Ongoing Exes (77)
whowhatwherewhen: Suing him was just a figure of speech and hes only living with me because I was helping him out until he finds his own place. It DOESNT mean that he has the right to hit on me constantly. I dont want him. I dont love him and he knows it, so what is it about some dumb assed men that cant get the message?
I can relate to that. My ex came to live with me when she got evicted, we both had our own lives, then I let her rent 1 of my houses. Cheap rent of course.whowhatwherewhen: Suing him was just a figure of speech and hes only living with me because I was helping him out until he finds his own place. It DOESNT mean that he has the right to hit on me constantly. I dont want him. I dont love him and he knows it, so what is it about some dumb assed men that cant get the message?
whowhatwherewhen: Suing him was just a figure of speech and hes only living with me because I was helping him out until he finds his own place. It DOESNT mean that he has the right to hit on me constantly. I dont want him. I dont love him and he knows it, so what is it about some dumb assed men that cant get the message?
Surely he has friends or family he could stay with till he found his own place. My ex tried to get me to let him come and stay one weekend...he got a very definate no.
Faithe: Surely he has friends or family he could stay with till he found his own place. My ex tried to get me to let him come and stay one weekend...he got a very definate no.
Faithe: Surely he has friends or family he could stay with till he found his own place. My ex tried to get me to let him come and stay one weekend...he got a very definate no.
Yes, it's not just about being honest with him, but it's mainly about being honest with yourself and how you feel.Express it in a clear and concise manner so as there are no misunderstandings.
knotagain: Who else has family that maintain their relationships with your ex/es? Do they also bring up ex-news in conversation? How do they react when you finally tell them that you don't want to know?
I did at 1st for a while and then stopped all ties as that is my past and I have my own life now but my boys are old enough to make their decisions to whether they keep in contact or not.
But everyone's situation is different and if young children are involved, they needs need to be considered too ......
knotagain: Who else has family that maintain their relationships with your ex/es? Do they also bring up ex-news in conversation? How do they react when you finally tell them that you don't want to know?
I don't have that problem
I have this problem. The good news is, most of my ex-g/fs have lost contact someway, somehow with my family. My current problems come from a woman, my age (24) that I met back in January. I would really like it if you could carefully understand the next few points. The woman does not understand that: 1. We were only just friends. 2. We promised never to have a relationship until we were ready to have one. 3. Within two months, she was insisting that I date her. 4. I do not like her, and I hate how she lectures me about her job. She's a music theory teacher and she is always lecturing me about the importance of classical, romantic, and baroque music. I have not seen or talked to her since Wednesday. I don't like people who lecture and act as if they are always right. I want an absolutely, 100%, drama free relationship. I can't even have a friendship with her. I will keep searching for a woman who is not like that.
My ex didn't even let me have anything to do with his family...said I was better off not getting involved with them... so for 12 and a half years I had very little to do with them other than when I ran into them at the shop and said hi
Sweet_Young_Man: I have this problem. The good news is, most of my ex-g/fs have lost contact someway, somehow with my family. My current problems come from a woman, my age (24) that I met back in January. I would really like it if you could carefully understand the next few points. The woman does not understand that: 1. We were only just friends. 2. We promised never to have a relationship until we were ready to have one. 3. Within two months, she was insisting that I date her. 4. I do not like her, and I hate how she lectures me about her job. She's a music theory teacher and she is always lecturing me about the importance of classical, romantic, and baroque music. I have not seen or talked to her since Wednesday. I don't like people who lecture and act as if they are always right. I want an absolutely, 100%, drama free relationship. I can't even have a friendship with her. I will keep searching for a woman who is not like that.
there is no such thing as 100 % drama free relationship ,if u cant discuss things and agree to disagree on things then thats not a real relationship in my opinion,nothing wrong with having an opinion,its the way u resolve it ... after all its to individuals that make a good relationship
Sweet_Young_Man: I have this problem. The good news is, most of my ex-g/fs have lost contact someway, somehow with my family. My current problems come from a woman, my age (24) that I met back in January. I would really like it if you could carefully understand the next few points. The woman does not understand that: 1. We were only just friends. 2. We promised never to have a relationship until we were ready to have one. 3. Within two months, she was insisting that I date her. 4. I do not like her, and I hate how she lectures me about her job. She's a music theory teacher and she is always lecturing me about the importance of classical, romantic, and baroque music. I have not seen or talked to her since Wednesday. I don't like people who lecture and act as if they are always right. I want an absolutely, 100%, drama free relationship. I can't even have a friendship with her. I will keep searching for a woman who is not like that.
It sounds like you don't have the ex problem
they don't have contact with your family so you are luckyohnuts1: there is no such thing as 100 % drama free relationship ,if u cant discuss things and agree to disagree on things then thats not a real relationship in my opinion,nothing wrong with having an opinion,its the way u resolve it ... after all its to individuals that make a good relationship
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I dont have the 'ex' problem at the moment. Early on Shortie would spend time with the outlaw Aunts and Uncles, but I discovered that when I stopped doing all the running around, they couldnt be bothered driving over to see her
Sorry Sweetie. I wasnt talking about you.
Shell225: I dont have the 'ex' problem at the moment. Early on Shortie would spend time with the outlaw Aunts and Uncles, but I discovered that when I stopped doing all the running around, they couldnt be bothered driving over to see her
That suxI read the replies after my post. I know it sounded weird to you, but I will say that this world is weird. I know it's off the topic, but I have spent the last ten years, not living under a rock. Yes, there is truly no such thing as a 100%, drama free relationship. However, I believe in actually listening to the other person, and working around obstacles. I have to go to bed, but think about this: would you like it if someone was going around, acting "above the law," and imposing something on you? I'll pick up on this tomorrow.
I read the replies after my post. I know it sounded weird to you, but I will say that this world is weird. I know it's off the topic, but I have spent the last ten years, not living under a rock. Yes, there is truly no such thing as a 100%, drama free relationship. However, I believe in actually listening to the other person, and working around obstacles. I have to go to bed, but think about this: would you like it if someone was going around, acting "above the law," and imposing something on you? I'll pick up on this tomorrow.
Sweet_Young_Man: I read the replies after my post. I know it sounded weird to you, but I will say that this world is weird. I know it's off the topic, but I have spent the last ten years, not living under a rock. Yes, there is truly no such thing as a 100%, drama free relationship. However, I believe in actually listening to the other person, and working around obstacles. I have to go to bed, but think about this: would you like it if someone was going around, acting "above the law," and imposing something on you? I'll pick up on this tomorrow.
No I wouldn't so I'd just say pissoff.Drama is in someone life because they allow it to be there.
I don't know how I allowed it to be in this fake relationship I had, but I think I allowed drama to enter because I made the stupid mistake of meeting this person. I really don't know. One thing I do know is that life is hard. Hopefully, this won't happen again. But, telling the ex-friend or girlfriend to pissoff is absolutely right.
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No means yes and all the other psychology women use just leads men up the garden path.
Say what you mean and let your actions speak louder than words.