THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES. (30)

Jun 2, 2011 4:10 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Evening folks .

I know myself about people who have multiple profiles ,and how they can be used .

Can anybody else tell me what they think of why some have multiple profiles on dating sites .

I"ll watch to see who has there personal explanations of why some do ,then i"ll give you my opinion on some of the angles .

thumbs up
Jun 2, 2011 4:53 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
jonnt: Evening folks .

I know myself about people who have multiple profiles ,and how they can be used .

Can anybody else tell me what they think of why some have multiple profiles on dating sites .

I"ll watch to see who has there personal explanations of why some do ,then i"ll give you my opinion on some of the angles .
I don't bother having multiple profiles 'cos I hardly have time to type from one.

Mind you, some people are so full of BS that I reckon they need half a dozen profiles to help stop them virtually exploding roll eyes
Jun 3, 2011 2:25 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
mickeyscouse
mickeyscousemickeyscouseLondon, Greater London, England UK27 Threads 1 Polls 2,065 Posts
It happens if that is what people want to do it cant be stopped

Could be dangerous though dunno
Jun 3, 2011 3:26 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
mickeyscouse: It happens if that is what people want to do it cant be stopped

Could be dangerous though



Morning everyone coffee

Im still with this thread ,

Im just waiting for a bit more posts .
Jun 3, 2011 3:29 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
Tatania
TataniaTataniaEAST SUSSEX, East Sussex, England UK1 Threads 9 Posts
Profiles profiles..Everywhere a profile!!! You will find people will create the kind of persona they think the public would like to see, but in truth? thats not how they are, but they run into problems when they findout folks like the fake personality they have created!!

professor So what do they do then??? try and live upto the Created persona they have shown the public,even if its a false one... silly because the truth will out you everytime..give it long enough and the real personality will come out, much to the mental distress of the people they are trying to fool..My Prognosis? a bad experience all round...doh Stay true... keep it real!!! reject the crap...dancing...""RESPECT FOR JONNT"" Smart guy you could all learn alot from him.....grin
Jun 3, 2011 4:01 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
EssJay
EssJayEssJayDevon, England UK63 Threads 3,340 Posts
Tatania: Profiles profiles..Everywhere a profile!!! You will find people will create the kind of persona they think the public would like to see, but in truth? thats not how they are, but they run into problems when they findout folks like the fake personality they have created!!

So what do they do then??? try and live upto the Created persona they have shown the public,even if its a false one... silly because the truth will out you everytime..give it long enough and the real personality will come out, much to the mental distress of the people they are trying to fool..My Prognosis? a bad experience all round... Stay true... keep it real!!! reject the crap......""RESPECT FOR JONNT"" Smart guy you could all learn alot from him.....


Hi Tatania
wave

I've got to agree with you there.....I came across some-one on here with over 7 profiles.....each profile was almost identical as was his the photos.

I strongly suspect that there are some false profiles that are made purposefully to agitate the forums and its members,

To some it's all a game.....
Jun 3, 2011 4:16 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
the results are in


DNA results proove the leisureman is who he says he is laugh


he is the father of his 2 children rolling on the floor laughing




huckleberry fire up the limo
Jun 3, 2011 4:50 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
The13thWarrior
The13thWarriorThe13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK15 Threads 1,707 Posts
leisure07: the results are in DNA results proove the leisureman is who he says he is he is the father of his 2 children

huckleberry fire up the limo


One can only step back in complete amazement grin
I would always believe that such forms of deception would simply be 'Not Cricket' in your book, my friend applause
Hope all is well in your world?

Anyway, as i was saying. With regard to your profile details. The sheer stress in your portrait hides a 25yr old.. Screaming to get out!rolling on the floor laughing cheers uk grin
Jun 3, 2011 6:27 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Hello people ,

Am just having a brew {Tea }

Nice to see all the nice folks joining in ,

13th

Darren

Mickey scouse

Mr L {nice chap but comes from B.Ham you know } lol

Essjay

and all who posted before .

Im still taking an interest .

thumbs up
Jun 3, 2011 7:53 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
It's just my opinion that I believe that those with multiple profiles are hiding something. I don't care to know what. Mine is open and to the point(and only one).
Anyway, the tend to be scammers and trouble makers...not worth my time or enegry....I spend my time with friends(and making new ones) and family and of course, those I know on CS...

To the others....BEWARE!very mad


Oh have a great one allwine teddybear
Jun 3, 2011 9:36 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Its about power and control.

If you have information that others don't, ie. you have more than one profile, you see yourself as being more powerful and more in control of others.

It's deceitful, inethical and abusive.

Like all bullies, they are cowardly behind their front(s), yet they are incapable of seeing that those who are truly in control are those who are in control of themselves, not others.

