No contact ( Archived) (93)

Since December I've been chatting on Skype to a CS member. He visited me for two weeks and we decided we were an item. A week after his return to England his father was hospitalized and I excused the lessening phone calls. Two days ago I was talking to him on Skype later I noticed his profile disappeared from my friends list on facebook. Yesterday I tried calling his mobile in vain and sent text messages. No contact. It's the second day of no contact today. As far as I know he was working the evening shift yesterday. I've no idea what's happening but I suppose it's all over. My question is if he wanted to end things couldn't he send a text message or tell me on Skype. Up to a week ago he was planning to visit me again and eventually move here. What signs did I overlook that this was coming? Am I a fool for having trusted. This seems so out of character for him but I've got no other explanation except that he wants to cut ties.

patience

I am so sorry this happened to U but some peeps r just crappy and do crappy things. How did U miss the signs, U did not miss anything, he was very deliberate in hiding his intentions. Keep Ur head up and know creeps r out there...Good luck to U

give him the benifit of the doubt .

you dont know what may or may not have happened.
maybe his father had a turn for the worse
or maybe he just dosent want to face you .

its only the second day

have patience grasshopper

i never understand why ppl behave so strange.in ur case its very strange.i think there r to ways why he s not answering.first he wants finish with u(may be has met another woman)but hasent got balls to tell u that.
2.may be he is stress or in some trouble so doesnt really feel to talk to anybody.i think u should give him 1 week time.and try to making contact to him again.if in 1 week still no answer,just forget him.

Oh please, she gets off Skype with him and he deletes his profile from her FB...Does not take her calls or send a text....Does not want to face her, Yes, Patients, NO....It is time to call a spade a spade and get on with life.....

He made one call to my mobile and it failed. there is no excuse. he could have sent a text and how can I explain the facebook profile. We were on skype when he'd already deleted me. We used to use facebook to send texts when he was at work. I've got no rational explanation. At this point I'm worried what else he might have lied about.

absolutely!

patience...? Phew

what could you ever expect of such kind of person?

just nothing, like he showed it to you already now

and even if he would come back...
when will be the next time that he treats you like that, I'm wondering

when it even hurts more than now, after only that short time being together?

nobody has deserved to get treated like that