Why OH Why (29)
funygirlLimerick, Ireland2 Threads 31 PostsOk would love some feedback on this..I met a guy in a pub last friday night we got on really well loads of chat and flirting..we went back to my place for a nightcap and he stayed over..not much happened only a bit of kissing but we got up and hung out for most of the day..he asked for my number and saved it in his phone...dropped him home abot two hours later got a peck on the cheek and he said he would ring me during the week and we would go to the cinema or something ..I said yrah sounds good..Its Thursday now and no call or text so I am asking Why oh wHY DID HE TAKE MY NUMBER AND NOT USE IT ???
funygirl: Ok would love some feedback on this..I met a guy in a pub last friday night we got on really well loads of chat and flirting..we went back to my place for a nightcap and he stayed over..not much happened only a bit of kissing but we got up and hung out for most of the day..he asked for my number and saved it in his phone...dropped him home abot two hours later got a peck on the cheek and he said he would ring me during the week and we would go to the cinema or something ..I said yrah sounds good..Its Thursday now and no call or text so I am asking Why oh wHY DID HE TAKE MY NUMBER AND NOT USE IT ???
Politeness....
bUT IT WAS NEVER DISCUSSED ...I wasnt expecting a date out of it
funygirl: Ok would love some feedback on this..I met a guy in a pub last friday night we got on really well loads of chat and flirting..we went back to my place for a nightcap and he stayed over..not much happened only a bit of kissing but we got up and hung out for most of the day..he asked for my number and saved it in his phone...dropped him home abot two hours later got a peck on the cheek and he said he would ring me during the week and we would go to the cinema or something ..I said yrah sounds good..Its Thursday now and no call or text so I am asking Why oh wHY DID HE TAKE MY NUMBER AND NOT USE IT ???
Maybe he doesn't like palefaces.
funygirl: Ok would love some feedback on this..I met a guy in a pub last friday night we got on really well loads of chat and flirting..we went back to my place for a nightcap and he stayed over..not much happened only a bit of kissing but we got up and hung out for most of the day..he asked for my number and saved it in his phone...dropped him home abot two hours later got a peck on the cheek and he said he would ring me during the week and we would go to the cinema or something ..I said yrah sounds good..Its Thursday now and no call or text so I am asking Why oh wHY DID HE TAKE MY NUMBER AND NOT USE IT ???
im not been funny but its just what some fellas dofunygirl: Ok would love some feedback on this..I met a guy in a pub last friday night we got on really well loads of chat and flirting..we went back to my place for a nightcap and he stayed over..not much happened only a bit of kissing but we got up and hung out for most of the day..he asked for my number and saved it in his phone...dropped him home abot two hours later got a peck on the cheek and he said he would ring me during the week and we would go to the cinema or something ..I said yrah sounds good..Its Thursday now and no call or text so I am asking Why oh wHY DID HE TAKE MY NUMBER AND NOT USE IT ???
well there are several ways you can handle this one....
THE HE STILL FANCIES ME WAY
so you get to thinking that he lost his phone or aliens abducted him etc and then you convince yourself you must check on him and you text him! (this is a no no....he is not interested!)
THE HE MUST BE MARRIED/SHACKED UP WAY
so you logic it out and think maybe he is not single....you absolutely must text him and ask him (this is a no no....he is not interested!)
THE HE WILL RING BUT IS SHY OR PLAYING THE WAITING GAME WAY
you decided to text him first and let him know you are available, like him and he does not need to wait (this is a no no ...he is not interested!)
THE NEXT WAY
this is what I do.....don't even think about it..what it was it was....put it down to a night of good craic and file it under "wow that was cool".....he is not interested!
sorry to be harsh (was aiming for funny to cheer you up but my cynical humour got in the way)...the reality is that if a guy wants to see you again he will call/text....the cs men on here will probably back me up on this
Then again tomorrow is thursday and maybe he will surprise you yet!
have a hug and stop analysing it or you will crack up!
funygirl: bUT IT WAS NEVER DISCUSSED ...I wasnt expecting a date out of it
I agree with the two replies above, but I'm confused now.....what was never discussed
Well that probably the best answer but i can not stress enough i did not bring up meeting up again or anything
funygirl: Well that probably the best answer but i can not stress enough i did not bring up meeting up again or anything
you didn't ask/plan but he did...and now he is not following through....so
he is not interested
that is what I would be thinking anyway!
he ruined it by speaking
some men should be gagged....."don't speak or you will ruin it" has to be my favourite line 
funygirl: bUT IT WAS NEVER DISCUSSED ...I wasnt expecting date out of it
It's early day's yet,for all you know he could ring tomorrow,that's if he has any sence he would,it's alsoa wonder why he didn't ring you at the start of the week and tell you that he had a wonderful time meeting a beautiful female like you,then again not all us blokes are like that,just wait and he'll probably turn up at your front door with a big bunch of flowers and ask you out on a date,Good luck and hope he does beautiful,
karllark: It's early day's yet,for all you know he could ring tomorrow,that's if he has any sence he would,it's alsoa wonder why he didn't ring you at the start of the week and tell you that he had a wonderful time meeting a beautiful female like you,then again not all us blokes are like that,just wait and he'll probably turn up at your front door with a big bunch of flowers and ask you out on a date,Good luck and hope he does beautiful,
I was going to log out when i noticed this
come on really??? do you think he will come to her door on a white horse wit a bunch of flowers and get down on bended knee to ask her out.
@ funygirl I mean no disrespect on this matter coz its hateful when someone takes your number and never intends to contact u again.
but i highly doubt the above will actually happen but if it does even better
anniebaby: I was going to log out when i noticed this
come on really??? do you think he will come to her door on a white horse wit a bunch of flowers and get down on bended knee to ask her out.
@ funygirl I mean no disrespect on this matter coz its hateful when someone takes your number and never intends to contact u again.
but i highly doubt the above will actually happen but if it does even better
Anniebaby,you'd be suprised as there is still a few decent and relibable men out there that would do that to a person that they really care about,i know its hard to believe,Take care Funygirl come on really??? do you think he will come to her door on a white horse wit a bunch of flowers and get down on bended knee to ask her out.
@ funygirl I mean no disrespect on this matter coz its hateful when someone takes your number and never intends to contact u again.
but i highly doubt the above will actually happen but if it does even better
funygirl: Glad i made you laugh!!
no you didn't make me laugh...I know exactly how you feel, but I gave all that up years ago...sure no-one even wants one date with me now don't mind 2
(go on....you laughed at that?) just trying to cheer you up 
funygirl: Glad i made you laugh!!
Not sure if that's for me? Absolutely not laughing at you at all, just at SDB's reply.
Someone who's been turned down as often as I have would never laugh at that!
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