Being open, honest and in control of your own behaviours makes you largely impervious to bullies. Although, they may leave you with some surface scratches, your core is secure enough to withstand a little foolishness.

The deceiver, the multi-profiler, the bully, however - scratch the surface and their inner core is laid bare. They lose all their power and control because its based on a false premiss.
Jun 3, 2011 10:54 AM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
Tatania
TataniaTataniaEAST SUSSEX, East Sussex, England UK1 Threads 9 Posts
EssJay.. Hello young lady...wave how you today...... be good one time popping over for a coffee... your a smart lady.... stay happy /stay safe/ Regards..... Tat (aka) pamela...handshake
Jun 3, 2011 1:48 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
leisure07
leisure07leisure07birmingham, West Midlands, England UK29 Threads 1 Polls 7,059 Posts
jonnt: Hello people ,

Am just having a brew {Tea }

Nice to see all the nice folks joining in ,

13th

Darren

Mickey scouse

Mr L {nice chap but comes from B.Ham you know } lol

Essjay

and all who posted before .

Im still taking an interest .
birmingham
home of the bullring
jasper carrot lenny henry duran duran ub40 julie walters
aston villa 4 miles to THE BAGGIES boing boing
ossie osborne but we dont like to mention that much
balti land ,more canals than venice ,baguettes only a £1

home of the leisureman
Jun 3, 2011 2:12 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
mickeyscouse
mickeyscousemickeyscouseLondon, Greater London, England UK27 Threads 1 Polls 2,065 Posts
jonnt: Morning everyone

Im still with this thread ,

Im just waiting for a bit more posts .


You could be waiting a long time for more posts on the UK forum popcorn
Jun 3, 2011 2:54 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
jac379: Its about power and control.

If you have information that others don't, ie. you have more than one profile, you see yourself as being more powerful and more in control of others.

It's deceitful, inethical and abusive.

Like all bullies, they are cowardly behind their front(s), yet they are incapable of seeing that those who are truly in control are those who are in control of themselves, not others.

Being open, honest and in control of your own behaviours makes you largely impervious to bullies. Although, they may leave you with some surface scratches, your core is secure enough to withstand a little foolishness.

The deceiver, the multi-profiler, the bully, however - scratch the surface and their inner core is laid bare. They lose all their power and control because its based on a false premiss.
thumbs up wine wine


Hey, Jac! How's the grandbaby? You doing okay?teddybear
Jun 3, 2011 3:25 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
mickeyscouse: You could be waiting a long time for more posts on the UK forum


Good point.

Considering there's only a small handful who post on the UK forums, I'm left wondering why it was posted here. It would have had more answers in the Internationals for sure, as well as several pages of accusations. Or is this the passive aggressive way of accusing people these days?


Regarding as to why some may have multiple profiles on a dating site, who really knows, or cares? It happens, and has done since the dawn of the Internet. They are easy to spot though, as they will still write in the same style, and send the same type of messages.


But... maybe they use one for serious dating, and another for a quick bunk-up.
Jun 3, 2011 3:41 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
Tomcats2
Tomcats2Tomcats2Norwich, Norfolk, England UK81 Threads 9 Polls 2,249 Posts
cynicalorange: Good point.

Considering there's only a small handful who post on the UK forums, I'm left wondering why it was posted here. It would have had more answers in the Internationals for sure, as well as several pages of accusations. Or is this the passive aggressive way of accusing people these days?Regarding as to why some may have multiple profiles on a dating site, who really knows, or cares? It happens, and has done since the dawn of the Internet. They are easy to spot though, as they will still write in the same style, and send the same type of messages.But... maybe they use one for serious dating, and another for a quick bunk-up.
Noticed one person on here who was full of anger and antagonistic to other CS members She He went on to post more disparraging remarks but typed in the same way. Why more then one profile because she or he wants to cause mayhem and anger without the come back i think. very low indeed
Jun 3, 2011 3:50 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
Tomcats2: Noticed one person on here who was full of anger and antagonistic to other CS members She He went on to post more disparraging remarks but typed in the same way. Why more then one profile because she or he wants to cause mayhem and anger without the come back i think. very low indeed


You're going to have to explain that one. YOU are obviously accusing someone of wrongdoing.
Jun 3, 2011 3:58 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
Tomcats2
Tomcats2Tomcats2Norwich, Norfolk, England UK81 Threads 9 Polls 2,249 Posts
cynicalorange: You're going to have to explain that one. YOU are obviously accusing someone of wrongdoing.
No wont explain only to say that i felt their anger and hatred
Jun 3, 2011 4:02 PM CST THE DARK SIDE OF MULTIPLE PROFILES.
The13thWarrior
The13thWarriorThe13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK15 Threads 1,707 Posts
Tomcats2: No wont explain only to say that i felt their anger and hatred


Makes you wonder what such people are even doing on a dating site?
Hi TC.. Long time no see cheers
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