who is going to want me now? (207)
BB_snickers: thick
Ya think?
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jac379: Really? I've always found my mind annoyingly versitile.
I imagine the OP knows only too well how to be a mother.
I imagine the OP feels lonely and scared enough without any one recommending she gives up on her hopes and dreams.
I hope the OP realises that she has a right to care for her own needs, as well as the needs of her children.
If you don't look after yourself, you get to the point where you're not much use to others, either.
I imagine the OP knows only too well how to be a mother.
I imagine the OP feels lonely and scared enough without any one recommending she gives up on her hopes and dreams.
I hope the OP realises that she has a right to care for her own needs, as well as the needs of her children.
If you don't look after yourself, you get to the point where you're not much use to others, either.
Jac, you're brilliant mate.
As for me, I felt the same way when I was pregnant and abandoned by my former spouse for the lucious loins of a then 16 year old girl.
I've had a few relationships since then and have met men who accept my children as part of my life and have treated them with respect and affection. I know I only have two kids, but I know where you're coming from. Unfortunately I haven't found the man who is willing to take on me and my little family yet, but I'm still hoping that will change some time in the future.
You're probably feeling all over the place and emotionally devistated, expecially with all the pregnancy hormones racing around your body not making things any easier. It was very, very hard for me to come through being left while I was pregnant.
I think for now though you need to take some time for you, but BY ALL MEANS make friends here, get to know people and don't be afraid. You need a lot of emotional support right now as well and there are great hearted people on here willing to give it to you.
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BB_snickers: thick
devon: Ya think?
Not nice, I thought better of you
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Wow..you really got a lot on your plate. To be honest, there aren't a lot of men that I know that would want to take on this type of responsibility. I'm sure you are aware of this and feel a future full of love is bleak but there are some men out there who will love you and want to make a commitment to you and your children. Be patient and keep telling yourself you and your kids are worthy of love. In the meantime, focus on being the best you for you and the best mom for your kids. 
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SUNSHINEB0Y: devon: Ya think? Not nice, I thought better of you
Hey Im allowed to have attitude once in awhile.
That was nice, I wanted to say more
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Not even going there with some of these posts!!!Hun, dont you worry...It will all work out ok
Just because you are a mum it does not mean you can not be loved again, or have adult companionship.
Just you focus on getting yourselves together and let everything else fall into place
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Lilly32: I have one child and only I noticed men run after they find out you have a small child.
here
heres one you could have singled out
so strange the ones that call for positivity sometimes are the ones who are characteristically unkind
god forbid anyone share their actual thots and feelings for fear someone will ridicule them rather than have a conversation about things
youre a brave woman lilly
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devon80: Hey Im allowed to have attitude once in awhile.
That was nice, I wanted to say more
That was nice, I wanted to say more
Having attitude is fine
dissagreeing with someone is fine
calling someone names is a horrible thing to do.
Just because he has some finer feelings does not make him "thick" .
If you wanted to comment on the age difference (that he acknowledges is untoward) you could do it without being insulting.
What he is demonstrating is that there are men out there who would gladly share love with a lady regardless of whether she has kids or not, which is what the thread was about. Something I thought you would appreciate being a mother and all.
Namecalling sux, insulting sux.
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oldman4u: First Off Texastornado1, Having children does'nt mean that there are not Men who want a woman with Children..(no matter how many the woman Has)...I am speaking from experience. 18 Years ago I met and Married a Lady with 8 Children. I loved them all...but after 13 Years of Marriage the children moved on to live their lives and She Passed away at home. I love children (even at my Age) and I would love to meet and love a woman who is in your predictament.
There ARE a lot of men who prefer being with someone who has children, and I am one of them.
Don't put your self down...take care of the children and one day a Man will enter your life and want you and your Children. I know I would take care of you and your kids..eeven at my age, and I would do what ever I could to Always be there for you and the kids, but I guess I am only fooling my self to think someone your age could even consider a Man of my Age.
Good Luck and trust me...everything will work out for you..but the kids come First.
Always, Ted
There ARE a lot of men who prefer being with someone who has children, and I am one of them.
Don't put your self down...take care of the children and one day a Man will enter your life and want you and your Children. I know I would take care of you and your kids..eeven at my age, and I would do what ever I could to Always be there for you and the kids, but I guess I am only fooling my self to think someone your age could even consider a Man of my Age.
Good Luck and trust me...everything will work out for you..but the kids come First.
Always, Ted
I don't know how I missed this post.
What a sweet and kind man you are.
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SUNSHINEB0Y: Having attitude is fine
dissagreeing with someone is fine
calling someone names is a horrible thing to do.
Just because he has some finer feelings does not make him "thick" .
If you wanted to comment on the age difference (that he acknowledges is untoward) you could do it without being insulting.
What he is demonstrating is that there are men out there who would gladly share love with a lady regardless of whether she has kids or not, which is what the thread was about. Something I thought you would appreciate being a mother and all.
Namecalling sux, insulting sux.
dissagreeing with someone is fine
calling someone names is a horrible thing to do.
Just because he has some finer feelings does not make him "thick" .
If you wanted to comment on the age difference (that he acknowledges is untoward) you could do it without being insulting.
What he is demonstrating is that there are men out there who would gladly share love with a lady regardless of whether she has kids or not, which is what the thread was about. Something I thought you would appreciate being a mother and all.
Namecalling sux, insulting sux.
