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victor_meldrewMK, Buckinghamshire, England UK5 Threads 436 PostsI thought this was a thread about the seventies soul classic by the O Jays ....
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I had not experienced backstabbing for decades but in the music business here in France I got a lot of fresh wounds.
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When I first started using connecting singles as my main forums site I received a message from another member telling me to ignore another member.I copy and pasted this members entire message and sent it to the person they told me to ignore.
Some may call that backstabbing,but this person had no right to expect me to not tell and inform this other person about what was being said.This was not my friend and I owed them nothing.I certainly did not owe them silence about their hateful behind the scene gossip.
Some may call that backstabbing,but this person had no right to expect me to not tell and inform this other person about what was being said.This was not my friend and I owed them nothing.I certainly did not owe them silence about their hateful behind the scene gossip.
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Like Cain and Abel, Caesar and Brutus, Jesus and Judas, backstabbers are people who are not 100% happy with themselves and do not have true love for Themself. They see quality in the victim which they think they do not/cannot possess themselves.Low self esteem is the root cause in MY veiw !!!
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Someone said earlier in the thread.....Wall I think....that those who complain about backstabbers may well be the true offenders...or at least implied the same. I have to agree in part as I have never in my life been a victim of "backstabbing" nor been a perpetrator, and if I have been a victim of it unbeknownst, then it didn´t have the desired effect. 
Trusting people and backstabbing are not synonymous so I don´t really understand the connection here.
Trusting people and backstabbing are not synonymous so I don´t really understand the connection here.
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Most of the time ive found it purely comes down to gossip mongering.
Nuff said
Nuff said
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HOUSTON4: Ok now this is a subject that I know might get people thinking
Why bring this subject up
Well I think it is good to talk about these things because in everyday life we do come across backstabbers
Backstabbing is a horrible thing I mean how horrble the feeling is when you think someone is meant to be your friend and you can trust them only to find out that they stabbed you in the back
I have met a few backstabbers in my livetime and they are
I am a good,genuine and honest man and say what's on my mind.
I want to write threads about subjects that other people want to talk about but are to afraid to write about themselfs.
Now my question to you lot would be:
Have you ever been a victim of two face people?
Do you trust others on this site?
Would you forgive someone that stabbed you in the back if they seemed genuine and said sorry?
I know it seems like a negative subject to talk about but life can be negative sometimes
So share your views with us everyone on the subject of blackstabbers
Why bring this subject up
Well I think it is good to talk about these things because in everyday life we do come across backstabbers
Backstabbing is a horrible thing I mean how horrble the feeling is when you think someone is meant to be your friend and you can trust them only to find out that they stabbed you in the back
I have met a few backstabbers in my livetime and they are
I am a good,genuine and honest man and say what's on my mind.
I want to write threads about subjects that other people want to talk about but are to afraid to write about themselfs.
Now my question to you lot would be:
Have you ever been a victim of two face people?
Do you trust others on this site?
Would you forgive someone that stabbed you in the back if they seemed genuine and said sorry?
I know it seems like a negative subject to talk about but life can be negative sometimes
So share your views with us everyone on the subject of blackstabbers
Not sure if i have been back stabbed in here or not - it didnt hurt if the knife went in - so i guess it doesn't effect me .
Regarding trust - yes actually i trust everyone inside and outside of CS its my nature - of course there are lines and if someone crosses them then for me they no longer exist ..
I try to be nice to everyone - I Never gossip about people behind there backs thats childish and immature and means that person must have a really boring social life and are full of jealousy ...
And regarding forgiving someone NOPE ... once a back stabber always a back stabber !
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Ccincy: A stranger stabs you in the front; a friend stabs you in the back; a boyfriend stabs you in the heart, but best friends only poke each other with straws.
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Good comments
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victor_meldrew: I thought this was a thread about the seventies soul classic by the O Jays ....
Don't worrie man the seventies were cool
I remember saturday night fever
and the disco fever 
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RayfromUSA: I had not experienced backstabbing for decades but in the music business here in France I got a lot of fresh wounds.
Yeah I bet all those dirty music promoters sharpening their knifes
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maryrachelle: When I first started using connecting singles as my main forums site I received a message from another member telling me to ignore another member.I copy and pasted this members entire message and sent it to the person they told me to ignore.Some may call that backstabbing,but this person had no right to expect me to not tell and inform this other person about what was being said.This was not my friend and I owed them nothing.I certainly did not owe them silence about their hateful behind the scene gossip.
Yes these sort of people are bullies
and want everyone to do what they tell them to do yes don't get pushed around by anyone on this site
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Nuliiiiiii: Like Cain and Abel, Caesar and Brutus, Jesus and Judas, backstabbers are people who are not 100% happy with themselves and do not have true love for Themself. They see quality in the victim which they think they do not/cannot possess themselves.Low self esteem is the root cause in MY veiw !!!
Yes this could be true about this sort of people
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Buffy327: Ahhhh hon, who would ever put a knife to U? Ur precious and I want their names now... Somebody gonna get it....
You the BEST!
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rohaan: You the BEST!
Your Simply the Best, so my girl Tina says.....
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Amity: Most of the time ive found it purely comes down to gossip mongering.
Nuff said
Nuff said
Hi amity
yes so called friends talking behibd or backs and stiring up nasty stuff Thanks for your comment
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HOUSTON4: Yes these sort of people are bullies and want everyone to do what they tell them to do yes don't get pushed around by anyone on this site and be friends with who you want to be friends with
I wasn't friends with the other person either,I just thought about it and came to the conclusion that I didn't care to keep that information to myself.The other person deserved to know.------ This thread is Archived ------
maryrachelle: I wasn't friends with the other person either,I just thought about it and came to the conclusion that I didn't care to keep that information to myself.The other person deserved to know.
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