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Apr 10, 2011 2:24 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
HotrodLarrys: My next step is step,

I mean My my nextstep is SLEEP!laugh
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Apr 10, 2011 2:28 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.


Think he's keeping his options open,..a lot of men are like little boys in a sweet shop, theyv'e always got to try a few flavours. You are a beautiful woman, do the same!!


thumbs up bouquet
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Apr 10, 2011 2:28 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I mean My my nextstep is SLEEP!
rolling on the floor laughing i thought u were trying to be funny?hehe sleep wellbouquet
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Apr 10, 2011 2:40 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
Englishelegance,

Thank you so very much for your valued input. You
are very kind.


englishelegance: Think he's keeping his options open,..a lot of men are like little boys in a sweet shop, theyv'e always got to try a few flavours. You are a beautiful woman, do the same!!
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Apr 10, 2011 2:43 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
To mail you.
chococherrie: well as you can read the op said he never took the next step!that would be @ least skyping or personal email for me that is,what would be the next step for u?
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Apr 10, 2011 2:52 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Malbarido
MalbaridoMalbaridoCyprus, Limassol Cyprus160 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.
WHEN THE WOMAN IS REAL.
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Apr 10, 2011 2:56 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
chris27292729: To mail you.
see..thats wot i said laugh
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Apr 10, 2011 3:04 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.



Look into my eyes, look into my eyes..grin grin grin angel devil cool
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Apr 10, 2011 3:07 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
tomcatwarne: Look into my eyes, look into my eyes..
take off ur glasses first
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Apr 10, 2011 3:08 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Do you always blocked twice your age mailing you???rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh laugh laugh
chococherrie: see..thats wot i said
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Apr 10, 2011 3:09 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Lilly32
Lilly32Lilly32Aukštaitija, Lithuania6 Threads 259 Posts
I agree with Carenza, if the guy were deeply interested , he would give the priority to you.
As someone said, you deserve the best and full attention, not pieces.
And who said, women are choosing ? I think opposite, men choosing not women.
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Apr 10, 2011 3:11 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
chococherrie: take off ur glasses first


Sorry, you would be able to see the integrated ccts thengrin grin grin grin cool angel devil
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Apr 10, 2011 3:12 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
tomcatwarne: Look into my eyes, look into my eyes..


Sad thing is, a lot of men pass up great women whilst keeping their options open and usually in the end, end up with nothing, i say recognise a good thing when you find it!!!yay
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Apr 10, 2011 3:27 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Jusso
JussoJussoMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 95 Posts
Lilly32: I agree with Carenza, if the guy were deeply interested , he would give the priority to you.
As someone said, you deserve the best and full attention, not pieces.
And who said, women are choosing ? I think opposite, men choosing not women.

Be fare Lilly32. i work a lot and sometimes it mite take me along time to reply. It doesn't meen i'm not interested. Having said that if i upset someone through taking to long. I always say and meen i'm sorry and if i lose then i only have myself to blame.
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Apr 10, 2011 3:29 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Conorco
ConorcoConorcoMaynooth, Kildare Ireland646 Posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,

How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as
he says he wants to get to know you.

Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails)
but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you
at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but
no communication.

How to interpret this??

I look forward to some great helpful
insight from y'all.

Thank you.


Did you try giving him some guidance?

May I suggest you let him know whats expected of him after he has expressed an interest in wanting to get to know you, for instance you could let him know that every time he's online he should check if you're on and contact you immediately and even if you aren't online that he should leave you a message anyway.You could also let him know it would nice if he was online at the same times every day so that you won't be worrying that he's lost interest in you.

Hope this is some help.
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Apr 10, 2011 3:41 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Conorco: Did you try giving him some guidance?

May I suggest you let him know whats expected of him after he has expressed an interest in wanting to get to know you, for instance you could let him know that every time he's online he should check if you're on and contact you immediately and even if you aren't online that he should leave you a message anyway.You could also let him know it would nice if he was online at the same times every day so that you won't be worrying that he's lost interest in you.

Hope this is some help.


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Apr 10, 2011 4:18 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
londonfan
londonfanlondonfanscotland, Strathclyde, Scotland UK23 Posts
Hi

I am sorry that there is so much uncertainty for you in your relationship with this man.

I agree that it makes no sense for him to say lovely things to you via his emails, and then to step back. Sadly, some people have the capacity to do this, yet they do not mean a word they say. They have their own agenda, whatever that may be. This seems incomprehensible to someone who is decent and truthful.

My advice to you would be to move on.

You are a lovely lady; good luck.
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Apr 10, 2011 4:26 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
sweetmango6
sweetmango6sweetmango6manchester, Cheshire, England UK8 Posts
Im new to this,and at first i thought it was a good idea,
as there are some nice guys on here.
Found one that i really liked,and we swopped a few emails,.it was
going ok,until i asked for more pix,(as id only seen 2 so far),.then you know what happened next,.yes youve guessed!Havnt
heard from him now for 3 days,..Why do guys do that??I think this site is ok to find friends and to share experiences,
but anything else?No,.definatley not!lips
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Apr 10, 2011 4:27 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
Conorco
ConorcoConorcoMaynooth, Kildare Ireland646 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 10, 2011 5:13 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
savedbygrace3
savedbygrace3savedbygrace3San Mateo, California USA17 Threads 350 Posts
--> chococherrie... rolling on the floor laughing
chococherrie: take off ur glasses first
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