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Apr 10, 2011 1:09 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
Did you like that? I'm a total catch.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:10 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Hi Dreamy,

Yes, online here on CS. Ug! I hope he is for real.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:12 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
allsmilesalways
allsmilesalwaysallsmilesalwaysSaintes, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France1 Threads 24 Posts
I am new here and a little wary myself... but do feel that there are some lovely genuine people on this site... non consistency is difficult and it sounds like you are feeling a little heartache/stress/confusion - which is definitely not good...

I wonder if you have shared your concerns with him? Best do that maybe and see what happens...

I have had similar experiences in my first 2 weeks here but am taking it all in a light hearted way.

good luck hug
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Apr 10, 2011 1:13 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Ok, pardon my earlier joking -- I can't help myself, most of the time -- but I can offer a few helpful hints, seriously.

I met my own sweetie here on CS. It didn't take long at all to graduate to other forms of online communication: outside email, various messenger softwares, Facebook, etc. etc. etc. Even without a home phone number (and how would you know it was really at home?), all those levels of communication would be awfully difficult to juggle, if someone were a total fake.

And then there's an actual trade secret, as I joked about before, but I don't wanna give it away in public. It enables you to tell when someone's account is online, whether they are logged onto CS or FB or anything else, or not. Email me & I'll tell you, if you want.

wine
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Apr 10, 2011 1:15 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Thank you for your input Chris.

chris27292729: For some take life in a slow pace,thus communication can be any time,and because of this does not mean he/she not interested,besides why having high expectations,easy does it.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:18 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Malbarido
MalbaridoMalbaridoCyprus, Limassol Cyprus160 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.
I think you fall in love and jelousy kicked in.
I am on line many times but i have other things to do, it doesn't mean that he ignores you.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:20 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
allsmilesalways
allsmilesalwaysallsmilesalwaysSaintes, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France1 Threads 24 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I will have to agree, If a man Isnt Interested he will not be stable, If He is really Interest He will let You now!


top tip hotrodlarry cheering

hope alls well in your smiley world.wave
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Apr 10, 2011 1:22 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso: Did you like that? I'm a total catch.


OH, You are just wanting to be Caught!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing yay laugh
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Apr 10, 2011 1:22 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Malbarido: I think you fall in love and jelousy kicked in.
I am on line many times but i have other things to do, it doesn't mean that he ignores you.


I don't think OP is jealous......

and she never told he is ignoring her....he is just non consistent...
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Apr 10, 2011 1:26 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Thank you Larry. :o)

HotrodLarrys: I will have to agree, If a man Isnt Interested he will not be stable, If He is really Interest He will let You now!
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Apr 10, 2011 1:27 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Well I Am Smiling, Thats a good start!tongue
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Apr 10, 2011 1:28 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Well I Am Smiling, Thats a good start!


hey hotrod!

hahaha....beware of european women!
once they have an eye on you........




oh la la....!
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Apr 10, 2011 1:31 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
allsmilesalways: top tip hotrodlarry

hope alls well in your smiley world.




Smiles,

Is the best Gift You will ever Find!pointing
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Apr 10, 2011 1:31 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
Yes it's a wake up alright.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:34 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Dagosto: Nahh, we're all liars who just wanna get in your pants. The only salient point regarding your question is, how patient is he?


I always suspected as much! rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 10, 2011 1:34 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
his not interested, just flirting with you,if he was he would have taken it a bit further,like skype or asking for ur number?dunno
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Apr 10, 2011 1:35 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Dagosto,

Thank you so much. I think I will take you up
on filling me in on "the secret." :o)

We've only talked on CS. We've not emailed on our
personal emails or by phone etc etc... I'd love to
but we haven't yet. I think we need to first get
to know each other a bit better here on CS first.


Dagosto: Ok, pardon my earlier joking -- I can't help myself, most of the time -- but I can offer a few helpful hints, seriously.

I met my own sweetie here on CS. It didn't take long at all to graduate to other forms of online communication: outside email, various messenger softwares, Facebook, etc. etc. etc. Even without a home phone number (and how would you know it was really at home?), all those levels of communication would be awfully difficult to juggle, if someone were a total fake.

And then there's an actual trade secret, as I joked about before, but I don't wanna give it away in public. It enables you to tell when someone's account is online, whether they are logged onto CS or FB or anything else, or not. Email me & I'll tell you, if you want.
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Apr 10, 2011 1:35 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Jusso: Yes it's a wake up alright.


for somme people maybe...

but my own venom is not so poisonous.....


I hope

devil
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Apr 10, 2011 1:36 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
savedbygrace3: Dagosto,

Thank you so much. I think I will take you up
on filling me in on "the secret." :o)

We've only talked on CS. We've not emailed on our
personal emails or by phone etc etc... I'd love to
but we haven't yet. I think we need to first get
to know each other a bit better here on CS first.


check your mailbox sweetie....

and no, it's not about 'the secret' ....
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Apr 10, 2011 1:38 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Jusso,

Yes, you are a catch. I'm surprised your single. :o)

Jusso: Did you like that? I'm a total catch.
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