what should be the perfect date for you??? ( Archived) (44)

May 9, 2011 3:45 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
ashiteru
ashiteruashiteruOita, Kyushu Japan10 Threads 67 Posts
Does she/he needs to be gentle,wild,romantic,or agressive?
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May 9, 2011 4:55 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
All of those things wink
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May 9, 2011 4:59 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
YesWho
YesWhoYesWhoWoodbury, New Jersey USA2 Threads 2,322 Posts
venusenvy: All of those things
a little wild abd funny
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May 9, 2011 5:06 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
jac379: Oh yeah, aggressive dates.

I like a man who flicks peas at me, like using his fork as a catapult with a real bit of venom behind it.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 9, 2011 5:12 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
For me I perfer that my b/f be gentle and romantic.
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May 9, 2011 5:13 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
JAN_is: Well aggressiveness in any form doesn´t do it for me whatsoever. Gentle and romantic are good, but a date, or a first date, should be simply a meeting of minds and a little physical chemistry to be successful.

That´s a starting point for me anyway.


Uh-huh scold May I remind you what melts your knees at the end of a date? A guy that aggressively goes for a big kiss or timid wimpy peck on the cheek? There are times when I like my man to be aggressive wine
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May 9, 2011 5:17 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
venusenvy: Uh-huh May I remind you what melts your knees at the end of a date? A guy that aggressively goes for a big kiss or timid wimpy peck on the cheek? There are times when I like my man to be aggressive


That would be rrrrroooowwwwrrr rather than ...meow? laugh
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May 9, 2011 5:24 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
venusenvy: Uh-huh May I remind you what melts your knees at the end of a date? A guy that aggressively goes for a big kiss or timid wimpy peck on the cheek? There are times when I like my man to be aggressive


Ah well your definition of aggression is very different from mine, Aggression means actively hostile. Perhaps assertive and confident would be better terms to use.

I would also disagree with your definition of a "wimpy peck". The initially more shy and polite men are very often the gold at the end of the rainbow........when you finally get down to business! laugh
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May 9, 2011 5:28 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
JAN_is: Ah well your definition of aggression is very different from mine, Aggression means actively hostile. Perhaps assertive and confident would be better terms to use.

I would also disagree with your definition of a "wimpy peck". The initially more shy and polite men are very often the gold at the end of the rainbow........when you finally get down to business!


Then I guess we like different types I like strong masculine men who know how to be tender and when to be aggressive. Not in any "hostile" definition but definately when it comes to stepping up to the plate on being kissed. I like a man who wraps me up and kisses me deeply and passionately. Leaves my knees wobbly. wine
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May 9, 2011 5:31 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
venusenvy: Then I guess we like different types I like strong masculine men who know how to be tender and when to be aggressive. Not in any "hostile" definition but definately when it comes to stepping up to the plate on being kissed. I like a man who wraps me up and kisses me deeply and passionately. Leaves my knees wobbly.


So...that doesn't mean whacking you across the knees with a baseball bat??? giggle
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May 9, 2011 5:32 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
venusenvy: Then I guess we like different types I like strong masculine men who know how to be tender and when to be aggressive. Not in any "hostile" definition but definately when it comes to stepping up to the plate on being kissed. I like a man who wraps me up and kisses me deeply and passionately. Leaves my knees wobbly.


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May 9, 2011 5:33 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
To Jan and VE....

I like to think that a guy can bring what you both want....
Depends on the mood.....
Who wants to be one dimensional... applause applause
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May 9, 2011 5:35 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
Assertive, confident, initiates, gentle, passionate, not so gentle, gentleman, romantic, attentive.
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May 9, 2011 5:53 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
yabbadabbadont: So...that doesn't mean whacking you across the knees with a baseball bat???


No Please dont Yabbs snooty
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May 9, 2011 5:57 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
venusenvy: No Please dont Yabbs


Well...seeing as you asked so nicely.... I will refrain...



Don't own a baseball bat anyway... roll eyes
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May 9, 2011 5:58 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
venusenvy: Uh-huh May I remind you what melts your knees at the end of a date? A guy that aggressively assertively goes for a big kiss or timid wimpy peck on the cheek? There are times when I like my man to be aggressive



hmmm
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May 9, 2011 6:00 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Maybe thats it BB...Its all semantics sigh dunno
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May 9, 2011 6:16 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
venusenvy: Then I guess we like different types I like strong masculine men who know how to be tender and when to be aggressive. Not in any "hostile" definition but definately when it comes to stepping up to the plate on being kissed. I like a man who wraps me up and kisses me deeply and passionately. Leaves my knees wobbly.



thumbs up thumbs up LIKE THAT thumbs up thumbs up
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May 9, 2011 6:16 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
venusenvy: Maybe thats it BB...Its all semantics



You're assertive. I think people get messed up (and respond inappropriately because of it) when they can't tell the difference between assertive and aggressive behavior. confused


bouquet for your assertions. smile
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May 9, 2011 6:36 PM CST what should be the perfect date for you???
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
BB_snickers: You're assertive. I think people get messed up (and respond inappropriately because of it) when they can't tell the difference between assertive and aggressive behavior. for your assertions.


Well mea culpa I should have said assertive I suppose dunno
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