So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ?? (156)
If you have respect for yourself most likely you will find men with respect for you 
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daisy333: In my experience, if a guy is genuinely keen in getting to know you, or in continuing to see you if you've already met, there's never any doubt. They keep in regular contact and leave no doubt in your mind that they want to see you.
If you haven't met them yet it's a little bit different; you can't expect a commitment from someone you haven't met face to face, but I think you should trust your gut instincts. At this stage, I think it's a good sign that the guy is very happy when you are online and is always keen to chat when you are. If it seems that he doesn't mind if you chat or not, then maybe he's not the man of your dreams.
He may be trying to work out how genuine you are, and also trying to walk that fine line between attention and stalking. If he is keen he will move everything forward - you'll hear from him, he'll want to chat, he'll want to get to know you. He'll want to talk on the phone as opposed to just online. He'll want to meet as opposed to just keeping your relationship on the net.
I hope this helps. Keep us posted.
If you haven't met them yet it's a little bit different; you can't expect a commitment from someone you haven't met face to face, but I think you should trust your gut instincts. At this stage, I think it's a good sign that the guy is very happy when you are online and is always keen to chat when you are. If it seems that he doesn't mind if you chat or not, then maybe he's not the man of your dreams.
He may be trying to work out how genuine you are, and also trying to walk that fine line between attention and stalking. If he is keen he will move everything forward - you'll hear from him, he'll want to chat, he'll want to get to know you. He'll want to talk on the phone as opposed to just online. He'll want to meet as opposed to just keeping your relationship on the net.
I hope this helps. Keep us posted.
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jahzah: If you have respect for yourself most likely you will find men with respect for you
Sure... but let me assure you that you will also run into your fair share of players, etc. I think some of them find luring a woman with confidence and self-respect a challenge.
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PandoraX: Sure... but let me assure you that you will also run into your fair share of players, etc. I think some of them find luring a woman with confidence and self-respect a challenge.
Some would but the majority of players would like an easy catch,
Thats how i roll
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sultryash: no need to put it on........if she is self confident she wears it all the time and sometimes just exudes it
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PandoraX: ... or you can find them on your WVM page and it shows if they're online (though it has a lag when they log off)
O I had no idea, I rarely look at that
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sultryash: no need to put it on........if she is self confident she wears it all the time and sometimes just exudes it
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venusenvy: O I had no idea, I rarely look at that
How do ya think I know when my favorite peeps are on!!!!
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...What he says when he stops talking
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The only way to know is to just go with it. Just because it says hes online dont mean he is at his comp. I will leave the window open and go off and do other things. Just be smart and use your head. Red flags will always appear more and more over time!
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yabbadabbadont: How do ya think I know when my favorite peeps are on!!!!
Im here my beach ball!!!
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devon80: Im here my beach ball!!!
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devon80: Im here my beach ball!!!
Beach Ball here....and ready for action!Still awaiting to be frolicked with in the sun....
and for my calendar.....
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yabbadabbadont: Beach Ball here....and ready for action!
Still awaiting to be frolicked with in the sun....
and for my calendar.....
Still awaiting to be frolicked with in the sun....
and for my calendar.....
Oh yeah... I have a new shot for the calendar perhaps:
What do you think?
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PandoraX: Oh yeah... I have a new shot for the calendar perhaps:
do you think?
do you think?
Very Hot!!
Im thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
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PandoraX: Oh yeah... I have a new shot for the calendar perhaps:
do you think?
do you think?
I love purple......
Lucky Slarti.....
Still waiting on my calendar......paid cash up front too.....
Scammers
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devon80: Very Hot!!
Im thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
Im thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
Think I would look good in that too
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devon80: Very Hot!!
Im thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
Im thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
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devon80: Very Hot!!
Im thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
i think blue is more ur colour matching ur eyesIm thinkin I wanna borrow that outfit!! The boots r to cute!
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... or you can find them on your WVM page and it shows if they're online (though it has a lag when they log off)