englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,
How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as he says he wants to get to know you.
Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails) but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but no communication.
How to interpret this??
I look forward to some great helpful insight from y'all.
Thank you.
Think he's keeping his options open,..a lot of men are like little boys in a sweet shop, theyv'e always got to try a few flavours. You are a beautiful woman, do the same!!
Thank you so very much for your valued input. You are very kind.
englishelegance: Think he's keeping his options open,..a lot of men are like little boys in a sweet shop, theyv'e always got to try a few flavours. You are a beautiful woman, do the same!!
chococherrie: well as you can read the op said he never took the next step!that would be @ least skyping or personal email for me that is,what would be the next step for u?
How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as he says he wants to get to know you.
Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails) but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but no communication.
How to interpret this??
I look forward to some great helpful insight from y'all.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
savedbygrace3: Hey Y'all,
How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as he says he wants to get to know you.
Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails) but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but no communication.
How to interpret this??
I look forward to some great helpful insight from y'all.
I agree with Carenza, if the guy were deeply interested , he would give the priority to you. As someone said, you deserve the best and full attention, not pieces. And who said, women are choosing ? I think opposite, men choosing not women.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
tomcatwarne: Look into my eyes, look into my eyes..
Sad thing is, a lot of men pass up great women whilst keeping their options open and usually in the end, end up with nothing, i say recognise a good thing when you find it!!!
Lilly32: I agree with Carenza, if the guy were deeply interested , he would give the priority to you. As someone said, you deserve the best and full attention, not pieces. And who said, women are choosing ? I think opposite, men choosing not women.
Be fare Lilly32. i work a lot and sometimes it mite take me along time to reply. It doesn't meen i'm not interested. Having said that if i upset someone through taking to long. I always say and meen i'm sorry and if i lose then i only have myself to blame.
How can you tell when a man is being "for real" as he says he wants to get to know you.
Sends sweet emails (and sent a couple of flower emails) but is not consistent/sporadic in communication. As you at times can see he has been online or is currently on line but no communication.
How to interpret this??
I look forward to some great helpful insight from y'all.
Thank you.
Did you try giving him some guidance?
May I suggest you let him know whats expected of him after he has expressed an interest in wanting to get to know you, for instance you could let him know that every time he's online he should check if you're on and contact you immediately and even if you aren't online that he should leave you a message anyway.You could also let him know it would nice if he was online at the same times every day so that you won't be worrying that he's lost interest in you.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
Conorco: Did you try giving him some guidance?
May I suggest you let him know whats expected of him after he has expressed an interest in wanting to get to know you, for instance you could let him know that every time he's online he should check if you're on and contact you immediately and even if you aren't online that he should leave you a message anyway.You could also let him know it would nice if he was online at the same times every day so that you won't be worrying that he's lost interest in you.
I am sorry that there is so much uncertainty for you in your relationship with this man.
I agree that it makes no sense for him to say lovely things to you via his emails, and then to step back. Sadly, some people have the capacity to do this, yet they do not mean a word they say. They have their own agenda, whatever that may be. This seems incomprehensible to someone who is decent and truthful.
Apr 10, 2011 4:26 AM CST So... How Can You Tell If A Man Is Being "For Real" ??
sweetmango6manchester, Cheshire, England UK8 Posts
sweetmango6manchester, Cheshire, England UK8 posts
Im new to this,and at first i thought it was a good idea, as there are some nice guys on here. Found one that i really liked,and we swopped a few emails,.it was going ok,until i asked for more pix,(as id only seen 2 so far),.then you know what happened next,.yes youve guessed!Havnt heard from him now for 3 days,..Why do guys do that??I think this site is ok to find friends and to share experiences, but anything else?No,.definatley not!
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I mean My my nextstep is SLEEP!