ex boyfriend ( Archived) (50)

Jun 5, 2011 4:58 AM CST ex boyfriend
ashiteru
ashiteruashiteruOita, Kyushu Japan10 Threads 67 Posts
If he doesn't care to you ..girl you need to move on ,I know it's hard but don't stock your self to him for life ..If he return back seriously the question is when?..Well he is for you cheers dancing
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Jun 5, 2011 6:02 AM CST ex boyfriend
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.

When getting back together there is usually one who wants it much more than they other. And the one who wants it least usually calls all of the shots.
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Jun 5, 2011 6:06 AM CST ex boyfriend
Mikagami
MikagamiMikagamiSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore3 Posts
I'd say it's way better to move on.
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Jun 5, 2011 6:10 AM CST ex boyfriend
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
we call them ex boyfriends for a reason honey?

Question:
do you really want to get bk with him cuz you love him or cuz you can't bare facing the thought of being the one who has been rejected?

been there and done that sweetie!!!

it never feels good to be on the receiving end of rejection,
"NEVER EVER NEVER"... but it feels even worse, if you are rejecting YOU!!!!!!!!

think about it for a minute!

... he may have caused you hurt by rejecting you in the past... but how is this hurt gonna STOP NOW if you are rejecting you too!! You are doing to you what he has done!! You give him the power and control over you by doing the same to yourself!!!

Do you see this?? ... perhaps you don't want to see it ... it's not for me to force you to see it dunno

anyway... it's just my opinion and sounds like you might be allowing yourself to believe in him MORE than you believe in yourself sweetie help and this will always end in tears!!

hope I'm wrong though... sigh cool
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Jun 5, 2011 7:19 AM CST ex boyfriend
kitten5121
kitten5121kitten5121java, Central Java Indonesia753 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.



after 3 years broke up, u still love him but he didn't love u then what is that for? any worth? dunno
don't waste ur time for one sided love. the more u push him to love u, the more it will turns him to "hate" u.

open ur heart to another. hug hug
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Jun 5, 2011 7:23 AM CST ex boyfriend
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
GRshygirl: Is it a mistake for me to get back with my ex after 3 years? I broke it off because I loved him and he didn't feel the same. I wanted to find someone to love me. I haven't been on one date ... I still love him.


This is a question I would expect from someone in their early 20's. At your age, you should be able to answer it yourself.

If he didn't feel the same as you then, what makes you think it will be any different now. It's time to move on and find someone who will give you the love you desire
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Jun 5, 2011 7:45 AM CST ex boyfriend
terbear57
terbear57terbear57Grand Rapids, Michigan USA10 Threads 6 Polls 462 Posts
GRshygirl; life is to Precious, just to sit around think of someone who cant show his love to you, just take one step at a time, look at all the things that are happening in GR now downtown, heah we even made on the today show lol. Time to let go
get on with your life. Good luck
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Jun 5, 2011 7:49 AM CST ex boyfriend
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
TallPete: Arh give the poor lad a break, I believe him. If his current GF Fig got on well with his ex Ment then it sounds like a winning cobination with his Imagination


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 5, 2011 7:50 AM CST ex boyfriend
I dated a lady on the other side of the lake from you and I had no feelings that I should of for her so we broke it of, 2 years later we started dating (I never dated anyone in between)now we have a better relationship...

Almost bought a Vette in your town....idea
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Jun 5, 2011 7:54 AM CST ex boyfriend
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
SatelliteServer: I dated a lady on the other side of the lake from you and I had no feelings that I should of for her so we broke it of, 2 years later we started dating (I never dated anyone in between)now we have a better relationship...

Almost bought a Vette in your town....


Good luck to you...

I guess that your state of mind was in a better place the 2nd time round.. cheers
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