TrueBlue1986: Ahhh let me guess, everybody has had an experience with a backstabber, yet nobody is the backstabber themselves.
For me, I usually get criticised for being too real/honest/blunt. I contend that it's the masses that seem nice all of the time that must be the actors, the world wouldn't be the place that it is if these people were as genuine as they make out.
You're usually right on point TB but I have to disagree with you here. I am not a backstabber. If I have a problem with someone I don't have a problem letting them know that I have an issue with them. And I don't have to say anything. Body language tells it all. I am too honest, not necessarily blunt, but in my last job I avoided people that I knew were gossiping about me. Then they accused me of being anti-social. So I was labeled and it went around the office and it became known to the managers. It became a big problem because I wouldn't join their gossip party. I'm not perfect but I'm also not a phoney.
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
HOUSTON4:
Have you ever been a victim of two face people?
In response to: No.
In response to: Do you trust others on this site?
Of course not.The only people I trust are those in my "real" life. Would you forgive someone that stabbed you in the back if they seemed genuine and said sorry?
Forgive them?Maybe,but our friendship would be over.
Boban1: I think ,I remember it, and look what has become of her... a busybody cyber bully who`s biggest achievement is abusive language and posting fat women pictures ...
rohaan: I have heard the term "Screamer" used to describe this, also a few others. "Nancy Boy", "Old Aunt/(ie)" are a few.
Hey anyone and everyone--I have a question (it's short) but don't want to start a whole new thread for one question. Someone who knows their way around cyber-space, how to access a bit of info, that sort of thing. Help? you get hugs if you help.
HOUSTON4: Ok now this is a subject that I know might get people thinking Why bring this subject up
Well I think it is good to talk about these things because in everyday life we do come across backstabbers Backstabbing is a horrible thing I mean how horrble the feeling is when you think someone is meant to be your friend and you can trust them only to find out that they stabbed you in the back I have met a few backstabbers in my livetime and they are
I am a good,genuine and honest man and say what's on my mind. I want to write threads about subjects that other people want to talk about but are to afraid to write about themselfs.
Now my question to you lot would be:
Have you ever been a victim of two face people? Do you trust others on this site? Would you forgive someone that stabbed you in the back if they seemed genuine and said sorry?
I know it seems like a negative subject to talk about but life can be negative sometimes So share your views with us everyone on the subject of blackstabbers
Basically, I trust in that no one is ever really trustworthy in a positive way...that's life; that's 'amore'...
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For me, I usually get criticised for being too real/honest/blunt. I contend that it's the masses that seem nice all of the time that must be the actors, the world wouldn't be the place that it is if these people were as genuine as they make out.
You're usually right on point TB but I have to disagree with you here. I am not a backstabber. If I have a problem with someone I don't have a problem letting them know that I have an issue with them. And I don't have to say anything. Body language tells it all. I am too honest, not necessarily blunt, but in my last job I avoided people that I knew were gossiping about me. Then they accused me of being anti-social. So I was labeled and it went around the office and it became known to the managers. It became a big problem because I wouldn't join their gossip party. I'm not perfect but I'm also not a phoney.