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Jun 1, 2011 9:40 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
TrueBlue1986: Ahhh let me guess, everybody has had an experience with a backstabber, yet nobody is the backstabber themselves.

For me, I usually get criticised for being too real/honest/blunt. I contend that it's the masses that seem nice all of the time that must be the actors, the world wouldn't be the place that it is if these people were as genuine as they make out.


You're usually right on point TB but I have to disagree with you here. I am not a backstabber. If I have a problem with someone I don't have a problem letting them know that I have an issue with them. And I don't have to say anything. Body language tells it all. I am too honest, not necessarily blunt, but in my last job I avoided people that I knew were gossiping about me. Then they accused me of being anti-social. So I was labeled and it went around the office and it became known to the managers. It became a big problem because I wouldn't join their gossip party. I'm not perfect but I'm also not a phoney.
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Jun 1, 2011 9:37 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
HOUSTON4:

Have you ever been a victim of two face people?
In response to:
No.
In response to: Do you trust others on this site?

Of course not.The only people I trust are those in my "real" life.
Would you forgive someone that stabbed you in the back if they seemed genuine and said sorry?

Forgive them?Maybe,but our friendship would be over.
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Jun 2, 2011 5:24 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
pjr0351
pjr0351pjr0351sydney, New South Wales Australia37 Posts
can you get the knife out of my backvery mad comfort
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Jun 2, 2011 5:28 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
pjr0351: can you get the knife out of my back
leave it there it looks cooldancing
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Jun 2, 2011 5:30 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada3 Threads 869 Posts
Someone will always take behind your back, even if you were Mother Theresa. Human nature is not always good. wave
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Jun 2, 2011 5:32 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Christmas1: Someone will always take behind your back, even if you were Mother Theresa. Human nature is not always good.
wave Hello beautiful! Hope you are well.bouquet lips
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Jun 2, 2011 5:34 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
stelee77
stelee77stelee77hatfield, Hertfordshire, England UK4 Posts
boring
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Jun 2, 2011 5:42 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
HOUSTON4: You seem to have a good way of resolving issues with your friends


Thank you wine
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Jun 2, 2011 11:34 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Bodecia
BodeciaBodeciaMorristown, New York USA28 Threads 3 Polls 1,476 Posts
Boban1: I think ,I remember it, and look what has become of her... a busybody cyber bully who`s biggest achievement is abusive language and posting fat women pictures ...


Who are you referring to, Boban?
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Jun 2, 2011 11:37 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
lifeisadream: I do not waste my time on what other people think or talk about me in my back


handshake thumbs up hug
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Jun 2, 2011 11:52 AM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Bodecia
BodeciaBodeciaMorristown, New York USA28 Threads 3 Polls 1,476 Posts
Bodecia: Who are you referring to, Boban?


Thats ok, B. I gotchya.thumbs up
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Jun 2, 2011 1:15 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
ooby_dooby: What do they call a male drama queen, a drama king?
I have heard the term "Screamer" used to describe this, also a few others. "Nancy Boy", "Old Aunt/(ie)" are a few.
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Jun 2, 2011 1:17 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
rohaan: I have heard the term "Screamer" used to describe this, also a few others. "Nancy Boy", "Old Aunt/(ie)" are a few.
Hey anyone and everyone--I have a question (it's short) but don't want to start a whole new thread for one question. Someone who knows their way around cyber-space, how to access a bit of info, that sort of thing. Help? you get hugs if you help.
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Jun 2, 2011 1:24 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I have so many knives in my back you would'nt believe...sad flower
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Jun 2, 2011 1:30 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
stefonline: I have so many knives in my back you would'nt believe...
Feel like a well-done steak, do you? (Me too)
hug
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Jun 2, 2011 2:08 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
HOUSTON4: Ok now this is a subject that I know might get people thinking
Why bring this subject up

Well I think it is good to talk about these things because in everyday life we do come across backstabbers
Backstabbing is a horrible thing I mean how horrble the feeling is when you think someone is meant to be your friend and you can trust them only to find out that they stabbed you in the back
I have met a few backstabbers in my livetime and they are

I am a good,genuine and honest man and say what's on my mind.
I want to write threads about subjects that other people want to talk about but are to afraid to write about themselfs.

Now my question to you lot would be:

Have you ever been a victim of two face people?
Do you trust others on this site?
Would you forgive someone that stabbed you in the back if they seemed genuine and said sorry?

I know it seems like a negative subject to talk about but life can be negative sometimes
So share your views with us everyone on the subject of blackstabbers


Basically, I trust in that no one is ever really trustworthy in a positive way...that's life; that's 'amore'...sigh
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Jun 2, 2011 7:22 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Kaybee50: Life is too short to spend anytime worrying about what others may say about me. I prefer to focus on positives.

Well that maybe truethumbs up but say it was a good friend of yours that stabbed you in the backthumbs down it would not be so easy to be laid back about things thenprofessor

I am not a victim of that by the waythumbs up just using it as an examplethumbs up
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Jun 2, 2011 7:26 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
maryrachelle: Of course not.The only people I trust are those in my "real" life.

Forgive them?Maybe,but our friendship would be over.


Well you have been lucky because I have been a victim of backstabbers in real lifethumbs down

Be glad you have such trustworthy friendshandshake
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Jun 2, 2011 7:28 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
HOUSTON4
HOUSTON4HOUSTON4Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK10 Threads 394 Posts
Christmas1: Someone will always take behind your back, even if you were Mother Theresa. Human nature is not always good.

Yes you are right and the scary part is it could be anyone you knowuh oh
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Jun 2, 2011 7:28 PM CST This subject is on backstabbers:-(
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
rohaan: Feel like a well-done steak, do you? (Me too)


Ahhhh hon, who would ever put a knife to U? Ur precious and I want their names now...typing typing detective Somebody gonna get it....lips
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