What should I do ? ( Archived) (31)

May 29, 2011 11:47 AM CST What should I do ?
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
A man on another site when asked to tell me more about himself invited me to dinner. We couldn't make it that same week as he was taking his son to the UK for a week. We exchanged one or two e-mails he told me to keep in touch. I sent the last e-mail the same day he went travelling. I've had no reply and I guess it could be he doesn't have access to e-mail. If he doesn't reply should I send one last e-mail asking how his trip was and if we're still on for dinner? This is someone I' m interested in but in my experience of meeting guys online, a lot of dates get cancelled or dropped by both sides.
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May 29, 2011 11:51 AM CST What should I do ?
missingLondon: A man on another site when asked to tell me more about himself invited me to dinner. We couldn't make it that same week as he was taking his son to the UK for a week. We exchanged one or two e-mails he told me to keep in touch. I sent the last e-mail the same day he went travelling. I've had no reply and I guess it could be he doesn't have access to e-mail. If he doesn't reply should I send one last e-mail asking how his trip was and if we're still on for dinner? This is someone I' m interested in but in my experience of meeting guys online, a lot of dates get cancelled or dropped by both sides.
call him
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May 29, 2011 11:52 AM CST What should I do ?
GACryptic
GACrypticGACrypticJesup, Georgia USA5 Threads 403 Posts
I would let it go. Just go on with your next moves. The ball is in his field so he has the last email you sent. Let him make the next move. If he is interested, he will contact you back. Don't let it worry you and go on with life. He is not the end of the world and you have better things to do than think about someone who does not care enough to respond.
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May 29, 2011 11:53 AM CST What should I do ?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
ali110: call him
hell yeah, why not...
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May 29, 2011 11:55 AM CST What should I do ?
zoranova
zoranovazoranovaFt. Lauderdale, Florida USA73 Posts
Wait for a week. One last e-mail should not hurt but would not be obvious that you're "interested" in Him. Simple welcome back, how was your trip and keep in touch. IF he have any interest in you He should be glad that you kept thinking about Him.

Good luck.
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May 29, 2011 11:56 AM CST What should I do ?
llisita777
llisita777llisita777chicago, Illinois USA74 Posts
missingLondon: A man on another site when asked to tell me more about himself invited me to dinner. We couldn't make it that same week as he was taking his son to the UK for a week. We exchanged one or two e-mails he told me to keep in touch. I sent the last e-mail the same day he went travelling. I've had no reply and I guess it could be he doesn't have access to e-mail. If he doesn't reply should I send one last e-mail asking how his trip was and if we're still on for dinner? This is someone I' m interested in but in my experience of meeting guys online, a lot of dates get cancelled or dropped by both sides.
SEND ONE MORE E,MAIL,IF DONT ANSWER THEN GO,ON WITH U LIVE MANY POF IN THE SEAbanana dancing cheering
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May 29, 2011 12:05 PM CST What should I do ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In response to: A man on another site when asked to tell me more about himself invited me to dinner. We couldn't make it that same week as he was taking his son to the UK for a week. We exchanged one or two e-mails he told me to keep in touch. I sent the last e-mail the same day he went travelling. I've had no reply and I guess it could be he doesn't have access to e-mail. If he doesn't reply should I send one last e-mail asking how his trip was and if we're still on for dinner? This is someone I' m interested in but in my experience of meeting guys online, a lot of dates get cancelled or dropped by both sides.



