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Apr 10, 2011 12:27 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:31 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Nahh, we're all liars who just wanna get in your pants. The only salient point regarding your question is, how patient is he?

wine
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Apr 10, 2011 12:35 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
I hate to say you can't. The only thing you can do is work out if you feel you want to beleave he's being truethfull/honest with you.
I guess the question is how much do you want it to be true?
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Apr 10, 2011 12:37 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Jusso: I hate to say you can't. The only thing you can do is work out if you feel you want to beleave he's being truethfull/honest with you.
I guess the question is how much do you want it to be true?


Dude, you're giving away trade secrets.

wine
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Apr 10, 2011 12:37 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
torley
torleytorleyAuckland, New Zealand17 Threads 631 Posts
Jusso: I hate to say you can't. The only thing you can do is work out if you feel you want to beleave he's being truethfull/honest with you.
I guess the question is how much do you want it to be true?


yeh thats right..without trust theres nothing

only you will know
time will tell
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Apr 10, 2011 12:39 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.


Inconsistency is a sign of low interest.

Are you sure your dealing with a real person and not a scammer.

I eneded up wasting quite a bit of time on a scammer. And they acted like that. Have you talked on the phone etc ?
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Apr 10, 2011 12:43 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
Sorry i thought the Question was good a nuff for a strate answer.
Let me just say all men are grate and stroke little orphan kittys!
I also just wrote a poam about a flower.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:44 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Jusso: Sorry i thought the Question was good a nuff for a strate answer.
Let me just say all men are grate and stroke little orphan kittys!
I also just wrote a poam about a flower.


And when you wrote it, you cried, right?

wine
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Apr 10, 2011 12:46 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.


sorry to say this....but I don't think he is really 'for real'

if he is really interested in you, he would want to have contact with you all the time.
it's called infatuation...he wants to talk to you, be with you all the time.

if he is online, and not contacting you, it means he has other things on his mind.
perhaps he is talking to other women and that is okay...he is looking around probably

but keep in mind you are NOT his priority at the moment he is online and doesn't talk to you.

it doesn't mean a thing. perhaps he is considering to go a step further with you but is still working on it. men are strange creatures.

all you can do is sit, wait for thinfs to happen naturally..
don't force, don't push.

and if he is not meant for you.....hey....there will be another one.....you are a beautiful woman...

cheers



wine
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Apr 10, 2011 12:47 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Jusso & turley,

Thank you for replying. I guess I'm torn as he seems to
be a very kind man and his emails seem to be sincere.

I just don't understand the non consistency in his
communication.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:49 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
Totaly I always cry when i see a sunset or some sweet old couple holding hands. you know they've made it. mmmm true love.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:49 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
Totaly I always cry when i see a sunset or some sweet old couple holding hands. you know they've made it. mmmm true love.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:50 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Dreamyone
DreamyoneDreamyoneRaleigh, North Carolina USA4 Threads 1 Polls 913 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.

are you saying he was online here? Then no excuse but if it's yahoo then maybe no big deal
I know my fiancee is online a lot and is busy. I very seldom even speak to him unless he speaks first. So not sure you can use that.
We actually almost broke up over it at first, because I thought he was talking to another woman and he thought I was talking to other men. My opinion is give him a little time and space and see, and if it continues, kick him to the curb
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Apr 10, 2011 12:50 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
For some take life in a slow pace,thus communication can be any time,and because of this does not mean he/she not interested,besides why having high expectations,easy does it.
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:52 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
For some take life in a slow pace,thus communication can be any time,and because of this does not mean he/she not interested,besides why having high expectations,easy does it.
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.
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Apr 10, 2011 12:54 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
torley
torleytorleyAuckland, New Zealand17 Threads 631 Posts
Jusso: Totaly I always cry when i see a sunset or some sweet old couple holding hands. you know they've made it. mmmm true love.




omg haha
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Apr 10, 2011 12:56 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Carenza,

I thank you so much for taking the time to respond,
as well as being so kind.

You've provided some very good insight.

Thank you again.

carenza: sorry to say this....but I don't think he is really 'for real'

if he is really interested in you, he would want to have contact with you all the time.
it's called infatuation...he wants to talk to you, be with you all the time.

if he is online, and not contacting you, it means he has other things on his mind.
perhaps he is talking to other women and that is okay...he is looking around probably

but keep in mind you are NOT his priority at the moment he is online and doesn't talk to you.

it doesn't mean a thing. perhaps he is considering to go a step further with you but is still working on it. men are strange creatures.

all you can do is sit, wait for thinfs to happen naturally..
don't force, don't push.

and if he is not meant for you.....hey....there will be another one.....you are a beautiful woman...

cheers
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Apr 10, 2011 12:59 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
labrat
labratlabratEast London, Eastern Cape South Africa29 Threads 692 Posts
When its 2late
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Apr 10, 2011 1:04 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Hi Wilson,

No, we met recently on here. Come to think of it on one of my response
emails to him I did ask if he would like to talk with each other on
the phone. I've not heard back as yet. Hmmmm.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:09 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
carenza: sorry to say this....but I don't think he is really 'for real'

if he is really interested in you, he would want to have contact with you all the time.
it's called infatuation...he wants to talk to you, be with you all the time.

if he is online, and not contacting you, it means he has other things on his mind.
perhaps he is talking to other women and that is okay...he is looking around probably

but keep in mind you are NOT his priority at the moment he is online and doesn't talk to you.

it doesn't mean a thing. perhaps he is considering to go a step further with you but is still working on it. men are strange creatures.

all you can do is sit, wait for thinfs to happen naturally..
don't force, don't push.

and if he is not meant for you.....hey....there will be another one.....you are a beautiful woman...

cheers


I will have to agree, If a man Isnt Interested he will not be stable, If He is really Interest He will let You now!blushing
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