I can't speak for anyone else here, but I simply don't have the time to obsess and analyze every minute detail of anyone's life, other than my own. And even that's a pretty arduous task.
...."One thing I learned from puzzles is you can cram a piece in a spot it doesn't belong but it will never conform with the 'big picture". LOL..you can even get one that fits from a different puzzle and fit it perfectly into the void but you will always be able to see it doesn't really belong. You can't just reach in the box and grab at pieces expecting all the ones you pick to fit right in with each other. You have to take the time to put them right side up so you can see what they are and how they fit in to the scheme of things. The big picture is never going to be right unless you take the time to build on clues you get from the other pieces."...
That is a pretty cool analogy Lene...I'm going to remember that one..
Kathy no one is saying a person should live their life with their head in the clouds and chasing dreams forever...but as Lene said..dreams inspire people to go out and make "reality" of those dreams...they should be an "inspiration" not a way of life for sure..but without those dreams...there are no aspirations to follow
Having a fatalist attitude makes someone a "real man?" He speaks HIS truth and that's perfectly okay, but he certainly doesn't speak or all men, nor for all women.
life is what you make of it instead of just sitting around thinkin about your next move go out and do it . its not gonna come to you you have gotta make it happen yourself and relationships if you really want em to work you need to work on them same goes for dreams they are just something in your imagination you need to get real on this time is passing you by go out and find what you are really looking for and wanting outta life its not gonna come to you
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