Safety on dates (24)
missingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 PostsI like it when a man offers to pick me up for a date but seeing I meet men from cs whom I don't know I insist on meeting in a public place and drive myself. Yesterday I had a date and made an exception/mistake I let him pick me up at a designated landmark. I insisted we go for drinks whereas he wanted to go and drink a bottle of wine he had brought himself at the beach. This really put me off and I won't be seeing the man again. In the end we didn't go to the beach. I insisted we stop at a bar but I've sworn never again to let a man pick me up even though he was a gentleman. I don't know if his intentions were to be romantic or otherwise but I didn't like his idea of wine at the beach. Also he never stopped talking on his mobile throughout the date. I thought he really had bad manners.
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Yea always be careful! Glad you are fine. 
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well in my opion i think the drinking @ the beach was nice,@ least he didnt insist on going to his place,and a bar maybe wudve been too noisy
cause i wish i cud date
cause i wish i cud date
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chococherrie: well in my opion i think the drinking @ the beach was nice,@ least he didnt insist on going to his place,and a bar maybe wudve been too noisy
cause i wish i cud date
cause i wish i cud date
i was confused myself. drinking at the beach can be romantic but I didn't feel comfortable doing that on a first date. At least the bar was quite deserted. I don't know what's happening to me I'm on my guard all the time but it just didn't seem like a wise idea at the time. You know a couple of drinks on an isolated beach and you can easily be taken advantage of.
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Maybe he had plans for you and him talking and enjoying some wine on the beach.If he was a gentleman why not see him again?
I don't try to figure some people out.They meet a gentleman they complain.He's not a gentleman they complain.Go figure.And some people wonder why they're still single.
Going to a bar on a first date would've been a no no for me since I don't drink anyway.
I don't try to figure some people out.They meet a gentleman they complain.He's not a gentleman they complain.Go figure.And some people wonder why they're still single.
Going to a bar on a first date would've been a no no for me since I don't drink anyway.
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missingLondon: i was confused myself. drinking at the beach can be romantic but I didn't feel comfortable doing that on a first date. At least the bar was quite deserted. I don't know what's happening to me I'm on my guard all the time but it just didn't seem like a wise idea at the time. You know a couple of drinks on an isolated beach and you can easily be taken advantage of.
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Curious and off topic.- How many dates in a month for you???
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Those advantages are pleasant,why reject them???
missingLondon: i was confused myself. drinking at the beach can be romantic but I didn't feel comfortable doing that on a first date. At least the bar was quite deserted. I don't know what's happening to me I'm on my guard all the time but it just didn't seem like a wise idea at the time. You know a couple of drinks on an isolated beach and you can easily be taken advantage of.
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chris27292729: Curious and off topic.- How many dates in a month for you???
lol quite a lot actually but they're just encounters getting to know men over a coffee. Don't get away with the idea that anything intimate goes on as happened in another thread. I get invites, meet the guys and talk. This week I had three dates but cancelled one. I keep trying to find a good one but he's eluding me so far!
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Ccincy: Yes I fully understand being uneasy.I'd feel alot more uneasy today about dating a guy I'd just met online for the first time.
But it was posted that said guy was a gentleman.
But it was posted that said guy was a gentleman.
Dont get me wrong..im in full agreement with you.100%
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I would say,very popular with your dates,now,what you are doing having a date with someone,is entirely your affair.Don't give up,he cannot eluding you for long.
missingLondon: lol quite a lot actually but they're just encounters getting to know men over a coffee. Don't get away with the idea that anything intimate goes on as happened in another thread. I get invites, meet the guys and talk. This week I had three dates but cancelled one. I keep trying to find a good one but he's eluding me so far!
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missingLondon: I like it when a man offers to pick me up for a date but seeing I meet men from cs whom I don't know I insist on meeting in a public place and drive myself. Yesterday I had a date and made an exception/mistake I let him pick me up at a designated landmark. I insisted we go for drinks whereas he wanted to go and drink a bottle of wine he had brought himself at the beach. This really put me off and I won't be seeing the man again. In the end we didn't go to the beach. I insisted we stop at a bar but I've sworn never again to let a man pick me up even though he was a gentleman. I don't know if his intentions were to be romantic or otherwise but I didn't like his idea of wine at the beach. Also he never stopped talking on his mobile throughout the date. I thought he really had bad manners.
I see no other alternative than me coming over to Malta and aske you out on a date...
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Boban1: I see no other alternative than me coming over to Malta and aske you out on a date...
I'd say yes to a date with you Boban!------ This thread is Archived ------
Boban1: I see no other alternative than me coming over to Malta and aske you out on a date...
don't forget the bottle of wine and the beach towel
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missingLondon: I like it when a man offers to pick me up for a date but seeing I meet men from cs whom I don't know I insist on meeting in a public place and drive myself. Yesterday I had a date and made an exception/mistake I let him pick me up at a designated landmark. I insisted we go for drinks whereas he wanted to go and drink a bottle of wine he had brought himself at the beach. This really put me off and I won't be seeing the man again. In the end we didn't go to the beach. I insisted we stop at a bar but I've sworn never again to let a man pick me up even though he was a gentleman. I don't know if his intentions were to be romantic or otherwise but I didn't like his idea of wine at the beach. Also he never stopped talking on his mobile throughout the date. I thought he really had bad manners.
You are thinking wisely .- - - - - you never know so first date definitely always in public, just to be on the safe side - - - sometimes one does get to know a man so it is ok to get picked up - - - but in the end you never know - - - and him speaking all the time on the phone - - - it means that if he was not able to shut it off during your first date - - - - you can imagine how much attention you would get in the future :)
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Mystyr: don't forget the bottle of wine and the beach towel
I'll get the beach towel, Boban can get the wine
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54xmax: You are thinking wisely .- - - - - you never know so first date definitely always in public, just to be on the safe side - - - sometimes one does get to know a man so it is ok to get picked up - - - but in the end you never know - - - and him speaking all the time on the phone - - - it means that if he was not able to shut it off during your first date - - - - you can imagine how much attention you would get in the future :)
exactly my thoughts
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missingLondon: I'll get the beach towel, Boban can get the wine
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Ccincy: Yes I fully understand being uneasy.I'd feel alot more uneasy today about dating a guy I'd just met online for the first time.
But it was posted that said guy was a gentleman.
But it was posted that said guy was a gentleman.
It is easy to play a gentleman to put an act - - - so "the guy was a gentleman" is no assurance, and the guys who really are giving an image of perfection - - - - I'd keep my guard up in a woman's place, cos in the end nobody is perfect
in the end I think one should be him / her self from the first date on - - - cos all to often people pretend on dates and then the more you get to know them, the more you see that they are full of it - - - - Sometimes somebody don't appear to be to "classy" at first glance, but in the end, you get what you see and that's not that bad if a guy is ok and decent 
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a packet of three in your handbag will keep you safe 
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