How should one proceed from mails to dates? (17)
Hello and be welcome...
I would like to web cam with someone to be sure they are who is in the photo if there is one.
Then a phone call is good, to hear the voice and how they talk to you.
Then if it is agreeable to both parties agree to meet, at a cafe is good, a fairly short date is best in case either one is not comfortable. That is assuming you live fairly near.
good luck......
I would like to web cam with someone to be sure they are who is in the photo if there is one.
Then a phone call is good, to hear the voice and how they talk to you.
Then if it is agreeable to both parties agree to meet, at a cafe is good, a fairly short date is best in case either one is not comfortable. That is assuming you live fairly near.
good luck......
a very warm welcome 
you cant make a programm on life - right ?
start and enjoy meeting - not planning !
you cant make a programm on life - right ?
start and enjoy meeting - not planning !
welcome
Hi everyone!
Yes I fully agree with you. Life cannot and should not be programmed. Take it as it comes. Live it to the full because one never knows what is waiting down the line!
Yes I fully agree with you. Life cannot and should not be programmed. Take it as it comes. Live it to the full because one never knows what is waiting down the line!
hi i wish you all a nice day ... come on girl meets boy boy meets girl we have all been ther done it got the tee shirt and scars to prove follow you heart for your eeling use your head for safety but just do what comes natural best of luck life is full of love you just have to find yours
Just be yourslf. Do not try to impress, and most of all enjoy the moment!!!
KK
KK
hello and welcome!
I also agree that you have to live the moment and if your feeling for something is good, do it. We mostly regret for things we haven't done, not the ones we've done!
Have fun and enjoy life
I also agree that you have to live the moment and if your feeling for something is good, do it. We mostly regret for things we haven't done, not the ones we've done!
Have fun and enjoy life
If both parties are equally interested in taking things further then there is no problem aside from the biggest hurdle, distance. However, I would suggest patience and caution, not everybody can or wants to make a serious committment in a short space of time. It is tempting, particularly if one is a little lonely, to rush headlong into a relationship without knowing enough about the other person.
So my advice is, take your time.
So my advice is, take your time.
I agree, but I and many of the women on CS have had experiences of men proclaiming immediate undying love and offers to relocate BEFORE actually meeting! It sounds unbelievable I know but it is true, in fact most of the interest I have had has been of this nature so it kind of puts me off even dating.
In addition, I believe most people wait some time before actually meeting, so by the time that date arrives there may well be a relationship of sorts already formed.
In addition, I believe most people wait some time before actually meeting, so by the time that date arrives there may well be a relationship of sorts already formed.
That has happened to me and I was not impressed with the deceit.
I spent the afternoon walking around Cambridge with him and never went out with him again. I fact I only emailed a couple more times and just totally lost interest.
I spent the afternoon walking around Cambridge with him and never went out with him again. I fact I only emailed a couple more times and just totally lost interest.
Verrrry carefully, my good man - verrry carefully. Rule #1 - DON'T send money for them to visit you, you go to them. Rule #2 - get a room at a local hotel/inn/flop-house so you're guaranteed someplace to creash just in case "she" turns out to be a man or the type of person who needs 5-6 psychotropic prescriptions in order to attempt a coherent conversation. Rule #3 - prepare an escape route in advance, just in case her family members or "ex" fit rule #2. Rule #4 - have an open mind, think with your brain, and try to have fun!
Good luck!!
~B
Good luck!!
~B
Verrrry carefully, my good man - verrry carefully. Rule #1 - DON'T send money for them to visit you, you go to them. Rule #2 - get a room at a local hotel/inn/flop-house so you're guaranteed someplace to creash just in case "she" turns out to be a man or the type of person who needs 5-6 psychotropic prescriptions in order to attempt a coherent conversation. Rule #3 - prepare an escape route in advance, just in case her family members or "ex" fit rule #2. Rule #4 - have an open mind, think with your brain, and try to have fun!
Good luck!!
~B
Good luck!!
~B
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I just wanted to start an introduction to this forum. How do you think a man should move from mailing to dating? What would please the ladies most?
Good evening everyone