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So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ?? ( Archived) (156)

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#81
Apr 10, 2011 5:17 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
????

Malbarido: WHEN THE WOMAN IS REAL.
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#82
Apr 10, 2011 5:23 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Thank you Lilly for your input.

Yes, I agree, Carenza offers some good insight.


Lilly32: I agree with Carenza, if the guy were deeply interested , he would give the priority to you.
As someone said, you deserve the best and full attention, not pieces.
And who said, women are choosing ? I think opposite, men choosing not women.
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#83
Apr 10, 2011 5:27 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
scottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 posts
In response to: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.


Time will tell lass and im sure your woman intuition wont let you down, good things are well worth waiting for..bouquet
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#84
Apr 10, 2011 5:33 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
It has to grow on you....
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#85
Apr 10, 2011 5:33 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Hey Jusso,

I think Lilly is being fair as she is going by the
situation I've stated.

If your reason not getting back to a woman consistently on
this CS site is because your working and put in many hours
of over time, then that's different.

This man I see is on line (on CS) while I'm on CS, or has been
on CS before I long on and he will not always
acknowledge me even though I know he sees me.


Jusso: Be fare Lilly32. i work a lot and sometimes it mite take me along time to reply. It doesn't meen i'm not interested. Having said that if i upset someone through taking to long. I always say and meen i'm sorry and if i lose then i only have myself to blame.
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#86
Apr 10, 2011 5:35 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
It's in his kissgrin devil angel cool
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#87
Apr 10, 2011 5:40 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Londonfan,

Thank you so much for taking the time to post your
insight. I truly appreciate it.


londonfan: Hi

I am sorry that there is so much uncertainty for you in your relationship with this man.

I agree that it makes no sense for him to say lovely things to you via his emails, and then to step back. Sadly, some people have the capacity to do this, yet they do not mean a word they say. They have their own agenda, whatever that may be. This seems incomprehensible to someone who is decent and truthful.

My advice to you would be to move on.

You are a lovely lady; good luck.
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#88
Apr 10, 2011 5:45 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Thank you scottyburd,

True, very true.



scottyburd: Time will tell lass and im sure your woman intuition wont let you down, good things are well worth waiting for..
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#89
Apr 10, 2011 5:48 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Icymanx
IcymanxIcymanxStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 2 Polls 193 Posts
IcymanxStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada193 posts
savedbygrace3: Hi Wilson,

No, we met recently on here. Come to think of it on one of my response
emails to him I did ask if he would like to talk with each other on
the phone. I've not heard back as yet. Hmmmm.
When you know he recieved your email,if he does'nt call you right away or ask for your number to call you right away ,you should move on!wave
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#90
Apr 10, 2011 5:49 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Welcome to CS sweetmango,

And thank you for your post. I'm sorry you had a
similar experience.


sweetmango6: Im new to this,and at first i thought it was a good idea,
as there are some nice guys on here.
Found one that i really liked,and we swopped a few emails,.it was
going ok,until i asked for more pix,(as id only seen 2 so far),.then you know what happened next,.yes youve guessed!Havnt
heard from him now for 3 days,..Why do guys do that??I think this site is ok to find friends and to share experiences,
but anything else?No,.definatley not!
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#91
Apr 10, 2011 5:53 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Thank you for your input icyman.


Icymanx: When you know he recieved your email,if he does'nt call you right away or ask for your number to call you right away ,you should move on!
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#92
Apr 10, 2011 6:07 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Icymanx
IcymanxIcymanxStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 2 Polls 193 Posts
IcymanxStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada193 posts
Your welcomed Grace,you'll have no prob ,there's plenty of men who'll want to be with you!wave
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#93
Apr 10, 2011 7:04 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
wils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand106 posts
savedbygrace3: Hi Wilson,

No, we met recently on here. Come to think of it on one of my response
emails to him I did ask if he would like to talk with each other on
the phone. I've not heard back as yet. Hmmmm.


Thats what they do when you ask to talk to a scammer in many cases. Did you see broken english in the emails. Thats a classic sign your dealing with a scammer. They are very good manipulators.

read the scam warning...
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#94
Apr 10, 2011 7:09 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
sweetmango6
sweetmango6sweetmango6manchester, Cheshire, England UK8 Posts
sweetmango6manchester, Cheshire, England UK8 posts
Thanks hunny,and the best of luck with your search,lips
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#95
Apr 10, 2011 7:29 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
Time will tell....I have a couple of guys I chat/flirt with but I dont expect it, just cause hes online doesnt mean hes under some obligation to only chat with you...Its a little odd that your checking what hes up too...take it easy and let it develop as it will. wine
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#96
Apr 10, 2011 8:19 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia6,801 posts
Dagosto: Nahh, we're all liars who just wanna get in your pants. The only salient point regarding your question is, how patient is he?


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#97
Apr 10, 2011 10:08 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
NoRewind
NoRewindNoRewindPlains, Montana USA106 Posts
NoRewindPlains, Montana USA106 posts
Read wilsOn post 3 hours ago, it is very accurate, could be a scammer. If it gets to difficult for a scammer to take you in confidence they will move on, normally their photos are stolen from somewhere else and they don't have anymore. On a different note, my work schedule can be very crazy, meaning, it may show me online today but I may have only had time to check my mailbox and leave, even so, if someone takes the time to write a note I will at least respond quickly at least letting them know that work has consumed my time and as soon as I get a breather or a weekend I will be in touch. If I am truly interested I will stay in touch if only briefly at times. You are pretty enough and seem like a nice and sensitive young woman so not to worry, maybe turn your attention to the ones that seem more real to you and will stay in touch, respect for you. Just my opinion...
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#98
Apr 10, 2011 10:17 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
omgamike
omgamikeomgamikeElkins, West Virginia USA1 Threads 122 Posts
omgamikeElkins, West Virginia USA122 posts
I think that men in general are insecure. His inconsistency might be based on a fear that if he pushes too hard, you would interpret it as being too aggressive -- and you would be afraid of him or lose interest in him. Or he could be busy with other things. Most people have to work hard to get by in this world, and CS business can only be conducted in off time.

Why don't you just try telling him how you feel -- and come right out and ask if he is serious about pursuing you? Might work wonders. Sometimes men just need a nudge, or a word or two of encouragement.
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#99
Apr 10, 2011 12:33 PM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
--> Icyman ... Why thank you ...blushing


Icymanx: Your welcomed Grace,you'll have no prob ,there's plenty of men who'll want to be with you!
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#100
Apr 10, 2011 12:40 PM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
savedbygrace3OPSan Mateo, California USA350 posts
Thank you again Wilson,

Good insight as well as information. thumbs up

wils0n: Thats what they do when you ask to talk to a scammer in many cases. Did you see broken english in the emails. Thats a classic sign your dealing with a scammer. They are very good manipulators.

read the scam warning...
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