I would wait for his reply back.If he doesn't reply back in what you yourself would be considered a reasonable time to wait and still get nothing back I'd move on.
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May 29, 2011 12:08 PM CST What should I do ?
venusinsilk
venusinsilkvenusinsilkInverness Whoopeeee, Highland, Scotland UK12 Threads 1,103 Posts
He/she who dares wins. Go for it if you think he's worth it. Good luck. bouquet
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May 29, 2011 12:17 PM CST What should I do ?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK9 Threads 139 Posts
Wait for him to call you. thumbs up
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May 29, 2011 12:22 PM CST What should I do ?
manOfewwords
manOfewwordsmanOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Posts
venusinsilk: He/she who dares wins. Go for it if you think he's worth it. Good luck.
I like the way you think wine
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May 29, 2011 12:27 PM CST What should I do ?
Bodecia
BodeciaBodeciaMorristown, New York USA28 Threads 3 Polls 1,476 Posts
missingLondon: A man on another site when asked to tell me more about himself invited me to dinner. We couldn't make it that same week as he was taking his son to the UK for a week. We exchanged one or two e-mails he told me to keep in touch. I sent the last e-mail the same day he went travelling. I've had no reply and I guess it could be he doesn't have access to e-mail. If he doesn't reply should I send one last e-mail asking how his trip was and if we're still on for dinner? This is someone I' m interested in but in my experience of meeting guys online, a lot of dates get cancelled or dropped by both sides.


"What should I do"?, well, in all honesty I would say, chill out. Relax. Stop stressing so much about dating, men, romance and the rights and wrongs of it all. I have read your threads, and you seem to be trying too hard, expecting too much and setting yourself up for more disappointment.

In this instance, I would say let him come to you. In general, I would say forget dating and men for a while, go out and enjoy yourself, get some new hobbies, work on yourself if you want to and let things come to you instead of striving to find them.

Please take this in the friendly way it is meant, ML.

I wish you well.bouquet
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May 29, 2011 12:32 PM CST What should I do ?
Odette67: Wait for him to call you.
and he will never do rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 29, 2011 12:34 PM CST What should I do ?
venusinsilk
venusinsilkvenusinsilkInverness Whoopeeee, Highland, Scotland UK12 Threads 1,103 Posts
manOfewwords: I like the way you think
None of us are getting younger so why waste time sitting, waiting and wondering.wave
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May 29, 2011 12:36 PM CST What should I do ?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
A very good advice from you to the OP.-thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Bodecia: "What should I do"?, well, in all honesty I would say, chill out. Relax. Stop stressing so much about dating, men, romance and the rights and wrongs of it all. I have read your threads, and you seem to be trying too hard, expecting too much and setting yourself up for more disappointment.

In this instance, I would say let him come to you. In general, I would say forget dating and men for a while, go out and enjoy yourself, get some new hobbies, work on yourself if you want to and let things come to you instead of striving to find them.

Please take this in the friendly way it is meant, ML.

I wish you well.
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May 29, 2011 12:38 PM CST What should I do ?
manOfewwords
manOfewwordsmanOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Posts
venusinsilk: None of us are getting younger so why waste time sitting, waiting and wondering.
that's for sure mumbling
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May 29, 2011 12:41 PM CST What should I do ?
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
ali110: and he will never do


That's not really funny Ali.. sigh

ML, cannot say directly as unsure of timeline since he returned to UK as ash cloud last week may have caused unforeseen problems for his son & him?? dunno

As others have said maybe send one last message, maybe tomorrow, but still enjoy yourself, as life goes on, no matter what happens.. banana
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May 29, 2011 12:42 PM CST What should I do ?
Annoying
AnnoyingAnnoyingSaigon, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam5 Threads 847 Posts
If you think he's really worth another try, send him one more time. You do your best on your part, and if he doesnt appreciate it, who needs him anyway .
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May 29, 2011 12:43 PM CST What should I do ?
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
I have plenty of hobbies, dating just happens to be one of them. Having been in a long term relationship I enjoy meeting different men and seeing if there's potential. men are definitely not the centre of my life.
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May 29, 2011 12:44 PM CST What should I do ?
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
venusinsilk: None of us are getting younger so why waste time sitting, waiting and wondering.
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May 29, 2011 12:52 PM CST What should I do ?
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Bodecia: "What should I do"?, well, in all honesty I would say, chill out. Relax. Stop stressing so much about dating, men, romance and the rights and wrongs of it all. I have read your threads, and you seem to be trying too hard, expecting too much and setting yourself up for more disappointment.

In this instance, I would say let him come to you. In general, I would say forget dating and men for a while, go out and enjoy yourself, get some new hobbies, work on yourself if you want to and let things come to you instead of striving to find them.

Please take this in the friendly way it is meant, ML.

I wish you well.


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