I did laugh
Feb 11, 2011 6:48 PM CST Regrets
forestshaks: If she was that good i wouldn't have left her in the 1st place...
But i have a principle which applies to all exs "Once there i can always be there"..It doesn't matter if they have a new man..
I know some of u ladies know what am talking about..


Do you mean you'll always be asked back for more or that you'll just prove to yourself you can?conversing
Feb 12, 2011 4:49 AM CST Regrets
abitunlucky
abitunluckyabitunluckyKerry, Ireland6 Threads 241 Posts
In response to: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?



The only regret I have is that I didn't get all the money back that they owed me before the break-up. laugh

Seriously past love is just that, past. If you are meant to be together again then it will happen. Otherwise leave it in the past, and don't think about regrets. They may consume you and not let you get on with enjoying your life.
Feb 12, 2011 9:29 AM CST Regrets
irish84
irish84irish84monaghan, Monaghan Ireland72 Threads 3 Polls 8,745 Posts
In response to: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?
i think you break up for a reason but if your meant to be together it will happen
Feb 12, 2011 9:39 AM CST Regrets
larsvegas
larsvegaslarsvegasDublin, Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
roseanneah: Do any of ye regret breaking up with an ex???

Thinking back now was it a stupid reason ye broke up or is it no-go area getting back with an ex?


I never regretted breaking up with someone. Usually I think about it very well before I act. Once in my life not too long ago I thought about marrying a girl. But then she moved back to her homecountry (Iran) and I moved to Ireland. It was the hardest thing I had done and sometimes I wonder how things would be if we would have decided to plan our lives together.
Feb 12, 2011 11:23 AM CST Regrets
Blooms
BloomsBloomsDublin, Offaly Ireland3 Threads 44 Posts
roseanneah: ya dats true i suppose its nearly 4 years since me and my ex broke up but from time to time i do think bout him but den again we are still good friends and tx,e-mail and meet up still but sometimes it makes me think what if....dya know??


I broke up with some one I love to bits but he told me he didn't love me and wasn't going to and really insulted me personally. All I ever did was love him so no I have no regrets ,just sad. But reading your lines above , i'm wondering- all the psycology and relationship kingpins say the 1st rules are- dont txt him. Dont become friends with him after the breakup because that way you wont be able to move on. , and . I've come across this advice many times in the past months.
Feb 12, 2011 4:18 PM CST Regrets
pisces80
pisces80pisces80Dublin/Galway, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 162 Posts
bigjohndeere: to me history is history for a reason, ifwe have no regrets we probably didnt love the person.... though i could stand to be proved wrong


On point man..thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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