Well then I guess I suck!
It wasnt the age difference either.
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devon80: Well then I guess I suck!
It wasnt the age difference either.
Do you?It wasnt the age difference either.
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Wow..looks like a lot of people woke up to find floaters in their cornflakes. 
No need for it to ruin your mood and your day, simply take a spoon, flick it out and carry on with a smile.
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Agreed Ccincy: I don't know how I missed this post.
What a sweet and kind man you are.
What a sweet and kind man you are.
I agree, I thought this was a wondefully sweet and lovely thing to be posted here. Gives me hope that there are truly wonderful and caring men in the world. Kudos to you Ted.
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mindfful: why do you feel the need to single me out and disagree and even insult me?
what i said initially was she has a good chance- due to her age
what i said after that is all true
IN SOME INSTANCES
just as what you lived and musicislife mentioned happens
IN SOME INSTANCESBOTH ARE VALID BOTH ARE TRUE
you may be some fabulous guy who is so fabulous because he married a woman with kids but you are also a guy who has made it a point to follow around and ridicule a woman who is an absolute stranger on the internet....kinda weird
you may "not like" me-tho youve never tried to get to know me,
but i also have feelings and dont appreciate being treated this way- who would? i mean i dont treat you this way
i dont even know you except that you have acted this way toward me from first time you saw me
what i said initially was she has a good chance- due to her age
what i said after that is all true
IN SOME INSTANCES
just as what you lived and musicislife mentioned happens
IN SOME INSTANCESBOTH ARE VALID BOTH ARE TRUE
you may be some fabulous guy who is so fabulous because he married a woman with kids but you are also a guy who has made it a point to follow around and ridicule a woman who is an absolute stranger on the internet....kinda weird
you may "not like" me-tho youve never tried to get to know me,
but i also have feelings and dont appreciate being treated this way- who would? i mean i dont treat you this way
i dont even know you except that you have acted this way toward me from first time you saw me
I'm sorry you feel this way, it's not you I dislike but some of your posts, as you pointed out, I don't know you but I certainly don't like being accused of "following you about" my impression is that the forums are here to be enjoyed by all...me included.
I agreed with some of your posts on other threads but this doesn't mean I'm "following you about" , funny how I seem to be accused of stuff only if I disagree.
I get the feeling that it'd be a good time in the op's life to get some "positive feedback" from those of us who frequent the site, if you don't agree then that is your right also but I don't have to believe you or put up with any whining either, now I'm going to get on with my day and will not be spending any more of it on you, if you want to do some more whining or accusing you can do it on your own or with someone else, I've said what I think. goodbye.
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SUNSHINEB0Y: Having attitude is fine
dissagreeing with someone is fine
calling someone names is a horrible thing to do.
Just because he has some finer feelings does not make him "thick" .
If you wanted to comment on the age difference (that he acknowledges is untoward) you could do it without being insulting.
What he is demonstrating is that there are men out there who would gladly share love with a lady regardless of whether she has kids or not, which is what the thread was about. Something I thought you would appreciate being a mother and all.
Namecalling sux, insulting sux.
dissagreeing with someone is fine
calling someone names is a horrible thing to do.
Just because he has some finer feelings does not make him "thick" .
If you wanted to comment on the age difference (that he acknowledges is untoward) you could do it without being insulting.
What he is demonstrating is that there are men out there who would gladly share love with a lady regardless of whether she has kids or not, which is what the thread was about. Something I thought you would appreciate being a mother and all.
Namecalling sux, insulting sux.
and then you did it to me omy
and nanners if you mean me
oh nevermind i am not hijacking this most important thread any further
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In response to: I got a divorce and was going through a child custody battle with two toddler's. Then i met someone. Fell in love and found out that we were pregnant with twins. He left me pregnant and now i dont know what to do. I am not rich..and even after the twins are born, I am not getting any help from my x-husband or then twins daddy. $ho in his right mind would ever take on that many kids? I am only 29 years old. I dont wanna spend the rest of my life alone. Anyone know what I should do to meet a real man and not get hurt worse???
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time4fun4u: Do you?
I am thoroughly disappointed in you t4f!
It took you over 2 minutes to pick up on her exclamation!
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venusenvy: Dont worry right now about "what man will want you" who cares? Why would you even be thinking about another relationship right now? You need to look after your children. If a man is meant to be in your life, he will come along when the time is right. Your not there right now. Deal with what you have in front of you. Go to court and establish custody/ support. Maybe look at going back to school so you will have a future to offer yourself and your kids. And for goodness sake use birth control in the future.
Venus is 100% correct!...You are putting the cart before the horse....AGAIN??...now is not the time to think about another man, look for another man, sleep with another man...you are a single woman who will soon have four children to care for and raise...a man should be the last thing on your mind...don't fall into the the trap of looking for security by way of a relationship...never going to work....find yourself first, learn how to take care of yourself and your considerable responsibilities, once you accomplish that, if you still want it, love will happen...
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There ARE a lot of men who prefer being with someone who has children, and I am one of them.
Don't put your self down...take care of the children and one day a Man will enter your life and want you and your Children. I know I would take care of you and your kids..eeven at my age, and I would do what ever I could to Always be there for you and the kids, but I guess I am only fooling my self to think someone your age could even consider a Man of my Age.
Good Luck and trust me...everything will work out for you..but the kids come First.
Always, Ted