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jac379: Take 2 cynical pills, 3 times a day and to make sure they go down, grab yourself by the scruff of the neck and give yourself a good shaking.
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I just don't want to be alone anymore. I know I can't make him love me. Maybe I'm just unlovable.
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GRshygirl: I just don't want to be alone anymore. I know I can't make him love me. Maybe I'm just unlovable.
you are very loveable if you only start loving yourself.
I hate to see it when you set yourself up for some serious misery with this man.
he doesn't want to be with you....the last 3 years proved that.
otherwise, he would have contacted you.
no go straighten your back....and get out in the world.
there are so many nice men out there, that will love you to bits and pieces if you let them.
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In this case,go back to him,and stay with him,as long as it lasts.Problem solved.-
GRshygirl: I just don't want to be alone anymore. I know I can't make him love me. Maybe I'm just unlovable.
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GRshygirl: I just don't want to be alone anymore. I know I can't make him love me. Maybe I'm just unlovable.
Hun, stop putting yourself down... Everyone has self worth...EVERYONE and that includes you...
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Merriweather: Hun, stop putting yourself down... Everyone has self worth...EVERYONE and that includes you...
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I faced the same problem last year, I arranged a trio with my ex and current, so I could compare and choose. We all loved the experience
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GRshygirl: I just don't want to be alone anymore. I know I can't make him love me. Maybe I'm just unlovable.
That does it.
I'm on my way over and I'm gonna grab you by the scruff of the neck and shake you.
When he's finished using you, you'll be back on your own again moping.
You might as well cut out the middle man.
Go and do something else with other people.
Go join a club, or two, or do some voluntary work where your efforts will be appreciated and you'll have some decent company of like-minded people.
I know its hard when you're shy, I'm painfully shy. Act, pretend you're not.
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BIG MISTAKE! Move on, he has. Take it from one who knows!
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Ladefoss23: I faced the same problem last year, I arranged a trio with my ex and current, so I could compare and choose. We all loved the experience
yeah....sure honey...
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shalimar1811: BIG MISTAKE! Move on, he has. Take it from one who knows!
Hi I think its a big waste of time , on the other hand if your happy to waste a bit of time and it feels good why not just remember what it is .
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jac379: That does it.
I'm on my way over and I'm gonna grab you by the scruff of the neck and shake you.
When he's finished using you, you'll be back on your own again moping.
You might as well cut out the middle man.
Go and do something else with other people.
Go join a club, or two, or do some voluntary work where your efforts will be appreciated and you'll have some decent company of like-minded people.
I know its hard when you're shy, I'm painfully shy. Act, pretend you're not.
I'm on my way over and I'm gonna grab you by the scruff of the neck and shake you.
When he's finished using you, you'll be back on your own again moping.
You might as well cut out the middle man.
Go and do something else with other people.
Go join a club, or two, or do some voluntary work where your efforts will be appreciated and you'll have some decent company of like-minded people.
I know its hard when you're shy, I'm painfully shy. Act, pretend you're not.
never would have picked that Jac....
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GRshygirl: I just don't want to be alone anymore. I know I can't make him love me. Maybe I'm just unlovable.
Jac is giving you the best advice..
build some self respect and love yourself first..your ex doesnt like commitment obviously and he will dump you,if he meets someone else,sorry..but why inflict that on yourself?
p.s.its a diffeent matter if you are happy with the "friends with benefits" concept..
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carenza: yeah....sure honey...
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yabbadabbadont: never would have picked that Jac....
I deserve an Oscar.
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ur judgement is imature, u don't know the guy. u r basing on ur on past experiences.
op, do what u feel is right
op, do what u feel is right
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It sounds as though you have already made your mind up that you want to get back together with him in some ways even though you realise it is not probably the best thing to do for your happiness. If you don't get back with him then you will always be wondering as it sounds like you are still being held back by your feelings for him. Until you have got over him you wont be able to move forward. So maybe you need to get back with your ex if onnly to clarify to yourself he is not the one for you if it doesnt work out. Whatever happens I hope everything works out well for you x
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jac379: I deserve an Oscar.
for being Shy?
ok but u r shy in wat?
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carenza: yeah....sure honey...
Arh give the poor lad a break, I believe him. If his current GF Fig got on well with his ex Ment then it sounds like a winning cobination with his Imagination
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and within that date, you can suss out if you really do feel the same about him... It might be a releasing and enlightening experience for you... at least then you can confidently walk forward...
Good luck.
Hey, now that's very sensible advice, and makes a good plan too!