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Jun 1, 2011 7:54 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
cherrybrandy: dealing with backstabbers is a skill,that we learn with experience..
sometimes we never learn,sometimes we get cynical,sometimes we might turn backstabbers ourselves..and sometimes we learn to deal with them appropriately and confront directly,if they are able to compehence issues might be solved,if not ..its a matter of personal choice..its called life at times..
I find its best to confront them,especially when they are with people.Watch them sweat and squirm.I love confrontation!yay yay
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Jun 1, 2011 7:54 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
curly28: Hmmm regarding myself I don't think I would allow that person back into my life I don't think I could feel the same around them anymore, time to move on that is how I feel. Life is hard enough without others causing grief. To me a real friend would be up front an honest. Take my best friend she tells me what she says about me to other people especially when I don't know them I have a barny with her over whaterver topic it was we iron it out and we are ok and I have been guilty of same we just know we really care about each other and just looking out for each other like sisters that are real close not nasty stuff. Does that explain me? But to talk about me in a way that is hurtful only to find out later through other people that does hurt.

hug You seem to have a good way of resolving issues with your friendsthumbs up
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Jun 1, 2011 7:56 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
ooby_dooby: What do they call a male drama queen, a drama king?


We call them Wennie Queenies.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing FOR REAL, that is what my sons have named them....wave wave
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Jun 1, 2011 8:05 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
deblake60: I think the worse type of back stabbers are family members. Family is suppose to be thee for each other, to have your back when needed, not to tear you down or humiliate you? Not to air my family's dirty laundry, but I am regretting a decision I had made about a couple of months ago. . . . feels like years.

comfort Don't look at things you did in the past mateapplause make things up with your familythumbs up because family is so important to us allcheers have one on mebeer drinking handshake
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Jun 1, 2011 8:07 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
time4fun4u: I find its best to confront them,especially when they are with people.Watch them sweat and squirm.I love confrontation!
laugh i cant say i like confrontation,but depending on circumctances,i might sigh out loud and get over with it..sigh because avoiding it,comes backfiring with more backstabbing..cheers
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Jun 1, 2011 8:10 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
cgedvr: just feeling naughty...

there's a couple of women around here i would'nt mind stabbing...

but not in the back...

Well I know the feelinglaugh but the pen is mightier than the swordprofessor or the keyboard is mightier than the kniferolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Jun 1, 2011 8:11 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
cherrybrandy: i cant say i like confrontation,but depending on circumctances,i might sigh out loud and get over with it.. because avoiding it,comes backfiring with more backstabbing..
laugh Thats the problem,it wont go away,so grab it by the throat.wine bouquet
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Jun 1, 2011 8:12 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Boban1: I find it very hard to communicate with people who have a lack of empathy ,or are emotionally dead,people who don`t have the time or don`t care ...

Backstabbing ,lies ,deception from a friend...

unacceptable without consequences


Yes I too would find it so hard to forgive a true friend if they were to backstab mebeer
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Jun 1, 2011 8:14 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
NO second chances with me-end of story...
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Jun 1, 2011 8:15 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
gritta: My cousin is the biggest backstabber ever! She messed up with my relationship

hug comfort Yes that is such a horrible thing to dodevil thumbs down
If you fancy a chat I am honest, open and a good listener tooteddybear
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Jun 1, 2011 8:16 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
time4fun4u: They can stab me in the back,i have a built in stab jacket.It doesnt bother me,just shows they are cowards,and wont face me and say it.Thier issue,not mine.

Yes you are rightthumbs up face to face or pistols at dawnlaugh cheers
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Jun 1, 2011 8:17 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
time4fun4u: Thats the problem,it wont go away,so grab it by the throat.
somebody has to do the dirty job..laugh cheers
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Jun 1, 2011 8:18 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
PandoraX: I've got impressive armor for this myself, built up by growing up in a little town with a school full of that sort of thing.If I have something to say, I'll say it to your face (good or bad).

Yes we will take no crap from these backstabbersthumbs up face us now if you darelaugh
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Jun 1, 2011 8:19 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
HOUSTON4: Yes you are right face to face or pistols at dawn
thumbs up cheers
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Jun 1, 2011 8:19 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
cherrybrandy: somebody has to do the dirty job..
laugh bouquet
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Jun 1, 2011 8:20 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
HOUSTON4: Yes I too would find it so hard to forgive a true friend if they were to backstab me

real life , and cyber world arn`t quite the same ,but in lot of cases it reveals the true personality of a person ...
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Jun 1, 2011 8:20 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
chococherrie: but what if i stab u in the face

wow Hi beautifulsmitten I am sure someone that loves as lovely as you dolove would never do something like thathug
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Jun 1, 2011 8:22 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Merriweather: To backstab is the norm in work environments..

How can you not...

If you notice that someone has made an error, you have to tell them so... otherwise they will continue...
however,
in doing so, you have inadvertently stabbed them in the back... because higher up the line, big brother is watching. ready to write up a report to put into someone's personnel file..

so its you or not...

Crikey, but I am over office politics and wearing badges.. Just a few more years of this torture and I am out to smell roses forever...


Good luck hug and I have a some flowers just for youbouquet
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Jun 1, 2011 8:24 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
virgosingle
virgosinglevirgosinglegreymouth, West Coast New Zealand10 Threads 347 Posts
we are always going to get them , and its our duty to forgive them for trespassing over us , and yes we do feel hurt for a few moments , and we can learn to get over it and move on ...


banana
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Jun 1, 2011 8:26 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
virgosingle: we are always going to get them , and its our duty to forgive them for trespassing over us , and yes we do feel hurt for a few moments , and we can learn to get over it and move on ...


Yep, that is what I do,m....Forgive them, then Forget them.....wave
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