I am new here and a little wary myself... but do feel that there are some lovely genuine people on this site... non consistency is difficult and it sounds like you are feeling a little heartache/stress/confusion - which is definitely not good...
I wonder if you have shared your concerns with him? Best do that maybe and see what happens...
I have had similar experiences in my first 2 weeks here but am taking it all in a light hearted way.
Ok, pardon my earlier joking -- I can't help myself, most of the time -- but I can offer a few helpful hints, seriously.
I met my own sweetie here on CS. It didn't take long at all to graduate to other forms of online communication: outside email, various messenger softwares, Facebook, etc. etc. etc. Even without a home phone number (and how would you know it was really at home?), all those levels of communication would be awfully difficult to juggle, if someone were a total fake.
And then there's an actual trade secret, as I joked about before, but I don't wanna give it away in public. It enables you to tell when someone's account is online, whether they are logged onto CS or FB or anything else, or not. Email me & I'll tell you, if you want.
chris27292729: For some take life in a slow pace,thus communication can be any time,and because of this does not mean he/she not interested,besides why having high expectations,easy does it.
How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as he says he wants to get to know you.
Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails) but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but no communication.
How to interpret this??
I look forward to some great helpful insight from y'all.
Thank you.
I think you fall in love and jelousy kicked in. I am on line many times but i have other things to do, it doesn't mean that he ignores you.
Thank you so much. I think I will take you up on filling me in on "the secret." :o)
We've only talked on CS. We've not emailed on our personal emails or by phone etc etc... I'd love to but we haven't yet. I think we need to first get to know each other a bit better here on CS first.
Dagosto: Ok, pardon my earlier joking -- I can't help myself, most of the time -- but I can offer a few helpful hints, seriously.
I met my own sweetie here on CS. It didn't take long at all to graduate to other forms of online communication: outside email, various messenger softwares, Facebook, etc. etc. etc. Even without a home phone number (and how would you know it was really at home?), all those levels of communication would be awfully difficult to juggle, if someone were a total fake.
And then there's an actual trade secret, as I joked about before, but I don't wanna give it away in public. It enables you to tell when someone's account is online, whether they are logged onto CS or FB or anything else, or not. Email me & I'll tell you, if you want.
carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
savedbygrace3: Dagosto,
Thank you so much. I think I will take you up on filling me in on "the secret." :o)
We've only talked on CS. We've not emailed on our personal emails or by phone etc etc... I'd love to but we haven't yet. I think we need to first get to know each other a bit better here on CS first.
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